Girl "releases" too easily?!?!

[Stretch]

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ManWhore...see the bubblewrap on the floor next to the couch in this pic? I think you actually ended up receiving that...


That little sundress she is wearing in this pic drives me nuts..

 

[Stretch]

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[idmd]

Re: She orgasms too easily?!?!

Boner

 

[Pericles]

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Beautiful. Girls like her have lots of options, that is why you need to keep her interest level high. Dong so is hard w/ quality women, but discipline yourself. Look closely at the PM and links I sent you. Look at how I dealt w/ the "Doll face incident."

W/ a hottie like her you have to be especially careful to spoon feed her. Our instinct is to be w/ her, sex her everyday. Big mistake. It you really have a quality gal who is hot you need to discipline yourself. Only see her once a week. She will, if you are doing things right, want to see you more frequently. Don't do it. At some point she will start pressuring you for more commitment.

IME, this usually happens around the 6-8 week mark. I made my wife wait until the 9 week mark, and during the last 2 weeks I was getting dramatic break up letters, but when I called and asked to see her, she said "yes I am going to fight for you." If you are 100% sure you don't want to see any other women anymore, then agree. Remember, the woman ALWAYS makes these sorts of decisions.

As men we like to think we are in control, but no. The only thing we control is are emotions and behavior (as cf in the last PM I sent you.) As mentioned all you can do is keep her interest level high. Once you agree to be exclusive, stop seeing all other women. You can then start seeing her more often (but still only twice a week) and on the weekends. The message this^ says is that she had to earn your time and commitment. Remember, you are the prize.

Until then, only see her once a week. The phone is ONLY for making dates. Long phone calls=her girl friend. Call her up, do about 3-4 minutes of chit chat, be funny, get her laughing and then get the date. This will teach her that, if she wants to talk to you she has to see you.

Also, and this is critical, do NOT let her live w/ you. Several studies have shown that early cohabitation = more failed relationships. I would go one step further and advise not to live w/ a girl until you marry her. Staying over 1 or 2 nights a week is OK, but set boundaries. She will respect you more if you do so.

 

[Stretch]

Beautiful. Girls like her have lots of options, that is why you need to keep her interest level high. Dong so is hard w/ quality women, but discipline yourself. Look closely at the PM and links I sent you. Look at how I dealt w/ the "Doll face incident."

W/ a hottie like her you have to be especially careful to spoon feed her. Our instinct is to be w/ her, sex her everyday. Big mistake. It you really have a quality gal who is hot you need to discipline yourself. Only see her once a week. She will, if you are doing things right, want to see you more frequently. Don't do it. At some point she will start pressuring you for more commitment.

IME, this usually happens around the 6-8 week mark. I made my wife wait until the 9 week mark, and during the last 2 weeks I was getting dramatic break up letters, but when I called and asked to see her, she said "yes I am going to fight for you." If you are 100% sure you don't want to see any other women anymore, then agree. Remember, the woman ALWAYS makes these sorts of decisions.

As men we like to think we are in control, but no. The only thing we control is are emotions and behavior (as cf in the last PM I sent you.) As mentioned all you can do is keep her interest level high. Once you agree to be exclusive, stop seeing all other women. You can then start seeing her more often (but still only twice a week) and on the weekends. The message this^ says is that she had to earn your time and commitment. Remember, you are the prize.

Until then, only see her once a week. The phone is ONLY for making dates. Long phone calls=her girl friend. Call her up, do about 3-4 minutes of chit chat, be funny, get her laughing and then get the date. This will teach her that, if she wants to talk to you she has to see you.

Also, and this is critical, do NOT let her live w/ you. Several studies have shown that early cohabitation = more failed relationships. I would go one step further and advise not to live w/ a girl until you marry her. Staying over 1 or 2 nights a week is OK, but set boundaries. She will respect you more if you do so.

We met awhile ago but first had a date 3 months ago. I ALWAYS make girls go slow until I know I have my hooks dug in deep. I make make sure they know who is pursuing who.

Last week she was drawing flowers in the dust on my the dashboard of my truck, I immediately asked her to stop without saying why, or letting it sound like a command, it sent the exact message I wanted.

I haven't read the books, but many of the general concepts you show me mainly serve to reinforce things I was doing naturally already. I never shun advice, its welcome.

 

[Pericles]

What you have is natural game, and probably a bit of bad boy thrown in. Women love that, just remember, always be a gentleman. Women will deny the fact that they like bad boys, but they do.

This phenomena is rooted in evolution. A bad boy would kill the food, kill other threats (other men) and increase the the odds that a woman and her offspring would survive.

As long as you are kind, loving and always a gentleman, women are drawn to bad boys. They are drawn to your independence and ability to not bend under pressure. Again, the incident w/ my wife last week that I pmed you about shows how not to lose when a woman tests you, and they do so constantly. When they do, do not get drawn into the argument, that means they manipulated you which=weakness.. Stay calm, keep things light and fun even if you are raging inside.

