Older man/Younger woman...

[JustVincent]

This is single older woman math lol.

Religious people say something similar not as a restriction per say but they claim that's the perfect age partner for a man. She is just using it as a barrier.

lmaooo you're both right

 

[Mranadrol]

As long as she is legal it's fair game

 

[4Drago]

The place where you fucked up is when you said she looked to be between 17-21! Ya you're a perv. At least have the decency of knowing what the acceptable social norm is in this situation. 17 is off limits so you're a pedophile. If you where smart enough you would have said 18-21. But for some reason (perv) you had to start at 17. Then you even proceeded to describe this possible 17 year old child's body, sexually. So ya what do you think?

 

[Triceposaurus]

So ya what do you think?

A couple of you have twisted the conversion and gone sideways with it talking bullshit about me just for asking for opinions about a subject that's common in the real world so I'm just reading the sensible replies and not answering the stupid ones. That's what I think...

 

[4Drago]

A couple of you have twisted the conversion and gone sideways with it talking bullshit about me just for asking for opinions about a subject that's common in the real world so I'm just reading the sensible replies and not answering the stupid ones. That's what I think...

I agree, my reply was reasonable and deserved a response. Thank you. Seriously man 17! But, you think it's normal for an old man and common? Reread how you described her body. How you described the body of a child you thought could be 17!

 

[Triceposaurus]

I agree, my reply was reasonable and deserved a response. Thank you. Seriously man 17! But, you think it's normal for an old man and common? Reread how you described her body. How you described the body of a child you thought could be 17!

I've said enough. We all see and interpret things in different ways I suppose. I'm certainly not interested in children in the way you're implying. Get your mind out of the gutter and stop focusing on the number "17". Older guys/younger girls is the actual simple topic I wanted opinions on so debate that using whatever age range and age gap is socially acceptable to you.

 

[4Drago]

I've said enough. We all see and interpret things in different ways I suppose. I'm certainly not interested in children in the way you're implying. Get your mind out of the gutter and stop focusing on the number "17". Older guys/younger girls is the actual simple topic I wanted opinions on so debate that using whatever age range and age gap is socially acceptable to you.

Whatever you have to tell yourself so you sleep better at night bud.

 

[Schibetta]

lmaooo you're both right

Thanks bro I love being right.

The place where you fucked up is when you said she looked to be between 17-21! Ya you're a perv. At least have the decency of knowing what the acceptable social norm is in this situation. 17 is off limits so you're a pedophile. If you where smart enough you would have said 18-21. But for some reason (perv) you had to start at 17. Then you even proceeded to describe this possible 17 year old child's body, sexually. So ya what do you think?

Lol if you think 17 is bad you should think 18 is bad too since there's not that big a difference. I dont think 17 is inherently bad; however, I dont belive in crossing those lines because the line needs to be drawn somewhere. And by this I mean, it's a slippery slope. If you say we'll 18 and 17 are the same thing, someone else might try the same logic with 17 and 16 then and then 16 and 15 and 15 and 14. I dont think him being attracted to a 17 year old is gross or abnormal but I also think he should respect the boundaries of what's legally considered an adult.

 

[Triceposaurus]

Lol if you think 17 is bad you should think 18 is bad too since there's not that big a difference. I dont think 17 is inherently bad; however, I dont belive in crossing those lines because the line needs to be drawn somewhere. And by this I mean, it's a slippery slope. If you say we'll 18 and 17 are the same thing, someone else might try the same logic with 17 and 16 then and then 16 and 15 and 15 and 14. I dont think him being attracted to a 17 year old is gross or abnormal but I also think he should respect the boundaries of what's legally considered an adult.

Just for clarity, I never said that girl was 17 and I've got no idea about her real age (yet). I threw out the 17-21 range as a random guess based on the clothes she was wearing more than her physical appearance/sexual maturity but if I had known randomly using the number 17 was going to cause this much aggro I would've said 24-30 LOL

I don't get attracted to females based on how young or old they look as it's "chemistry" that always gets me into relationships but I recently came out of a 15 year monogamous marriage so I'm not really sure how to handle women anymore or how to read the right signals. I see the girl this post was about every few days in my local store and we keep looking at each other (for longer than is normal) so I'm 99% sure we are attracted to each other sexually but I'm too scared to make the first move because I know for sure I'm much older than her so it's me that will get in trouble if I'm misreading the signs. I bumped into her again today in the queue to the tills and again there was some sort of energy between us that's hard to explain so I waited outside (discreetly in my car) just to see what she was driving or if she was dropped off by a boyfriend/parent etc. As it happens...she was driving herself in a newish plate 3 series beemer so she's definitely not a child or a minor so I think I'm now safe from a kiddy-fiddler accusation but her age is undecided atm. She is older than she looks that's for sure but it's hard to figure out female age just based on looks. I'll update this thread if things progress and I take a chance on talking to this girl/woman.

