Okay, I'll join the discussion so that I'm not "stupid".
My girlfriends family walks on water...adn if you don't believe them just ask them. They eat, sleep, breathe, and shit religion 24/7. She and I are just the opposite. It's not that I'm against organized religion, but rather that I cannot stand the hypocrisy associated with all of the religious zealots that preach to me day in and day out.
Here are some examples:
1) My g/f's step mom and I got into a "heated duscussion" about whether or not God actually exists. I personally believe in God, but I don't feel that I need to go to a building and talk to a total stranger and give him money in order for Jeses to accept me. Anyways, she asked me why I didn't believe in God (I was playing devils advocate here). I said "well, I have a science background and I usually require physical evidence before I believe something wholeheartedly." I then asked her "why do you believe in God?" She says "...because he's changed my life." I said "how so?". She said..."he just has, I can't explain it." I say "if you can't explain it than how do you know that it was God that changed your life and not your own inner desires to change who you are for the better?" She says..."you can just 'FEEL' God's presence all around you...haven't you ever felt God around you?" I said "no, I don't think I ever have". And she says "I pity you."
YOU PITY ME???? Why, because I don't worship your God day and night, all day every day???
2) 2 years ago, my g/f and I were at her mom's and stepdad's house for thanksgiving dinner. Now her mom and her stepdad are the biggest hypocrites in the fucking world. I sat there for a fucking hour listening to her stepdad preach about how he knew for a fact that all of the social woes in this country are a result of TV, music, and video games. I tend to blame it on family values and a lack of parental guidance/supervision, but that's a whole other discussion. Anyways, this dude proceeds to tell me that because I curse, drink, and don't attend church on a regular basis that my soul is probably damned to hell for all eternity. That pissed me off, so I responded with "well, I'll meet you there". And he says, how do you figure that?? I say "because I'm not the one on my third marriage, I've never committed adultery, and I've never raised a son that ended up in jail for beating his woman up......so you are by no means perfect".
It is shit like that that makes me despise certain aspects of religion more and more as time goes on. I hear one thing, adn I see something totally different.