Older man/Younger woman...

[Kangaroo_Jack3D]

As long as she's 18 go for it

People are going to judge you no matter what that goes with everything in life.

But if they think you're a pervert for dating a woman much younger than you let them, they're wrong.

Couldn't agree more with this.

 

[Triceposaurus]

Don't try to be all young and goofy when you talk to her too. If she's showed interest in you she's probably not looking for a man who acts her age.

That's top advice . Nuff Respect !

 

[meslotackes123]

Just make sure she doesn't mistake you for sugar daddy. Those girls can pretend "interested" if they see older men they can manipulate for money or otherwise materialistic things. Watch out.

Agree, dudes in their 40's or older in this forum there's plenty of them paps should be careful no to become victims. Unless you're godlike in looks at that age then no chance she's interested if it ain't for money.

 

[Aamega]

Agree, dudes in their 40's or older in this forum there's plenty of them paps should be careful no to become victims. Unless you're godlike in looks at that age then no chance she's interested if it ain't for money.

I've been a "victim" plenty of times and it's great. If some twenty something is bouncing on my cock at the end of the night thinking she's "played" me for treating her to some nice times out and a bit of shopping then I'm not going to clue her in that she's getting the same treatment as a normal GF lol.

 

[Triceposaurus]

I've been a "victim" plenty of times and it's great. If some twenty something is bouncing on my cock at the end of the night thinking she's "played" me for treating her to some nice times out and a bit of shopping then I'm not going to clue her in that she's getting the same treatment as a normal GF lol.

That's the way I'm thinking too. I'm not interested in getting married or settling down again with another woman after the shit I've been through in past relationships so if I can get another girl/woman to "go steady" with me for a few months or years without her moving in and bugging me everyday i think that's a win for me if it all it takes is a few nice meals and bottles of wine every week to get my nutsack drained with no drama

 

[meslotackes123]

Lol, more like she milk out your $ and you hoped to get some action, but got none. Unless she's 5/10 then yeah.

 

[Aamega]

Lol, more like she milk out your $ and you hoped to get some action, but got none. Unless she's 5/10 then yeah.

I'm a decent looking dude but definitely no model and I've slept with a half dozen 9/10 or even 10/10 level twenty somethings in my late 30s and 40s and a ton of 7/10's.

You can tell the people who haven't been in the dating world in a while.

If you're a decent looking 40 year old in decent shape with an established career and can hold a conversation (and assuming you live in a major urban area) you're literally at peak dating age and there are TONS of 20 somethings that will smash. There are ones who are into older guys but then there are tons who aren't necessarily but are secretly intrigued enough to want to check it off their sexual experience box.

 

[TheChosen1]

How young is too young for an older guy to make a move on a female without being seen as a pervert?

I was in a local shop today at the same time as a very young girl who blew my mind in terms of looks. I don't know her age but I'm guessing somewhere between 17-21. She was in gym clothes (crop top and super tight shorts) with nothing left to the imagination (pokey nipples, camel toe, butt cheeks spread apart). It was impossible not to look at her body as she was in front of me in the queue but she turned around a few times and looked me in the eye with no hostility so I sort of got the feeling there was chemistry. Outside in the car park the same thing happened again as I was leaving in my car. She was walking away but she looked back at me a few times with a neutral/no emotion stare and as much as I wanted to go and talk to her I was scared that maybe I mis-read the signs and she might think I was an old pervert for looking at her and approaching her for a chat.

How do you judge these situations with young girls/women?

Let me put it this way, if the two of you are comfortable together, then whatever happens happens.

Back in 2015, I left my wife and a coworker/friend (female) gave me a place to stay for a couple of years. When I first met that coworker, she had a 15 year old daughter. From day one, I could tell that her daughter was going to grow into a beautiful, hot woman. At 17 and just before she graduated high school, I took her (daughter) and 2 of her friends to get their nails done. I paid for hers as a graduation gift. After the salon, we decided to have lunch at her favorite restaurant. There I was, a 52 year old man with 3 teen girls. Instantly, I felt weird because every woman in that restaurant gave me a dirty look while guys were giving me thumbs up. Somehow, one of her friends and I noticed it and we decided to leave there. I figured that some thought that that I was either a perv or a pimp. Despite our funny adventure, my friend's daughter and I remained friends. We even stayed at the house alone when her mom decided to live with her boyfriend at the time. And nothing ever happened between us.

Fast forward 10 years later (2023), I noticed a pic of an awesome looking meal on the daughter's Facebook post and I complimented how good it looked. As a reply, she suggested that we go to that restaurant for lunch one day. I was in shock. Here a 27 year old hottie suggested that a 62 year old friend of her mom take her to lunch and "whatever happens happens:".

Like you, dude, my major concern is our age difference, as well as her family's reactions if something was to get deeper between us.

 

[jJjburton]

Let me put it this way, if the two of you are comfortable together, then whatever happens happens.

Back in 2015, I left my wife and a coworker/friend (female) gave me a place to stay for a couple of years. When I first met that coworker, she had a 15 year old daughter. From day one, I could tell that her daughter was going to grow into a beautiful, hot woman. At 17 and just before she graduated high school, I took her (daughter) and 2 of her friends to get their nails done. I paid for hers as a graduation gift. After the salon, we decided to have lunch at her favorite restaurant. There I was, a 52 year old man with 3 teen girls. Instantly, I felt weird because every woman in that restaurant gave me a dirty look while guys were giving me thumbs up. Somehow, one of her friends and I noticed it and we decided to leave there. I figured that some thought that that I was either a perv or a pimp. Despite our funny adventure, my friend's daughter and I remained friends. We even stayed at the house alone when her mom decided to live with her boyfriend at the time. And nothing ever happened between us.

