Ok lets see your ladies!!!

[Oldschool]

Oh man, you crack me up. This should be fun.

Neither of my parents came from broken homes nor were they immigrants. They were both born in SoCal. I have multiple relative couples that have all been married for 50-60 + years.

No, I didn’t come from a broken home. My parents had a great relationship, were very active in our local church and were very much in love. However my mother actually died in a very horrific car accident caused by a POS who swerved over into her lane and hit her head on at 65+ mph and crushed her. She died in the life-flight helicopter On the way to the hospital. I never saw violence.

My parents to the best of my knowledge never played any sports. I was the only child - the youngest of 3 - that ever really played in sports. I was good, especially at baseball, and pretty good at basketball, going on to play in JC. I actually excelled at academics. I was an honor roll, honor society, high-GPA student that got mostly straight A’s, photographic memory so I never had to study too hard.

- I’ve never hit a woman in my life, not even one that walked up and right-hooked me in the face (my female friend had broken her nose in a 1 - my friend - on 5 fight) as she was pissed, I stood there and let her do it, only got pissed because she got blood all over me. Still didn’t hit her. I’ve never abused an animal in my life. Grew up in the country in WA on 9 acres, had everything from dogs and cats to horses, geese and a goat and myself a ferret and iguana.

- unless you consider Zara, CK, Kenneth Cole, Adidas, Nike, American Eagle, UA, etc designer clothes, nope. I never ever wear a watch.

- I have a BMW, yes. But it’s not new and as a previous finance manager for Ford & Hyundai, I’m not all about name-brand cars, because I know you pay for the name. Bought mine used and own it because I like how it drives. I do not drive stock vehicles, however.

- I have done illegal drugs in my younger days when I partied a lot and was heavily involved with production and promotion of events (was part of Insomniac Events back in the late 90s - early 00s). Now I only take prescription medication because my body has betrayed me.

- my sister is one of my best friends and someone I’m extremely close to. My parents live about 1500 miles away, so I don’t see them often but talk to them weekly.

- I have an 18-year-old daughter, so Xmas and Thanksgiving have always been very important. They’re typically spent with a large part of our extended family.

Would you like me to contradict you anymore, Dr. Phil?

 

[LeoTC]

Oh man, you crack me up. This should be fun.

Neither of my parents came from broken homes nor were they immigrants. They were both born in SoCal. I have multiple relative couples that have all been married for 50-60 + years.

No, I didn’t come from a broken home. My parents had a great relationship, were very active in our local church and were very much in love. However my mother actually died in a very horrific car accident caused by a POS who swerved over into her lane and hit her head on at 65+ mph and crushed her. She died in the life-flight helicopter On the way to the hospital. I never saw violence.

My parents to the best of my knowledge never played any sports. I was the only child - the youngest of 3 - that ever really played in sports. I was good, especially at baseball, and pretty good at basketball, going on to play in JC. I actually excelled at academics. I was an honor roll, honor society, high-GPA student that got mostly straight A’s, photographic memory so I never had to study too hard.

- I’ve never hit a woman in my life, not even one that walked up and right-hooked me in the face (my female friend had broken her nose in a 1 - my friend - on 5 fight) as she was pissed, I stood there and let her do it, only got pissed because she got blood all over me. Still didn’t hit her. I’ve never abused an animal in my life. Grew up in the country in WA on 9 acres, had everything from dogs and cats to horses, geese and a goat and myself a ferret and iguana.

- unless you consider Zara, CK, Kenneth Cole, Adidas, Nike, American Eagle, UA, etc designer clothes, nope. I never ever wear a watch.

- I have a BMW, yes. But it’s not new and as a previous finance manager for Ford & Hyundai, I’m not all about name-brand cars, because I know you pay for the name. Bought mine used and own it because I like how it drives. I do not drive stock vehicles, however.

- I have done illegal drugs in my younger days when I partied a lot and was heavily involved with production and promotion of events (was part of Insomniac Events back in the late 90s - early 00s). Now I only take prescription medication because my body has betrayed me.

- my sister is one of my best friends and someone I’m extremely close to. My parents live about 1500 miles away, so I don’t see them often but talk to them weekly.

- I have an 18-year-old daughter, so Xmas and Thanksgiving have always been very important. They’re typically spent with a large part of our extended family.

Would you like me to contradict you anymore, Dr. Phil?

Was waiting for it, wasn't disappointed. XD

 

[legendary]

 

[Sworder]

Would you like me to contradict you anymore, Dr. Phil?

I am not doing this to try to "get you." It is more about "look how predictable we are because we all have the same problems."

If anything, PM me and we can talk about this shit and try to learn from each other.

That goes for anybody reading this.

We all have behavioral issues, they indicate red flags. I think I know the root cause to most these red flags. It would make me extremely happy to be able to help my fellow peers to improve their personal life and their life with their family.

I hope I can help somebody that is in the struggle!

 

[Sworder]

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That is somebody's daughter. Show some respect please.

 

[LeoTC]

That is somebody's daughter. Show some respect please.

 

[IronJulius]

That is somebody's daughter. Show some respect please.

You show some respect to this thread and post your gf, wife, side chick, both or your mom

 

[Sworder]

@LeoTC
Too sad! She is beautiful, no need for the fake tits and all that. This is the type of shit that creates insecurities in women. A bunch of hungry dogs drooling off unrealistic body images.

Thanks for contributing to the destruction of our sisters, mothers and daughters.

 

[Sworder]

You show some respect to this thread and post your gf, wife, side chick, both or your mom

This was kind of funny.

