I’m Trying To Raise My Kids As Homosexuals (And I Never Even Have To Say ‘Gay’)

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"How am I attempting this? Well, it’s simple: I learned how from watching straight people enforce a sexual orientation on their kids without ever saying 'straight.'"

By
Allegra Hirschman
Apr. 2, 2022, 09:00 AM EDT

"At first I thought this heterophilia forced on kids was disgusting, until it gave me the fantastic idea that I could also raise my children with a preferred sexual orientation from the very beginning of their lives," the author writes.How am I attempting to raise my kids as homosexuals, you ask?

Well, it’s simple: I learned how from watching straight people enforce a sexual orientation on their children without ever saying “straight.”



One of the most amazing things about cisgender straight people is that most of them think they don’t have a sexual orientation or a gender identity. A major premise of Florida’s recently passed “Don’t Say Gay” bill is that children should be sheltered from discussions of sexual orientation, and in many ways, I, a queer mom married to a woman, actually agree with this. That also goes for gender identity too ― I think it would be amazing if schools stopped teaching gender as an innate expression stemming from what is in one’s pants. And I believe young children can learn all about love and family and different family structures without needing to have it framed in ways that are overly sexual or romantic. But that’s not how straight society likes to play.

The ironic twist regarding this legislation is that mainstream straight culture enjoys aggressively (hetero)sexualizing young children in ways that, if LGBTQ people did it, we would be labeled perverts, extremists and child abusers. And yet heterosexual grooming ― a term I coined for this phenomenon ― is so constant and ubiquitous most people don’t even notice it.

What is heterosexual grooming?

It’s a set of practices and expectations based on a child’s assigned gender at birth, which promotes the formation of a romantic and possessive relationship between “opposite sex” children and their parents. As soon as these straight parents find out if they have a “penis baby” or a “vagina baby,” they seem to be obsessed with the idea of a romantic bond forming with the parent who has different genitals from the baby.

I find this really upsetting. It not only sexualizes children but it does so in the context of family. Yuck. And, yah, perhaps applying the term “heterosexual grooming” to this practice sounds a bit harsh, but gay marriage is constantly likened to bestiality, so maybe we all just need a thicker skin, right?

Before everyone freaks out about any of this, let me take a moment to say “not all straight people.” But if you are a straight person who is feeling defensive, I suggest you explore that defensiveness. Is it perhaps because you are so accustomed to being part of ― and promoting ― a multigenerational zealous and omnipresent offense for Team Straight without even noticing that you’re doing it? That’s because this problem is systemic and it’s a system straight and cisgender people benefit from and uphold.



Of course, you can actively opt out, but that’s a conscious choice that takes a lot of work. Many parents think they say “gay,” but they don’t do it often, and they never do when talking about their kids’ sexualities. They may love and discuss LGBTQ adults in their life, but they imagine and believe their kids, or the kids they know, are straight and cisgender. Even in the most liberal of households, most kids will be raised as straight until they come out as otherwise. Yes, there remains a high statistical likelihood that your children will end up straight and cis, but they are way more likely to be LGBTQ than they are to be a doctor or a lawyer or a professional athlete, and plenty of folks are able to picture (and hope for) those futures for their kids.

What is most disturbing about heterosexual grooming is how young a child is when it begins and how aggressively it is often carried out throughout the course of a child’s life. This “father of the bride-ing” business starts when infants from heterosexual families are brought home from the hospital in tiny onesies with slogans like “Daddy’s Girl” and “Sorry, boys! Daddy says no dating.” Kids assigned male at birth may end up in a “Sorry, girls! My heart belongs to mommy” or a “Boob Man” tiny tee. I know, I know, this is all in good fun ― if your idea of “fun” is strategically forcing a sexual orientation on children before they can say “Dada” or “Mama.”

