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Last word, help your GF or wife cook, at the very least around your children.
You are teaching your daughters and sons that women are servants to men by sitting on your butt acting like a king. Do you want to be a tyrannical ruler? Or a loving and helpful husband, Dad and son? Trust me, people all around you will respect you more. Be the husband that your wife brags about because their husbands are the "old you."
Values are passed on. If you had bad ones, make the change. In a couple months hope you guys will have the gumption to makes changes to bad behaviors. That's what being a man is about, empowering the people around you and sharing the power. Only egotistical narcissists have that need to control.
That was it. I believe in you guys.
Help her cook? I do at least 1/2 the cooking myself, so all good there.
And my daughter is 18, a freshman in college studying computer science / coding / programming and a successful gamer / streamer on Twitch who creates all her own content. She never saw me disrespect a single girl and rarely saw me date or met any of the girls I dated. I kept that separate from her since I had 100% custody’s for 7 of the 10 1/2 years her mother and I have been split.
She’s a really good, smart kid that I’ve fortunately never had to worry about when it came to drinking or drugs. Worse thing she ever did was break curfew and get caught with some friends at the beach by CPD. I get a lot of compliments and credit from people about my daughter. I think I did alright, so save the parenting rhetoric for someone else.
And Bruv, nothing /no one is going to change my preference in women. I like what I like, cuz I like it, regardless of what influenced me to do so. I always have and always will be attracted to the Playboy Playmate / Centerfold type of girl, and I won’t even date a girl if she doesn’t have fake breasts, because I know I’ll never be satisfied with a girl without them, and I would never “force” or try to coerce a girl into getting them, so why even waste my or their time?
Speaking of, I got asked out for a drink(s) by a girl from my local EōS the other day. Cute girl, fit and likes to lift, which is a plus. But I’m wrestling with the fact that I’m 42 ... and she’s 24! I’m not sure why I’m the one with the age issue, but I just can’t imagine having much to talk about or relate to her on, and I keep thinking about her only being 6 years younger than my daughter [emoji15]. See, I’m not COMPLETELY shallow.
She’s definitely my type in the looks department, though, and I have had a thing for brunettes recently.