 

[LeoTC]

@LeoTC
Too sad! She is beautiful, no need for the fake tits and all that. This is the type of shit that creates insecurities in women. A bunch of hungry dogs drooling off unrealistic body images.

Thanks for contributing to the destruction of our sisters, mothers and daughters.

She makes her living with her body.

Thanks for being another sad fuck threatened by anyone that chooses to embrace their sexuality instead of hiding it away.

 

[LeoTC]

You show some respect to this thread and post your gf, wife, side chick, both or your mom

You think he's actually pulling tail?

 

[Sworder]

She makes her living with her body.

Thanks for being another sad fuck threatened by anyone that chooses to embrace their sexuality instead of hiding it away.

At what cost? Her self esteem.. That's what leads women to drugs, depression and suicide. Seriously. Wake up!

Women are twice as likely to suffer from depression. Why?

 

[Sworder]

You think he's actually pulling tail?

I have cats so yes I "pull tail." If you were insinuating that I do not copulate with female homo sapiens... You are correct!

 

[LeoTC]

At what cost? Her self esteem.. That's what leads women to drugs, depression and suicide. Seriously. Wake up!

Women are twice as likely to suffer from depression. Why?

At what cost?

You tell me, you seem to have all the answers.

Ofcourse your singular answer is seems to be that everything we do is indicative of dysfunction and a road certain doom.

This is a person that you literally know nothing about. Yet you somehow have the hubris to make such assumptions?

She's living life to its fullest, clean as a fucking whistle, with an extremely supportive family and social network.

Unless you think smoking the devil's weed is gonna lead to that reefer madness!

On the flip I know soooo many 9-5er's that do nothing but go home to get drunk. Languish at the bar on Saturday night and lament their life while waxing nostalgic about their glory years. Just cruising from one clisterfuck to the next.

You're full of it, Bro.

Put the Skippy away and go get laid.

 

[Sworder]

I don't need to know anything about her. I understand how you don't understand. And you need to understand it like I do. You need some better self-values, love yourself, you aren't a bad son/family member. Srsly I know you think I am full of shit. But one day, you are gonna say
"This crazy mothersucker Sworder on the boards told me a long time ago about this shit. But at that time I was so caught in my own moment I couldn't see the things around me. I remember writing a PM to him but hesitated... I should have listened then"
10/20/2019

 

[Sworder]

She's living life to its fullest, clean as a fucking whistle, with an extremely supportive family and social network.

Yeah, however I am not saying that she can't live a normal life. I am saying these are signs of stress. So if there other factors as well that start reflecting in these classic places. Then you might want to ask the person, are you okay? Like really okay? Have you soul searched, then you look at family, family is extremely important here in the US. The media projects that happiness and single parents and children feel like shit. I totally get why Amish people don't have a TV.
Every single Thanksgiving and Christmas I hole up at home. It effects me for sure! Even if you say "nah that doesn't bother me" it is scientifically proven it effects you. If you become aware of why you are doing something you won't do it.

Then smaller things, many small things will add up and become a BIG problem. That's what you want to avoid. And you can't correct a "flag" by changing that behavior i.e. changing her clothes won't fix her insecurity, she will just get really upset and feel worse.

And the clear answer is he or she needs more L O V E


I know this sounds crazy to you. It did to me in the past as well. You are good enough! You don't have to prove yourself all the fudging time. Stop.
Nobody else is playing that game man, that's why people work slow compared to you.

 

[LeoTC]

I don't need to know anything about her. I understand how you don't understand. And you need to understand it like I do. You need some better self-values, love yourself, you aren't a bad son/family member. Srsly I know you think I am full of shit. But one day, you are gonna say
"This crazy mothersucker Sworder on the boards told me a long time ago about this shit. But at that time I was so caught in my own moment I couldn't see the things around me. I remember writing a PM to him but hesitated... I should have listened then"
10/20/2019

Doubtful on that last bit there Chief.

And if you truly believe that people abandon behaviors simply because they're aware of them? Dude, I got some lakefront property in Arizona I think you'd absolutely love.

And what family?

Blood family? I cut it 90% of my family off because they're hayseed bigots. I couldn't give less of a fuck about my family.

The only reason I keep any contact with my Mom is because I have financial stake in the house. When she's out, it's either a flip or a rental.

As far as that PM, Bro? Seems its the other way around. Yeah, that's my hand.

You go ahead and tell me what you think it means and then I'll tell you what it actually means. Because so far you're batting zero.

 

[Sworder]

Doubtful on that last bit there Chief.

And if you truly believe that people abandon behaviors simply because they're aware of them? Dude, I got some lakefront property in Arizona I think you'd absolutely love.

And what family?

Blood family? I cut it 90% of my family off because they're hayseed bigots. I couldn't give less of a fuck about my family.

The only reason I keep any contact with my Mom is because I have financial stake in the house. When she's out, it's either a flip or a rental.

As far as that PM, Bro? Seems its the other way around. Yeah, that's my hand.

You go ahead and tell me what you think it means and then I'll tell you what it actually means. Because so far you're batting zero.

I wasn't really talking about you as an adult I was on another level I think lol. I meant kids. Kids bruh! The values will still show from childhood though so you can still tell on an adult if they had a rough childhood.

 

[Sworder]

As far as that PM, Bro? Seems its the other way around. Yeah, that's my hand.

Jesus! You guys never understand when I am joking and when I am serious HAHA

 

[Sworder]

Yeah, that's my hand.

Yeah, that shit made me cry. Damn that must have been rough. For real. After people get institutionalized they sometimes tattoo themselves to paint themselves as the bad guy. It's projecting.