I am ok with infrastructure and military.
There goes your entire post.
Are you also okay with entitlements....social security and medicare?
Military entitlements.
Government/Public sector worker entitlements. Public workers period.
I could go on all day.
There is no such thing as just infrastructure and military spending, it leads to a huge vast web of government spending.
The military is what ensures you go into massive debt and from security minded people you also need to support the police state to ensure you pay your debt as without cops you get lots of people walking away from their burdens. Remember government isn't just protecting from foreign threats, it's really about protecting threats from within as there will be those that question the rulers right to rule and subject.
I know we often speak of freedom, but I'm not sure we aren't far past a point where personal freedom is a figment of imagination. When someone states they want to be left alone, but at the same time wants to be taxed for certain things, I don't think that's based in reality anymore.
I've seen lots of freedom minded people that claim they want to be left alone, but then end up making all these exceptions when it's alright to deny others the right to be left alone or situations where the rights of others shouldn't be considered because it would impose a burden on most of society.
We all want to end the drug war not because we think drugs are so great for people, but because it's a war on people, it never was about drugs. If one was to declare war on drugs, you would expect the government to only confiscate the drugs and destroy them and leave the user or dealer alone.
Can any of us actually even imagine a world were a government can control themselves when presented with the situation of solving a problem without using it as an excuse to further its power.
Libertarian principles are basically dead, society is set up to keep the mindless worker working, the mindless consumer consuming and that is all your purpose is to this government. It's a system rigged for maximum exploitation through carefully picking winners and losers as the government moves the pawns around to maximize their power and wealth.