I mean yeah. Especially when the kid would be screaming at 1am every night. I’d never get alone time. I’d never have peace, sex would have to be quiet and quick.
What if she didn’t pay her rent?
She never cleans her house it’s a mess.
This kid constantly wants to be between us if we’re together.
She doesn’t buy many groceries id be stuck paying triple price what I pay to feed her and her kid.
Her kid would have to be out through school
I’d have to drive her to and from work cuz she has no car
She’d probably get lazy and be a stay at home mom because she wants to have no responsibilities.
She’d still be cheating.
They’d both be eating my own food and taking from my gym calories.
I wouldn’t be able to focus at work I’d lose my job out of stress.
There would be kid toys ALL over the house and bathroom.
We would never have alone time
I’d be required to actually provide for tHe kid and help raise it. Buy her clothes and stuff.
I wouldn’t be able to watch my own shows because the kid would wanna watch baby shark.
I’d literally move my tv and start sleeping in the extra bedroom and what kinda drama would that cause.
She’s like oh I’ll get a bed so she sleeps in her own room.
Like no she won’t. And it’ll be you me and her every single night. Like if I’m tryna lay with a girl and enjoy myself I’m tryna lay with her, not a child in between us unless I made that child or we adopted that child together? Idk am I fucked yo for saying that? I mean I took the child places and bought her food and Christmas gifts and shit but I don’t feel as I would as if it was my own or it was adopted with my wife. Not some 23 year old mess of a human being who got knocked up out of stupidity and wants me to pick up the pieces.
What if I can’t go workout because I have to watch her. NOOOOO NO NO. Not for me. I don’t even know if I want my own kids after this
I’d have moved from a toxic relationship to a babysitter scenario.
It would be a total fucking shit show. And the kid likes me but I’m sorry I just don’t feel like a father figure right now. I don’t even know my own life yet
EVERYTHING that was a pro in this relationship would be gone. It would no longer be me and her it would be me her and the child. 24/7.
The only reason this lasted as long as it did is because it didn’t register with me about how her and her child are a package deal. Why? Because the kid was gone at the aunts or whatever 5/7 days of the week.
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