I was thinking the same thing. I would say that you know how it is, but you married your high school sweet heart. I've let go of 3 women in my life that I shouldn't of and this is one of them. If she wouldn't of went out and had 2 kids since our break up then she might be my wife today. Anyway kids arnt a deal breaker with me but being as I have none of my own yet yeah it does kinda suck to be rasing someone else's kids. Especially when those kids dad is a piece of shit. I'll probably end up in prison if I ever see him. It won't be pretty that's for fucking sure. He used to beat on her. Fuck I'm getting pissed just thinking about it. Where's the iron? Awe fuck it im going to get laid again. Nah actually she's taking a nap. Who knows though we had a blast today and laughed all day long so I see something good coming from this.
Actually it sounds like those kids need a man like you and its pretty obvious you still care for her. So, what are you waiting for man??? Put a ring on that girls finger.