And it doesn’t stop when children become verbal. Toddlers are apparently major heterosexual flirts. From the way some adults talk, these kids always seem to know to make eyes at anyone who has a different set of genitals from their own. How they fine tune this ability at such a young age, my own bisexual brain can’t comprehend. It’s almost as if parents are just willfully creating a world where there is only one way to be and they project that onto their children.
“Many parents think they say 'gay,' but they don’t do it often, and they never do when talking about their kids’ sexualities. They may love and discuss LGBTQ adults in their life, but they imagine and believe their kids or the kids they know are straight and cisgender. Even in the most liberal of households, most kids will be raised as straight until they come out as otherwise.”
This blind indoctrination continues in elementary school and further into adolescence with daughter/daddy dances, overprotective father culture, and teasing kids that they are each other’s boyfriend/girlfriend if they have friends who are the “opposite sex.” Even in adulthood, there’s this idea that daddy never wants to be replaced by another man and that no woman will ever be good enough for mom’s perfect boy. It blows my mind that mainstream hetero society decided to take all of their twisted Freudian business and treat it like a public to-do list rather than save it for therapy.

At first I thought this heterophilia forced on kids was disgusting, until it gave me the fantastic idea that I could also raise my children with a preferred sexual orientation from the very beginning of their lives. Although I am bi, my wife and I chose to go full-on homo with our kids — and let me tell you, I think it’s working!

As soon as we got our daughter home, she was obsessed with boobs ― beyond the milk thing. She was a “Boob Man.” As she grew up, most of her friends in preschool were girls and we just knew that there was “something more” between them. As soon as she was old enough, we signed her up for softball so she could meet other LGBToddlers. Turns out she’s more of a high femme. Oh well, we’ll let her quit as soon as she finds a girlfriend ― or maybe a wife. (LOL! Moms can dream, right?) It has been a little awkward when kids talk about their straight dads and moms at school ― if only they could keep that lifestyle to themselves! ― but we quickly dismiss that kind of talk by telling her, “That’s just something kids say.”

Now, because we’re a two-mom family, making sure our son is gay is trickier. But we already have a perfect husband picked out for him ― another boy his age (hi, Emilio). They even kissed once through the bars of their cribs. They couldn’t speak yet, but why would that stop us from knowing they had a spark? We’re doing whatever we can to encourage his gayness ― like only letting him listen to show tunes and Britney Spears (no “Baby Shark” for our little queerspawn) ― and we’re crossing our fingers that all this hard work will pay off.

What’s amazing is that we can do all this without ever actually saying the word “gay.” We just have to make sure that our kids understand that the only appropriate desire they can have is desire for their same gender.



Sadly, because our culture privileges and prioritizes straight and cis identities, it’s not only those folks who assume the world ― and the future ― is hetero and cisgender. LGBTQ people have rarely been told that we have a future to imagine or claim for ourselves. We have been denied legacy. Our histories are hidden. Our contributions are denied. Our lives are demeaned. Our love is labeled dangerous. Because of this, many LGBTQ people still believe we would have to be straight or cis to have a future worth living and legislation like the “Don’t Say Gay” bill reminds us how truly vulnerable we are.

Ultimately, I think some of the politicians and parents who support the “Don’t Say Gay” bill believe if we don’t talk about the LGBTQ community to kids, then they won’t figure out they are a part of it. We know that’s not how it works. No matter what parents or other role models do, you can’t “make” someone gay, or bi, or trans, or anything else. I wrote this piece as satire to make a point ― even if my wife and I actually spent every waking moment trying to force a “gay agenda” on our kids, they may still turn out straight. But that’s not what any of this is really about.

The truth is, growing up in a world where you don’t see examples of yourself because everything systemically favors straight and cis people ― or where people like you are erased or barred from being taught about in schools ― has consequences. You believe you aren’t worthy of being seen or heard and that can lead to believing you shouldn’t even be here. On the other hand, if we embrace LGBTQ adults and families and kids are taught about our lives and history, kids will feel safe to be themselves. That actually might mean that more kids end up coming out as some part of the LGBTQ community and that will mean we end up with more LGBTQ people. But it’s not because learning about us made them LGBTQ. It just means it made them feel OK to be exactly who they are — and gay, or straight, or any other identity, really, that’s what we should all want for our kids, isn’t it?