Fast forward 10 years later (2023), I noticed a pic of an awesome looking meal on the daughter's Facebook post and I complimented how good it looked. As a reply, she suggested that we go to that restaurant for lunch one day. I was in shock. Here a 27 year old hottie suggested that a 62 year old friend of her mom take her to lunch and "whatever happens happens:".

Like you, dude, my major concern is our age difference, as well as her family's reactions if something was to get deeper between us.

Some people are attracted to an age/person/physcial traits, to the point its either they would rather be with that age group man/women, or then nobody… and have zero attraction to the opposite end of the spectrum…it goes both ways, i know younger people who find older more attractive physically, nothing to do with income. And vica versa….its not really a choice either who you are attracted too, it just is that way…

 

[Triceposaurus]

For anyone following this, here's an update. I saw the girl again today and felt brave in the store so planned my attack without being too obvious. As she turned a corner into a new aisle I doubled back the other way and came back around the opposite way so we would have to cross paths. As she got close there was strong eye contact again so I dropped a cheesy ice breaker on her.

"If you don't stop following me I'll have to report you for sexual harassment babe", I said.

"You should be so lucky stud", she said with a friendly giggle.

Fast forwarding a few minutes...We've now swapped phone numbers

 

[laclark89]

Did u do this all with ur mask on like u usually go out it public, so people cant see ur face.

Sounds like a ur a total creep and a stalker and that sounds like the most pathetic made up story I've ever heard in my entire life. I think u need serious mental help not.
"Also a tone supporting u in this thread is I'd say is in the same boat.

 

[Triceposaurus]

Let me put it this way, if the two of you are comfortable together, then whatever happens happens.

Back in 2015, I left my wife and a coworker/friend (female) gave me a place to stay for a couple of years. When I first met that coworker, she had a 15 year old daughter. From day one, I could tell that her daughter was going to grow into a beautiful, hot woman. At 17 and just before she graduated high school, I took her (daughter) and 2 of her friends to get their nails done. I paid for hers as a graduation gift. After the salon, we decided to have lunch at her favorite restaurant. There I was, a 52 year old man with 3 teen girls. Instantly, I felt weird because every woman in that restaurant gave me a dirty look while guys were giving me thumbs up. Somehow, one of her friends and I noticed it and we decided to leave there. I figured that some thought that that I was either a perv or a pimp. Despite our funny adventure, my friend's daughter and I remained friends. We even stayed at the house alone when her mom decided to live with her boyfriend at the time. And nothing ever happened between us.

Fast forward 10 years later (2023), I noticed a pic of an awesome looking meal on the daughter's Facebook post and I complimented how good it looked. As a reply, she suggested that we go to that restaurant for lunch one day. I was in shock. Here a 27 year old hottie suggested that a 62 year old friend of her mom take her to lunch and "whatever happens happens:".

Like you, dude, my major concern is our age difference, as well as her family's reactions if something was to get deeper between us.

I'm a long way off from being in a relationship with this girl yet but I respect the maturity, experience, and integrity, within your post. It's tricky starting over again when you end up being single in golden years isn't it. Our options aren't usually very appealing on online dating sites...

 

[Triceposaurus]

Some people are attracted to an age/person/physcial traits, to the point its either they would rather be with that age group man/women, or then nobody… and have zero attraction to the opposite end of the spectrum…it goes both ways, i know younger people who find older more attractive physically, nothing to do with income. And vica versa….its not really a choice either who you are attracted too, it just is that way…

Do you not believe in chemistry/aura?
Looks is just a sexual thing...

 

[goonr]

Unless you're godlike in looks at that age then no chance she's interested if it ain't for money.

If she has borderline you don't need money. They think since you're much older there is less chance you will leave them. Also daddy issues.

For me, early 30s, same age women works pretty well. Maybe 1-3 years younger. Much younger women tend to be into feminism and strong opinions and such, i can't deal with that tbh.

 

[jJjburton]

Do you not believe in chemistry/aura?
Looks is just a sexual thing...

Yes of course, but physical attraction helps too, if i am interesting in chubby chicks, who are black…it may be hard to desire a skinny white girl. There are some physcial attributes that would make someone lean towards an individual to even strike a conversation…

So to be sexually attracted to someone helps….

 

[Triceposaurus]

Yes of course, but physical attraction helps too, if i am interesting in chubby chicks, who are black…it may be hard to desire a skinny white girl. There are some physcial attributes that would make someone lean towards an individual to even strike a conversation…

So to be sexually attracted to someone helps….

True...

 

[Triceposaurus]

Like you, dude, my major concern is our age difference, as well as her family's reactions if something was to get deeper between us.

So are you going to (or did you) meet up with her?

 

[BoloYang2023]

this is dumb af

(Your age)/2 + 7, rounded up. That's your floor. If you're 45, you shouldn't be hitting on anyone younger than 30. If you do, you're a creep.

Its america do what you want or it where ever you are as long as they consent and are above the age of 18 who cares

 

[Schibetta]

For anyone following this, here's an update. I saw the girl again today and felt brave in the store so planned my attack without being too obvious. As she turned a corner into a new aisle I doubled back the other way and came back around the opposite way so we would have to cross paths. As she got close there was strong eye contact again so I dropped a cheesy ice breaker on her.

"If you don't stop following me I'll have to report you for sexual harassment babe", I said.

"You should be so lucky stud", she said with a friendly giggle.

Fast forwarding a few minutes...We've now swapped phone numbers

MY MAN.

 

[Schibetta]

this is dumb af

Its america do what you want or it where ever you are as long as they consent and are above the age of 18 who cares

I certainly don't care, I'd date/bang an 19 year old in a heartbeat the same way I would a woman my age.

LET PEOPLE ENJOY EACHOTHER AND MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS PEOPLE!