Older man/Younger woman...

[Aamega]

(Your age)/2 + 7, rounded up. That's your floor. If you're 45, you shouldn't be hitting on anyone younger than 30. If you do, you're a creep.

The people who say things like this are the ones who tend to be the actual creeps. If they were in their 40's they would rail a smoking hot 25 year old without thinking twice if given the chance and they lust over them just the same as any other man but because of their jealousness or bitterness they hide behind a front of moral superiority. It's the same reason most "White Knights" are the creepiest of all. They aren't actually nice guys who love and respect women. Quite the opposite. They are only nice because it allows them to hang around in the friend zone with their delusions that something will happen while they do their creeping.

If a 25 year old woman wants to get down with an attractive respectful 40 year old their isn't a creepy thing in the world about that without anything extraordinary making it so.

I'll give you a hint. 99.9% of women you know in their 20's definitely have a 40-something guy they would let go to town on them if given the chance and I'd love to see you tell them that they are wrong and that you know better.

 

[laclark89]

The people who say things like this are the ones who tend to be the actual creeps. If they were in their 40's they would rail a smoking hot 25 year old without thinking twice if given the chance and they lust over them just the same as any other man but because of their jealousness or bitterness they hide behind a front of moral superiority. It's the same reason most "White Knights" are the creepiest of all. They aren't actually nice guys who love and respect women. Quite the opposite. They are only nice because it allows them to hang around in the friend zone with their delusions that something will happen while they do their creeping.

If a 25 year old woman wants to get down with an attractive respectful 40 year old their isn't a creepy thing in the world about that without anything extraordinary making it so.

I'll give you a hint. 99.9% of women you know in their 20's definitely have a 40-something guy they would let go to town on them if given the chance and I'd love to see you tell them that they are wrong and that you

The people who say things like this are the ones who tend to be the actual creeps. If they were in their 40's they would rail a smoking hot 25 year old without thinking twice if given the chance and they lust over them just the same as any other man but because of their jealousness or bitterness they hide behind a front of moral superiority. It's the same reason most "White Knights" are the creepiest of all. They aren't actually nice guys who love and respect women. Quite the opposite. They are only nice because it allows them to hang around in the friend zone with their delusions that something will happen while they do their creeping.

If a 25 year old woman wants to get down with an attractive respectful 40 year old their isn't a creepy thing in the world about that without anything extraordinary making it so.

I'll give you a hint. 99.9% of women you know in their 20's definitely have a 40-something guy they would let go to town on them if given the chance and I'd love to see you tell them that they are wrong and that you know better.

I take it ur a straight perv like the op in his 50's and talking about banging a possible 17 year old, straight pedo, if he were to talk like that in any of the places I've been incarcerate he would be viciously beat possibly have his a$$ hole taken
Or killed by other inmates especially if he got charged with statutory for sure. do you think those dudes are white horses lmao ? , Is this ur first and only post? Lol pretty sad way to start. Its not moral superiority everyone sins . I'm in my mid 30s would never be intimate with anyone under 21 I just wouldent have anything in common. Now if your 50 and have a women in her 30s that's another story.

If a young chick wants a old dude she really wants ur money/ stability. What 20 year old woman really wants a man in his 50's. That's all some sugar daddy shit like the other dude said.

 

[Aamega]

I take it ur a straight perv like the op in his 50's and talking about banging a possible 17 year old, straight pedo, if he were to talk like that in any of the places I've been incarcerate he would be viciously beat possibly have his a$$ hole taken
Or killed by other inmates especially if he got charged with statutory for sure. do you think those dudes are white horses lmao ? , Is this ur first and only post? Lol pretty sad way to start. Its not moral superiority everyone sins . I'm in my mid 30s would never be intimate with anyone under 21 I just wouldent have anything in common. Now if your 50 and have a women in her 30s that's another story.

If a young chick wants a old dude she really wants ur money/ stability. What 20 year old woman really wants a man in his 50's. That's all some sugar daddy shit like the other dude said.

Congrats on being incarcerated. I see they didn't teach you English or how to read while you were in there.