Allegra Hirschman is a San Franciscan who moved during the pandemic to a New England suburb with her wife, two little ones and a mini-goldendoodle, Cupcake. She is a writer, multimedia storyteller, outspoken bisexual and flash mob initiator. You can find her occasionally commenting under the unfortunate twitter handle @allegrahirschma.

 
I'll bet the women that wrote this article is judgmental towards others that don't meet her standards outside of sexuality.

If she has no bias, prejudice or just no preference then she's an impressive person, but I think if you met her you'd find someone that judges people.

People that are different want to be accepted, but that's only part of the problem. Elitism creeps into everything in our society and I have yet to meet an actual person in my lifetime that doesn't have this blind spot. I've yet to meet anyone that doesn't have a long list of things they value and things they look down on and the older I get the more I see it all around me. It would be better to teach people to relax and stop getting so uptight about pointless shit.

As far as what they teach in schools, I would say it's time to consider doing away with public schools altogether and moving to private schools. I'm not against having standardized testing one can use to establish a mastery of the material, but public education as we know it needs to be completely flushed down the toilet. The education system is a racket, big business, big taxes, big waste of money and resources. Looking at kids as something you can mold and shape is kind of sadistic, indoctrinating and programming seems to have been the long term goal of the educational system both public and private, I don't think these kids are getting the quality education they need to spot the bullshit.
 
As far as what they teach in schools, I would say it's time to consider doing away with public schools altogether and moving to private school
I'd rather just improve public education and let kids figureout their own identity. Every kid deserves a quality education, not just those who can afford one.

The voter will sort out this issue in the next election.
 
God help us. We need way more biologists in the workforce apparently.
Biology isn't gonna solve this issue. That deals with sex, that's more or less accepted by the LGBTQ+ community.

Gender is societies role assigned to your sex and that is fluid based on how much a person wants to resist accepting the expectation of their biological sex. The key word here is expectation.

The Gender debate is a hot one mostly because of all the sensational stuff like males competing against females, which I honestly support because it's funny as hell. For years women have been claiming they can do anything a male can only better and now they're getting a taste of reality. Dignity and self-esteem crap out when you've been telling yourself a lie for years only to be put to the test and realize you were delusional. It's a real wake up call that was needed so I applaud the Lebron James of the world that will put on a skirt and kick some ass.

Lets be honest what we're dealing with. This is just a sophisticated garbled up language for the everyday average cross dresser. The man that likes to ram a butt plug up his rectum and put on a nice pair of crotchless silk panties and a dress and strut his stuff. We've all seen these types of people in real life, it's a little comedy to liven up your day.

The truth is this comes back to belief. I believe I'm something so I am. That's a sort of mysticism.

I believe I'm an alien from another planet so I am. I believe I'm the smartest man to ever live, so I am. I believe I have the biggest penis on the planet so it is.

The problem is if you sit down and you try to define what it means to believe in all this nonsense it's impossible. It requires a mystical philosophical ramble that only ends up tying your brain in knots.

The LGBTQ are obsessed with emotional attraction. We have normally emphasized physical attraction probably due to passing on certain genes, but this community believes it more important to find the love of your life based on how you feel as opposed to what draws the attention of your eyes connected to a brain that recognizes good breeding stock.

What it all comes down to is "mass psychology and propaganda". Bombard a society with a message, hit them while their young and you'll be able to raise up an army of rejects that will completely fuck the world as we know it. This isn't just sexual preference and identity, this is everything and anything you want to turn upside down, it can make it so you truly live out the absurd, but not for a few moments of dread, but for every hour of the day.
 
I'd rather just improve public education and let kids figureout their own identity. Every kid deserves a quality education, not just those who can afford one.

