While I agree with some statements, however I think that 220 at 6ft+ is not that much, it's more or less athletic and muscular look than bodybuilder.
I honestly don't think everyone looks good below certain bf %. For me a true 7-8% does not look aesthetic.
10-15% body fat range looks the most aesthetic for a lot of people. It is beach lean and what most people would love to look like.
Genetics play here too, for some people being 13-14% is better look and fit for their physiology not to mention their face looks best at this range, so going any lower will give them death face which is definitely not good looking.
Standing at almost 6'2 and weighing 220-225 at 13-14% I feel more muscular and athletic rather than big, bulky, bloated.
I have been leaner but it was not ideal. I think 12% for me is the golden number. So exactly around 220 pounds.
I still think for most people to look their best would be a true 12-14%, not single digit body fat which is not really appealing except for fitness industry people maybe.
I think how you look is 100% fine to achieve. Why? Because it is sustainable and not extreme. The key word is sustainabe: Most of the IG people or bodybuilders are literally .0001% of the population that can maintain at lower bodyfat. They also show us their pics that are not only photoshopped in worse cases, but only captured when they were at their peak; most of the time, they don't even look like that anymore, except for a handful. There is where I agree with Greg Doucette: think of your dream body and accept getting half-way there.
Although I wanted to get to 10% bf, I don't think it would have been easy for me to stay there all year round. Like I mentioned before, we all lose fat in different areas: many people can't see their hamstrings like I can now at 18% of whatever I'm at; while they may not have the hammies popping, they could have a solid six pack.
For me to look
really good, all I need to do is lose the fat around lower stomach and lower back, and it would make a HUGE difference for me...I would have a retarded v-taper with my giant ass back and chest; I would have the old 70's BB beach look if I had my abs showing at all times, without being completely shredded. In fact, I really don't want to be Mr. Veins everywhere; I don't' find that appealing.
What bothers me is that I bust my ass so hard: I don't do drugs, I don't smoke, and I don't drink or party at home or on the weekends: I literally just do the gym all the time, PLUS taking the gear, and I'm just "okay" looking now. My wife says I'm retarded and have body dysmorphia, and I have to agree. If you look at my before-and-after I clearly look 100% better.
Some may argue that my diet is off or something, but it's not: my diet is on point. Granted, it is IIFYM and some will say that's the issue, but it's not. And yes, I do look better than 99% of people in my gym, and perhaps on earth, YES, but this isn't a competition: I want to look good for me, and my goal of being 10-12% would take much longer, than when I started.
I need to reset and trust everyone when they say take a
real break. Part of me is saying I need to keep going harder and deeper, but this wont be sustainable; I have to trust the board and my buddy Gabe; I just have to not fly off the handle and add fat during this process or reverse dieting back to a new maintenance. In fact, if I can rebound with some muscle, it may even look better.