Older man/Younger woman...

[Triceposaurus]

How young is too young for an older guy to make a move on a female without being seen as a pervert?

I was in a local shop today at the same time as a very young girl who blew my mind in terms of looks. I don't know her age but I'm guessing somewhere between 17-21. She was in gym clothes (crop top and super tight shorts) with nothing left to the imagination (pokey nipples, camel toe, butt cheeks spread apart). It was impossible not to look at her body as she was in front of me in the queue but she turned around a few times and looked me in the eye with no hostility so I sort of got the feeling there was chemistry. Outside in the car park the same thing happened again as I was leaving in my car. She was walking away but she looked back at me a few times with a neutral/no emotion stare and as much as I wanted to go and talk to her I was scared that maybe I mis-read the signs and she might think I was an old pervert for looking at her and approaching her for a chat.

How do you judge these situations with young girls/women?

 

[Schibetta]

As long as she's 18 go for it

People are going to judge you no matter what that goes with everything in life.

But if they think you're a pervert for dating a woman much younger than you let them, they're wrong.

 

[blinz77]

ooo, i have experience on this one. 37-23. Fortune favors the bold, buddy. However, anything outside of late night hookups is torture because kids are fucking stupid and will cause trouble for the fun of it. to be fair, sex has been better with women my own age.

 

[Schibetta]

ooo, i have experience on this one. 37-23. Fortune favors the bold, buddy. However, anything outside of late night hookups is torture because kids are fucking stupid and will cause trouble for the fun of it. to be fair, sex has been better with women mygirlfriend?

will cause trouble fir the fun of it

Young dudes try to fight you over your girlfirend?

 

[rokkrul3r]

As long as she's 18 go for it

People are going to judge you no matter what that goes with everything in life.

But if they think you're a pervert for dating a woman much younger than you let them, they're wrong.

exactly, the men giving you shit are envious of the pleasure you're getting and the women giving you shit are envious of the young girl's youth beauty that they lost or never had

chase your desires unapologetically

 

[blinz77]

Young dudes try to fight you over your girlfirend?

worse. she started messaging the mother of my son.

 

[Big_paul]

Hit and run.

 

[Big_paul]

18+

 

[Schibetta]

worse. she started messaging the mother of my son.

Wait who the guy or some woman? OH The 23 year old!!!!!

 

[MA11]

How young is too young for an older guy to make a move on a female without being seen as a pervert?

I was in a local shop today at the same time as a very young girl who blew my mind in terms of looks. I don't know her age but I'm guessing somewhere between 17-21. She was in gym clothes (crop top and super tight shorts) with nothing left to the imagination (pokey nipples, camel toe, butt cheeks spread apart). It was impossible not to look at her body as she was in front of me in the queue but she turned around a few times and looked me in the eye with no hostility so I sort of got the feeling there was chemistry. Outside in the car park the same thing happened again as I was leaving in my car. She was walking away but she looked back at me a few times with a neutral/no emotion stare and as much as I wanted to go and talk to her I was scared that maybe I mis-read the signs and she might think I was an old pervert for looking at her and approaching her for a chat.

How do you judge these situations with young girls/women?

How old are you? Your name suggests "old".
I say go for it as long as she's an adult and you feel comfortable.

 

[blinz77]

Wait who the guy or some woman? OH The 23 year old!!!!!

Yep. I should've known better when she told me she likes stalking people on social media for fun. Sexy body, but she straight starfished in the bedroom. I would rather fuck my kid's mom.

 

[laclark89]

Yea ur a perv

 

[Cohiba]

I used to think something like that would be weird or creepy, but nowadays I know so many hot young chicks into older guys that it doesn't seem weird at all anymore. If both parties consent, have fun.

 

[Aamega]

I was mostly out of the dating game for 6-7 years in my 30's as I was traveling and working out at sea almost constantly. Moved up enough to finally get myself a decent paying "consulting" position in an office in a major city and I decided to get myself a bachelor's pad in the heart of the city. I did it mainly to be close to my office but it also happened to work out for the dating life as well being close to lots of hot spots.

If you're a decent looking dude with good career the current dating world is absolutely insane. The "sugar daddy" scene is absolutely massive, all the hot girls know about it, and probably every hot chick you know "good girl" or otherwise has dabbled in. And I'm not saying "sugar daddy" as code for escorting and the like though of course you could make the argument for what's the difference. I'm talking about non professional "normal" girls who think it would be "fun" to have an older guy who takes them out and takes care of a few things while they are in their 20's.

I've been with 10 times as many college aged chicks in my late 30's and early 40's than when I was college aged myself.

As for other people's opinions? Who gives a damn unless it's close family or the like and if it's just for fun you're not going to be bringing some college aged chick around them anyway. You might get an odd look from time to time from some bitter guys and gals but I promise you you're not going to be thinking about that when that 10/10 22 year old climbs on top of you later that night lol.

 

[Schibetta]

Hey man I think that might be a dude, those people in that lifestyle like big muscular "daddies"

 

[Triceposaurus]

I was mostly out of the dating game for 6-7 years in my 30's as I was traveling and working out at sea almost constantly. Moved up enough to finally get myself a decent paying "consulting" position in an office in a major city and I decided to get myself a bachelor's pad in the heart of the city. I did it mainly to be close to my office but it also happened to work out for the dating life as well being close to lots of hot spots.

If you're a decent looking dude with good career the current dating world is absolutely insane. The "sugar daddy" scene is absolutely massive, all the hot girls know about it, and probably every hot chick you know "good girl" or otherwise has dabbled in. And I'm not saying "sugar daddy" as code for escorting and the like though of course you could make the argument for what's the difference. I'm talking about non professional "normal" girls who think it would be "fun" to have an older guy who takes them out and takes care of a few things while they are in their 20's.

I've been with 10 times as many college aged chicks in my late 30's and early 40's than when I was college aged myself.

As for other people's opinions? Who gives a damn unless it's close family or the like and if it's just for fun you're not going to be bringing some college aged chick around them anyway. You might get an odd look from time to time from some bitter guys and gals but I promise you you're not going to be thinking about that when that 10/10 22 year old climbs on top of you later that night lol.

Interesting reply. Thanks.

 

[Triceposaurus]

I used to think something like that would be weird or creepy, but nowadays I know so many hot young chicks into older guys that it doesn't seem weird at all anymore. If both parties consent, have fun.

That attitude/freedom is messed up in my country.

 

[baxter0312]

Then there's asian women where you literally can't guess their age if your life depended on it. So how could anyone judge that?

 

[MindlessWork]

I'm nearly 60, yet I have girls like 20 vying for my attention lol.

 

[OffendHand]

How young is too young for an older guy to make a move on a female without being seen as a pervert?

I was in a local shop today at the same time as a very young girl who blew my mind in terms of looks. I don't know her age but I'm guessing somewhere between 17-21. She was in gym clothes (crop top and super tight shorts) with nothing left to the imagination (pokey nipples, camel toe, butt cheeks spread apart). It was impossible not to look at her body as she was in front of me in the queue but she turned around a few times and looked me in the eye with no hostility so I sort of got the feeling there was chemistry. Outside in the car park the same thing happened again as I was leaving in my car. She was walking away but she looked back at me a few times with a neutral/no emotion stare and as much as I wanted to go and talk to her I was scared that maybe I mis-read the signs and she might think I was an old pervert for looking at her and approaching her for a chat.

How do you judge these situations with young girls/women?

(Your age)/2 + 7, rounded up. That's your floor. If you're 45, you shouldn't be hitting on anyone younger than 30. If you do, you're a creep.