The voter will sort out this issue in the next election.
The public education system doesn't give a shit about educating. It takes a few gifted kids and gives them quality education and the rest of them get meager rations of finger painting K-12.

It's not about what you can afford, we've turned the educational system into a slot machine where you dump endless quarters, only to have the occasional winner and whole lot of losers.

I'm tired of seeing all these kids flushed down the toilet. Allow them to at least experience what it's like to get a real education and exposure to topics they'd never get in the public school system. The entire mess needs to end, it's child abuse at this point.
 
The public education system doesn't give a shit about educating. It takes a few gifted kids and gives them quality education and the rest of them get meager rations of finger painting K-12.

It's not about what you can afford, we've turned the educational system into a slot machine where you dump endless quarters, only to have the occasional winner and whole lot of losers.

I'm tired of seeing all these kids flushed down the toilet. Allow them to at least experience what it's like to get a real education and exposure to topics they'd never get in the public school system. The entire mess needs to end, it's child abuse at this point.

The public school system is where the state first begins to create slaves that are subservient to it's authority.

Public schools are prisons for the mind.
 
The public school system is where the state first begins to create slaves that are subservient to it's authority.

Public schools are prisons for the mind.
I think most of what public schools do is babysitting for parents.

Work is prison for adults.

School is prison for kids.

It's one of the reasons they ask. Are you employed and how much education do you have. In other words how acclimated are you to the prison industrial complex, if you can check off lots of education and a clean work record you can be certified as a obedient lapdog.

You know what pisses me off about my own education. I hated all of my female teachers, everyone one of them was an old sour bitch while I was growing up, but I always got along with my male teachers in science courses, but I despised creative writing and poetry, it made me cringe.

We need all boy schools with all male teachers, boys are being turned into girls in American classrooms, it just doesn't work and the government knows it and yet they continue pushing women to get more and more education while young men are told to hit the road after high school.

From my perspective you might as well just collapse the entire educational system because it's obviously failing men and if it is, as a man myself I'd rather see it burned to the ground then continue to pump out the crap it's been pumping out for the past decade.

It's time to burn feminised curriculums to the ground and replace them with testosterone fueled competitiveness and leadership, get them outdoors, hands dirty in the labs, designing and building, teach them that being a strong male is important. You can't balance education between the genders, men don't do well being educated according the the traits of women, it does nothing other than alienate and frustrate boys and young men.
 
Touchy subject, this one.

I want to start by saying I don't care who you are or what you do as long as you don't try to force it on me and all parties are consenting.

Instead of making this about the writer, I'd rather make this about the false narrative "Don't say gay" bill and what it's really trying to accomplish.

It's what you won't hear on the TV.

It's just a bill that prohibits schools from discussing sexual orientation to pre-k through grade 3.

That's it.

This is a 51 second video of Desantis giving it to a reporter repeating this mainstream media false narrative to keep the truth spun-


View: https://youtu.be/nXjB30rAUbw


There is some serious shit going on in these schools that they don't want people to know.

What opinion do you ladies and gents hold of the current school system and teaching kindergarteners sex education. Not the old sex education, the new one with 140 different genders. Parents don't want this stuff forced on their kids.

There is more going on than most realize as you will see as the thread progresses.
 
I'd rather just improve public education and let kids figureout their own identity. Every kid deserves a quality education, not just those who can afford one.

The voter will sort out this issue in the next election.
We agree.

Right now the education system is shit. Some places worse than others. It wasn't always like this though, at least not when I went. Of course that was decades ago.

It would be a long hard road to fix it, same as the rest of the world. Many years of a slow descent can't be fixed overnight. I'm not even sure how they would handle the bigger cities with higher poverty rates and gang ridden.

Seems impossible but start by pulling one thread at a time I guess.

And yes, there are way too many people out there that can't put food on the table and pay bills let alone pay for private schooling.

I believe change is coming everywhere but most of it has to come from the ground up with the people voting.
 
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We agree.

Right now the education system is shit. Some places worse than others. It wasn't always like this though, at least not when I went. Of course that was decades ago.