Finally, don't get too overconfident in the fact that you have natural game, It is a very, very powerful thing to have, but often guys think they do not have t try, since they have nat. game. As you become more in love w/ a woman you will find it increasingly difficult to rely on your nat game. I myself have gotten sloppy, and it cost me.

 

[Stretch]

Finally, don't get too overconfident in the fact that you have natural game, It is a very, very powerful thing to have, but often guys think they do not have t try, since they have nat. game. As you become more in love w/ a woman you will find it increasingly difficult to rely on your nat game. I myself have gotten sloppy, and it cost me

Ahh....this has fucked me before. Everything is going great, she wants me, needs me, sex is great, everything is light for a few weeks, then as I begin to develope actual feelings, I soften, and I can almost watch her desire fade away. I donked off plenty of hotties from the 18-22 y/o age before it began to sink in.

These are the little heartbreaks that caused the developement of whatever game I possess today.

 

[CensoredBoardsSuck]

Ahh....this has fucked me before. Everything is going great, she wants me, needs me, sex is great, everything is light for a few weeks, then as I begin to develope actual feelings, I soften, and I can almost watch her desire fade away. I donked off plenty of hotties from the 18-22 y/o age before it began to sink in.

These are the little heartbreaks that caused the developement of whatever game I possess today.

Man, this thread is hilarious. This thread has more bullshit in it than I've ever seen on Meso. You're talking about the dust on your dashboard having something to do with a love affair; you've got Pericles now thinking he's Giacomo Casanova and some kind of a "bad boy" with a PhD and a blackbelt all rolled into one, writing entire chapters of advice for the lovelorn that's based on a book written for men who are so homely, they couldn't get laid in a whorehouse; and then to top it off you've got a side game of medical jeopardy going on. It's the perfect storm! A perfect bullshit storm! [)]

Seriously, Stretch, thanks for starting this thread. I haven't laughed this hard in a long time. [)]

Since everyone else has given you their thoughts, I'll give mine: Stop thinking about all this nonsense and let the cards fall where they may. You can't manage something as unpredictable as a love relationship by a formula in a book. No wonder PC only screws his girlfriend once a week - he needs the other 6 days to go through the check list and make the proper calculations before copulation can occur - like Nasa planning a shuttle launch. I bet he does a countdown before ejaculating too. Girls get so hot over men that are meticulous planners before sex, you know. It's such a "BAD BOY" thing to do.

So relax and go with it. Nature's going to take its course and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. Enjoy it for what it is and leave the rest to fate. Have fun, my man. That's what a real "bad boy" would do.

CBS
Dr. Love

 

[Stretch]

Boy you sure can add a lot of words to peoples mouths. PC is my friend and if he wants to offer advice so be it. I told him where I agree, I don't want to be a dick like you are, doesn't mean I think he knows everything. Please quote where I said otherwise.

Condescending prick. Do you ever contribute to anything besides arguments here? You're about as deep as your little quips. Little one liners, capping on someone unpopular designed to ingratiate yourself to the cool kids ..nicely done.

 

[Pericles]

Ahh....this has fucked me before. Everything is going great, she wants me, needs me, sex is great, everything is light for a few weeks, then as I begin to develope actual feelings, I soften, and I can almost watch her desire fade away. I donked off plenty of hotties from the 18-22 y/o age before it began to sink in.

These are the little heartbreaks that caused the developement of whatever game I possess today.

Don't feel bad, I had to learn the hard way myself. I have made tons of mistakes. It is cliche, but it is true that pain is the touchstone of growth. One thing I try and always do is stop and think before I act/speak. Ask yourself this: Will what I say elevate her interest level? Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said right now?Does it need to be said by me right now?

 

[Stretch]

So relax and go with it. Nature's going to take its course and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. Enjoy it for what it is and leave the rest to fate. Have fun, my man. That's what a real "bad boy" would do.

CBS
Dr. Love

Is that really what you think? I don't stress about it, but damn if I am just gonna sit back and take what comes to me. I do ABSOLUTELY make sure not to come on too strong, because IT DOES push hot girls away. Put a hot girl on the back burner, and you will get a response, if she's intrigued she will pursue because not too many have given her the cold shoulder previously.

Pericles makes it sound more complicated and deep than I would. For me, "game" amounts to not revealing too much about my emotions initially, and making sure they know I have options. And its a natural thing. Not something I have to think about.

PC goes into way more situational depth, which is why I kept saying I agree....CONCEPTUALLY.

I am NOT overthinking this. This isn't some deep "love relationship".

I'm fucking this girl. She's cool. Period. End of story.

fuck man. This should have been a light, cool thread about sex with pics....and you fucks had to turn it into all this drama....every time it dies...here u come again...unprovoked...showing how witty you are.

 

[Stretch]

Don't feel bad, I had to learn the hard way myself. I have made tons of mistakes. It is cliche, but it is true that pain is the touchstone of growth. One thing I try and always do is stop and think before I act/speak. Ask yourself this: Will what I say elevate her interest level? Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said right now?Does it need to be said by me right now?

Don't u agree tho....that if you are sitting on a date thinking those thoughts...you've already fucked it up?

