The unloved old usually drown the sorry in toddies......Excuse me, Ive got to go top off my drink.
It is sad to see someone old and alone in that way. They begin to live kinda in the moment. Enjoying a decent conversation or laugh with a stranger. No longer expecting anything real from life. Bad choice's are (usually) the cause.
Most old people who FEEL unloved are the disillusioned. Life on earth can be wonderful or beautiful or sad and lonely. That is the choice God has given us. If....we made "Bad choice's", we usually pay for that choice through some kind of a negative consequence.
God, does not make bad choices and he never makes a mistake, but God gave us choices and that is where the rub is...If your life is wrapped up in your job, when that job ends, you will be "sad"...If you believe in God, your job is your job and the loss of it requires an adjustment. Not necessarily a "sad" aspect in your life. I know it is hard to comprehend for the unbelieving, but a true faith or trust in God will remove the sadness. The true believer knows what comes next and it is so much more than a 'Dirt Nap' as many describe it.
The bottom line is...God has given us so much more out of LOVE. We get to choose whether we want to be sad or happy. It is not our marriage, it is not our job, it is not our children, it is not our wealth of things or money. It is our relationship with God, our Creator. When all of the aforementioned are either, "Not Enough" or they are "Gone", we will be "sad", without that relationship with our Creator.
There have been a lot of posts in this thread about "Religion/s". Religion has nothing to do with our relationship with God. Most religions perpetuate mans ego in one form or another. That is a lot different than the "Church". - The Church that God refers to is the church in Christ. Not the "Church of Christ"
God only wanted an intimate relationship with Man, His Creation, so he came to earth in the form of Man (Jesus Christ), died for our sins and gave us the certainty of 'Life after Death' through His resurrection from death.
Christ did not come to earth as a Baptist, Pentecostal, Evangelical, Catholic...Well you get the idea. He came to earth as a Man, a man like us, to pay the price for mans (our) sin, so that Man (We) could have the relationship with God that God intended for us in the first place. So forget about all your distaste with religion, the money grubbers, the holy rollers etc., and get back to the simplicity of your relationship with God. All of the facts about this can be found in the 66 books of the "Word of God", that He inspired Man to write down for us so we would not only know how to act, but have reason to act...Yes, the 66 books are a manual..."How To Have a Relationship With God"
No...when you are young or old and your job is gone, or your wife has passed or your children are gone, you don't have to be "Sad" or "Alone". Read the manual, forget about "religion" and get in touch with God. I know already what some of you are thinking. For everyone that says "I don't believe in God". He, God, believes in you!
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