I want to be clear that I am in no way trying to minimize how disappointing it is that Naps allowed this to happen.
But Big Paul, under your scenario, with the child custody/divorce situation ... I think we all would agree that divorces don't usually happen over night, correct? So if I was planning on leaving the old lady and wanted to harm her character, couldn't I order illegal items under her name, without her knowledge, a few months before leaving her, and then turn around and say "look at these orders I found where my wife ordered illegal items, she is not fit to have custody of our children"? Doesn't there have to be proof that the items ever really existed and were in her possession? Otherwise, any one of us could ruin other people's lives by ordering stuff under their name.