If I was thinking those things the girl would know....for sure. I couldn't analyze every word I said in that way.

 

[CensoredBoardsSuck]

Boy you sure can add a lot of words to peoples mouths. PC is my friend and if he wants to offer advice so be it. I told him where I agree, I don't want to be a dick like you are, doesn't mean I think he knows everything. Please quote where I said otherwise.

Condescending prick. Do you ever contribute to anything besides arguments here? You're about as deep as your little quips. Little one liners, capping on someone unpopular designed to ingratiate yourself to the cool kids ..nicely done.

Now, Stretch. You're as confused about me as you are matters of the heart. I'm not a fence sitter, unlike some people. I have strong opinions and have no difficulty coming down on one side or the other, no matter whose feathers get ruffled. I've never much cared about trying to ingratiate myself to the "cool kids" (whoever that's supposed to be) or anybody else. I've never felt the need to be loved by everyone. I thought you would have known that about me by now. Perhaps you're comparing me to somebody else?

BTW, you're welcome - for the input to your thread.

CBS
Condescending prick

 

[Stretch]

Now, Stretch. You're as confused about me as you are matters of the heart.

CBS
Condescending prick

Well then, lets get the thread back on track shall we?

Post a pic of your latest conquest....

 

[THE STORM SHADOW]

wow this thread got long fast....

Let me some up each post so nobody has to read them all.

OP: My girl cums a lot and fast
Reply: fuck you
next post: no... fuck you
next: fuck you back
next: fuck you times 3
next: fuck you to infinity .. I win
Next: you win shit
next: oh? fuck you then
next: I fucked 48 women
next: most likely men
next (girl): you're a prick
next: at least I got one
next (girl): only your hand would know
next: fuck you

start over.
next: fuck you back
etc etc etc.

 

[Stretch]

wow this thread got long fast....

Let me some up each post so nobody has to read them all.

OP: My girl cums a lot and fast
Reply: fuck you
next post: no... fuck you
next: fuck you back
next: fuck you times 3
next: fuck you to infinity .. I win
Next: you win shit
next: oh? fuck you then
next: I fucked 48 women
next: most likely men
next (girl): you're a prick
next: at least I got one
next (girl): only your hand would know
next: fuck you

start over.
next: fuck you back
etc etc etc.

Fucking love this post.

Somewhere in there tho you should have posted that there actually were 3 pics of the..."premature evacuator?"[)]....more dick measuring has pushed it back now...but for a minute the thread was fun again..

Edit....shit thanks for this SS. I just posted my reply, then read ur post again, and I'm laughing uncontrollably....u pretty much quoted the whole damn thread..fucking hilarious..

 

[THE STORM SHADOW]

Fucking love this post.

Somewhere in there tho you should have posted that there actually were 3 pics of the..."premature evacuator?"[)]....more dick measuring has pushed it back now...but for a minute the thread was fun again..

Edit....shit thanks for this SS. I just posted my reply, then read ur post again, and I'm laughing uncontrollably....u pretty much quoted the whole damn thread..fucking hilarious..

evil grin... .thank you very much my friend... I'm at work and was laughing at the pc so people came over to see what I was typing and they rolled on the floor too.

 

[THE STORM SHADOW]

 

[DieYoungStrong]

Holy fuck I think I am going to need a shrink after all this. We go from a smoking hot chick who squirts, to internet butthurt, to medical jeopardy, to Dr's arguing with playa's.

WHAT THE FUCK AM I READING???

If you want to be a playa, stop reading books, and take this advice. Treat her like shit in a chivalrous way. If you don't understand what I mean with my oxymoron, you don't get the game. Be prepared to get burned yourself because there's always one out there who's better at the game then you are. Don't fear rejection, the worst she can do is say NO. I would know within a few minutes weather or not I was going to get anywhere with a broad.

When you find the keeper, and I mean the FUCKING KEEPER, treat her like gold - after a lengthy period of treating her just good enough to keep her around. And as the great George Costanza said, you always have to have hand in the relationship.

Now if you would all excuse me, I need to go look up some internet squirt porn and crank one out.

PS - I've never seen a "nice guy" take a woman home from a party or bar. Buy her drinks all night, tell her how good of a guy you are, the good job you have, and have fun going home with your dick in your hand. I'm sure she will let you take her shopping in the morning. When she tells you how good of a guy you are over an ice cream sunday, you are officially friend-zoned, and someone like me will be over an hour after you get your good-bye hug and leave. I'll bring her to McDonalds, let her super size it, and give her a nice mushroom tattoo. She will tell you she tripped at bumped her head when you take her to breakfast in the AM. I'll be watching the football games with my bros. Girls are worse pigs then guys most of the time. They just smell better.

End Rant.

Stretch I can't look at this thread anymore so please feel free to PM me pics

 

[Stretch]

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She went blonde now, which I normally love, but for her I think brunette is best.

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ManWhore...see the bubblewrap on the floor next to the couch in this pic? I think you actually ended up receiving that...


That little sundress she is wearing in this pic drives me nuts..

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Here u go DYS.