I'd think a man who claims to be an anarchist would understand that no such thing as "rights" exist in any modern sense of the word.
Nothing is ever a question of "rights"
A man has a right to anything he's capable of taking, and keeping. Culture has nothing to do with it whatsoever. The threat of force and capability to resist, along with the necessity for superiors to buy cooperation from subordinates are the sole determinants of what "rights" any peoples have. And that holds true for any culture that has ever existed in human history.
A man who claims to be an anarchist ought to see that truth as evident
You got alot of contradiction in your own beliefs, and might be alot things.
But an anarchist, is definitely not one of them. No moreso than your skinny jeans wearing philosophers writing from comfortable positions of privilege in liberal citadels of power. Save for the fact that they more than likely pump that garbage out for you to believe. Because I doubt they do. Like you, they are not anarchists. But leftists
I'm not going to get into a pissing contest about Anarcho philosophy.
There's an entire gamut of philosophy available, free for you to read.
Anarchist can have rules to keep their community from doing things that harm the community. Just like you have rules for your family members so you don't step on each others toes.
If someone is murdering, raping, stealing, you can take direct action. Anarchist in no way are opposed to violence to protect themselves. You don't become a pacifist when you see state power as wrong, matter of fact the historical Anarchist can be quite violent.
If you go back to the early Anarchist writers of the mid 19th century you will find them questioning kings, queens, sometimes bombing them, murdering them. You will find industrialists scared to death of anarchists, often hiring their own private police force to protect them. It's a fascinating history that spans into the United States when workers during the early 1900's were treated like slaves, men, women and children forced to work in these factories under the most grueling conditions going home to a shack and poverty with barely enough to eat, while the rich industrialists lived a life of luxury.
You will find the early anarchist warning that if Marxism was given state control it would turn into a dictatorship in a very short time and they were right. Why did Lenin round up 200 anarchist writers and have them shot, because he knew Anarchism was a threat to his Bolshevik revolution and he knew these guys would be the first to critique his heavy handed methods.
Our own country rounded up Anarchist in the early 1900's and had them exiled, some were sent to Russia, these Anarchist later wrote against Communism as they saw it first hand and knew they were on a short list to be murdered if they didn't get the hell out of there. So France became the stomping grounds for many of these exiles that spent the rest of their lives writing.
Read up on it, you might find you actually enjoy the Anarcho philosophy, a group of men and some women that worked like dogs, weren't scared of physical hard work. No skinny jean wearing here, just men trying to get the state off their back and get rid of a hierarchy that allowed nobility and the rich to rule and work them to death.
The early Anarchism primarily rose out of the social question. Early capitalism was making their lives miserable, the rich were well off and everyone else worked to an early death. It was a fight for their very lives and a desperate attempt to balance power that had become heavily lopsided.