It would be a long hard road to fix it, same as the rest of the world. Many years of a slow descent can't be fixed overnight. I'm not even sure how they would handle the bigger cities with higher poverty rates and gang ridden.

Seems impossible but start by pulling one thread at a time I guess.

And yes, there are way too many people out there that can't put food on the table and pay bills let alone pay for private schooling.

I believe change is coming everywhere but most of it has to come from the ground up with the people voting.
I feel like I'm open minded. I really don't care how any adult, I will avoid applicable pronouns, lives his or her life, but leave kids and teens the fuck alone.

School should be about education not sexual preference. Give an inch and the mfs want to take a mile.

It is a shame that a small radical minority could hold sway over a major political party. It sickens me. It will cost them dearly in upcoming elections because most feel they exercise no common sense.
 
Diversity is the obsession of the modern public educator.

Many of these teachers were those picked on and marginalized growing up and now they have become teachers and will exact their revenge as they teach little billy that his rectum isn't just for taking a shit.
 
The irony is, kids are supposedly (and rightfully so) not able to make judgment calls at their age, but then people want to raise them in a way that they're presumably supposed to make a judgement call at their age. I'm no millenial or Gen Z, my generation were raised the good old fashioned way, and I never had a problem accepting diversity of any kind as an adult, so why do people feel the need to raise their kids in a way that leaves them all confused early on in their lives?!
"If it ain't broke, don't fix" - works for me!!
 
This is just another piece of the globalist puzzle. The govt needs the education system to teach these kids at a young age. It's what they do in communist/authoritarian dictatorships.

The govt will be offering free pre-k so they can get started on them early.

They may be a small minority but they have the ability to control the minds of our children and make them into what they want them to be. They are very important in the shaping/indoctrinating of the new world order/reset.

We have kids that can name 140 different genders but can't spell gender.

They are dumbing these kids down on purpose. They need a country of sheep or at least one that they can keep their thumbs on. It's the only way a dictatorship works.

Ok, now for some bullshit that if you haven't seen or heard about yet, it's gonna throw you. This first video I ended up shutting off because I didn't want to hear it.

It's a school library book, note that it's about a kid that gets a mowing job at disney. It talks about 10 year olds sucking each other off.

Seriously...


View: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=842853579927334&ref=sharing


WTF!!!

It doesn't matter if it's 2 boys, 2 girls or a boy and a girl, this bullshit should not be in our schools. This is where the media is spinning "don't say gay" trying to say it's against gay people but it's against any sexual acts at all regardless of who you are or what sexual preference you have.

Only pedos dig this shit and they are in the middle of normalizing this in the classrooms.

This was the first video, there's going to be more similar to this.

This one packed the most WTF in all the videos, at least until we get to the coverups of trans boys in schools cornering girls in bathrooms and doing shit to them, which is a bit longer.

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A 9th grade girl was sexually assaulted at school by a boy in a skirt in the girls bathroom in may. This month he was arrested again for the same thing at another school.

The schoolboard covered it up because they were pushing transgender bathrooms and got busted. They covered it up, transferred him then he did it again.


View: https://fb.watch/8DvK_-Rsjj/



The father was arrested at the schoolboard meeting for trying to speak up about his daughter and is now the new face of domestic terror.

It's all possible because Loudoun county has a soros backed prosecutor-


The school board knew it, they were too busy trying to pass transgender bathrooms at the schools.




View: https://fb.watch/8XNLKS484W/
 
Pulled my son out of school a cpl years ago and he did online school. Stupid me, thinking I could escape the bullshit agenda with online classes, but after overhearing one of his idiot fuckhead teachers talking abt LGBT half the class one day rather than actually teaching the subject he was supposed to be teaching, I said enough is enough! I walked over to my sons computer and saw this fucking faggot with bed-head, dressed in pajamas going on and on about lgbt nonsense, and I was so irate that I pulled him out of class and told the idiot teacher that my son would log back on when he was done talking abt this garbage and decided that he wanted to teach English class.