 

[Schibetta]

Just for clarity, I never said that girl was 17 and I've got no idea about her real age (yet). I threw out the 17-21 range as a random guess based on the clothes she was wearing more than her physical appearance/sexual maturity but if I had known randomly using the number 17 was going to cause this much aggro I would've said 24-30 LOL

I don't get attracted to females based on how young or old they look as it's "chemistry" that always gets me into relationships but I recently came out of a 15 year monogamous marriage so I'm not really sure how to handle women anymore or how to read the right signals. I see the girl this post was about every few days in my local store and we keep looking at each other (for longer than is normal) so I'm 99% sure we are attracted to each other sexually but I'm too scared to make the first move because I know for sure I'm much older than her so it's me that will get in trouble if I'm misreading the signs. I bumped into her again today in the queue to the tills and again there was some sort of energy between us that's hard to explain so I waited outside (discreetly in my car) just to see what she was driving or if she was dropped off by a boyfriend/parent etc. As it happens...she was driving herself in a newish plate 3 series beemer so she's definitely not a child or a minor so I think I'm now safe from a kiddy-fiddler accusation but her age is undecided atm. She is older than she looks that's for sure but it's hard to figure out female age just based on looks. I'll update this thread if things progress and I take a chance on talking to this girl/woman.

Dawg go for it lol,

I never assume anyone picks a partner based on age, I was simply saying don't make it a limiting factor in other words don't discriminate. If you're attracted to a girl in her late teens so be it. Nobodies business but yours.

But if I were you I'd strike up a conversation with her. She's obviously not going to make the first move, I learned that lesson the hard way lol. I knew a girl just like the one you're describing. You just gotta initiate everything but she will pretty much do the rest.

 

[Triceposaurus]

Dawg go for it lol,

I never assume anyone picks a partner based on age, I was simply saying don't make it a limiting factor in other words don't discriminate. If you're attracted to a girl in her late teens so be it. Nobodies business but yours.

But if I were you I'd strike up a conversation with her. She's obviously not going to make the first move, I learned that lesson the hard way lol. I knew a girl just like the one you're describing. You just gotta initiate everything but she will pretty much do the rest.

Next time I see her I'm going to say something friendly and funny as an ice breaker to see how she responds. Hopefully she doesn't start screaming for help and complaining to the shop staff because I've misread the vibes she's putting out

 

[OldGHGuy]

If there's grass on the field, play ball!!

Just kidding of course

 

[jJjburton]

Well to break this conversation up, the 18 thing is only in USA and various others…..some countries there is otherwise

 

[laclark89]

Well to break this conversation up, the 18 thing is only in USA and various others…..some countries there is otherwise

Yea in alot of other countries u can trade ur young daughter for a goat.

we are slightly more civilized here.

 

[Triceposaurus]

If there's grass on the field, play ball!!

Just kidding of course

I'm moving forward with the theory that we only get one life and life's too short for regrets. Me and this local girl could connect instantly and have some happy times for a few years regardless of the age gap or I could spend the next few years (or maybe forever) alone and miserable wasting my time on dating sites and never getting any interest from other females as cute/youthful as this one. It's a no-brainer the more I think about it...

 

[Triceposaurus]

Well to break this conversation up, the 18 thing is only in USA and various others…..some countries there is otherwise

After some quick reading I've just found out that it's 16 in the UK, 15 in Thailand, 15 in most EU countries, 14 in Germany & India. 11 in Nigeria

I've got moral limits though for how low I'd go no matter if it's legal or not.

 

[Dang-1]

Personally I would say not worth it. I find any woman under 30 to be pretty hard to even consider dating. 35 plus to actually be a girlfriend material. Sex with women who are closer in age is also mind blowing, I remember too many starfish girls in my 20s who were really hot but didn’t know how to kiss and just generally sucked in the sack.

I’m 45 but have been mistaken for 35 maybe because I’m lean and have avoided the sun like a vampire FYI

 

[Schibetta]

Dawg go for it lol,

I never assume anyone picks a partner based on age, I was simply saying don't make it a limiting factor in other words don't discriminate. If you're attracted to a girl in her late teens so be it. Nobodies business but yours.

But if I were you I'd strike up a conversation with her. She's obviously not going to make the first move, I learned that lesson the hard way lol. I knew a girl just like the one you're describing. You just gotta initiate everything but she will pretty much do the rest.

From what you described I don't think she will do that at all. The worse case scenario is that the camel toe was fake and that is a Trans woman who likes big muscular "daddies." Other than that you should be good to go. Good luck. Don't try to be all young and goofy when you talk to her too. If she's showed interest in you she's probably not looking for a man who acts her age.

 

[lukiss96]

Just make sure she doesn't mistake you for sugar daddy. Those girls can pretend "interested" if they see older men they can manipulate for money or otherwise materialistic things. Watch out.

 

[Aamega]

Personally I would say not worth it. I find any woman under 30 to be pretty hard to even consider dating. 35 plus to actually be a girlfriend material. Sex with women who are closer in age is also mind blowing, I remember too many starfish girls in my 20s who were really hot but didn’t know how to kiss and just generally sucked in the sack.

I’m 45 but have been mistaken for 35 maybe because I’m lean and have avoided the sun like a vampire FYI

That's not the case nowadays my friend. I'm also around your age and yes when I was in my 20s sex wasn't all that great (though I didn't really know or care at the time lol).

But 20 year olds in 2023 are a whole different ball game. They are infinitely better in bed than we ever were and on average are much better than women my age. They were literally raised on high speed porn access.

As I said in an earlier post when I got back into the dating world a few years ago I was blown away. For example when I was in my 20s it was VERY rare for a girl to want a shot in the mouth. A few might indulge from time to time if you were close but yeah it was almost like a special event for it to happen.

In 2023? The amount of girls that take it down the throat willingly is insane. I swear it's close to 75 percent. Girls just go for it without you even prompting it which is mind blowing lol.

And that's just the mild stuff lol.