I went online and looked at private schools in the area, and immediately enrolled him in a Christian based private school. I don’t care if it took me working 2 jobs to pay for that school, after seeing the difference between bullshit public school and this place, I would never send him back to public school! Not only does the new school avoid teaching nonsense, but they don’t put up with bullies, idiots disrupting class, or parents that come to the school defending their bastard kids who act out of line! You either get with the program or leave. No kids bringing weapons to school, nobody dealing drugs, and nobody stealing shit. All that public school nonsense that can cause headaches is a thing of the past. It sucks you have to pay so much to keep kids away from the nonsense now, but fuck if I ever send my son back to public school, and this post is a good reminder why!
 
This is just another piece of the globalist puzzle. The govt needs the education system to teach these kids at a young age. It's what they do in communist/authoritarian dictatorships.

The govt will be offering free pre-k so they can get started on them early.

They may be a small minority but they have the ability to control the minds of our children and make them into what they want them to be. They are very important in the shaping/indoctrinating of the new world order/reset.

We have kids that can name 140 different genders but can't spell gender.

They are dumbing these kids down on purpose. They need a country of sheep or at least one that they can keep their thumbs on. It's the only way a dictatorship works.

Ok, now for some bullshit that if you haven't seen or heard about yet, it's gonna throw you. This first video I ended up shutting off because I didn't want to hear it.

It's a school library book, note that it's about a kid that gets a mowing job at disney. It talks about 10 year olds sucking each other off.

Seriously...


View: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=842853579927334&ref=sharing


WTF!!!

It doesn't matter if it's 2 boys, 2 girls or a boy and a girl, this bullshit should not be in our schools. This is where the media is spinning "don't say gay" trying to say it's against gay people but it's against any sexual acts at all regardless of who you are or what sexual preference you have.

Only pedos dig this shit and they are in the middle of normalizing this in the classrooms.

This was the first video, there's going to be more similar to this.

This one packed the most WTF in all the videos, at least until we get to the coverups of trans boys in schools cornering girls in bathrooms and doing shit to them, which is a bit longer.

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So glad we don’t have to deal with this sort of shit in private school. I would work 2 or 3 jobs if I had to in order to keep my son away from the nonsense!
 
Pulled my son out of school a cpl years ago and he did online school. Stupid me, thinking I could escape the bullshit agenda with online classes, but after overhearing one of his idiot fuckhead teachers talking abt LGBT half the class one day rather than actually teaching the subject he was supposed to be teaching, I said enough is enough! I walked over to my sons computer and saw this fucking faggot with bed-head, dressed in pajamas going on and on about lgbt nonsense, and I was so irate that I pulled him out of class and told the idiot teacher that my son would log back on when he was done talking abt this garbage and decided that he wanted to teach English class.

I went online and looked at private schools in the area, and immediately enrolled him in a Christian based private school. I don’t care if it took me working 2 jobs to pay for that school, after seeing the difference between bullshit public school and this place, I would never send him back to public school! Not only does the new school avoid teaching nonsense, but they don’t put up with bullies, idiots disrupting class, or parents that come to the school defending their bastard kids who act out of line! You either get with the program or leave. No kids bringing weapons to school, nobody dealing drugs, and nobody stealing shit. All that public school nonsense that can cause headaches is a thing of the past. It sucks you have to pay so much to keep kids away from the nonsense now, but fuck if I ever send my son back to public school, and this post is a good reminder why!
Good for you man. There are many kids still in school and their parents don't care or don't take the time to see what is going on. Hats off man.

For a short period they started to get the FBI involved and labeled parents as "domestic terrorists" for speaking out against this bullshit going on in schools.

Here is biden's attorney general merrick garland getting busted using counter terrorism tools to target concerned parents that didn't want sex and crt pushed in the classroom-

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Here is the national school board association (NSBA) trying to get out of it after the shit hit the fan-


Here are some examples-




 
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