Did you see the post I responded to that is literally in quotes in my own post? I didn't say anything about a 50 year old banging a 17 year old. I responded to the guy with the dumbass age rule that would claim a 45 year old sleeping with anyone under 30 would be a creep.

That's something only a loser and creep would actually say because no one is buying it. If a 10/10 29 year old woman wants to bounce on some 45 year old cock and you think that's creepy then you're an absolute moron.

 

[laclark89]

Congrats on being incarcerated. I see they didn't teach you English or how to read while you were in there.

Did you see the post I responded to that is literally in quotes in my own post? I didn't say anything about a 50 year old banging a 17 year old. I responded to the guy with the dumbass age rule that would claim a 45 year old sleeping with anyone under 30 would be a creep.

That's something only a loser and creep would actually say because no one is buying it. If a 10/10 29 year old woman wants to bounce on some 45 year old cock and you think that's creepy then you're an absolute moron.

thanks I learned alot. I do have some education believe it or not lol.

I get it I read ur post the rule thing is kind of stupid, and if it's 2 consetual adults who gives a shit.

I'm mainly referring to the original post and anyone defending that hes not creepy. All in all everyone has a opinion.

 

[Aamega]

thanks I learned alot. I do have some education believe it or not lol.

I get it I read ur post the rule thing is kind of stupid, and if it's 2 consetual adults who gives a shit.

I'm mainly referring to the original post and anyone defending that hes not creepy. All in all everyone has a opinion.

All good. Sorry for being a dick.

 

[narta]

As long as they are over the age of consent and they consent give it ago. What other people think doesn't even register for me anymore in all aspects of life. Other people can go f themselves for all I care

 

[Schibetta]

(Your age)/2 + 7, rounded up. That's your floor. If you're 45, you shouldn't be hitting on anyone younger than 30. If you do, you're a creep.

If he's 45 he should be hitting on whoever he likes since men are the ones who do the approaching. The only thing that would make him a creep in my opinion is if he was a sex pest, harassing someone who didn't want him. Time for you to grow up. Also the half your age plus 7 thing is entirely arbitrary.

 

[OffendHand]

Guys that think 20yo women want a 40-odd year old guy hitting on them are delusional. Sure, some women are into that, just like some guys in their 20s are into women in their 40s. But it's going to be very, very, rare. I guarantee you that in 99.99999% of all cases, the 40+yo guy hitting on someone in their 20s IS a sex pest, and refuses to accept it, because they have this misguided idea that young women like it when old greybeards are hitting on them.

Do you workout, and quite bothering people. The gym is a place to get fit, not your own personal meat market.

 

[Aamega]

Guys that think 20yo women want a 40-odd year old guy hitting on them are delusional. Sure, some women are into that, just like some guys in their 20s are into women in their 40s. But it's going to be very, very, rare. I guarantee you that in 99.99999% of all cases, the 40+yo guy hitting on someone in their 20s IS a sex pest, and refuses to accept it, because they have this misguided idea that young women like it when old greybeards are hitting on them.

Do you workout, and quite bothering people. The gym is a place to get fit, not your own personal meat market.

I actually agree with part of this but it has nothing to do with being 40. The reality is most guys of ANY age that are going out of their way to "hit on" people in a gym are a pest. It has nothing to do with age.

So yeah if you're in a gym and trying to treat it like a night club then you suck.

But if you think it's very rare for women in their 20's to be willing to get down with guys in their 40's then you just proved you don't have much experience out in the real dating world lol. Remember you didn't just say an actual 20 year old, you said a 45 year old with anyone under 30, including mid to upper 20's, is a "creep".

I'm single in my 40's and I've been with well over a dozen twenty somethings in the 2023 dating scene and I'm far from being a male model though I'm decent looking. I'm not saying that like it's necessarily a good thing either as honestly I'm a little shocked a the levels of casual sex today versus how hard I had to work when I was younger but it's jus reality.

 

[JustVincent]

What it really comes down to: most men are bitches and don't approach, so fucking approach girls you like, get some damn game and live your best life.
Its actually good to have all these losers discussing "being seen as a creep" or "being too old", they leave more room for the bold men to step up.

 

[big mikey]

I know how hard it can be to approach women. I've gone down in flames like a Kamikaze at the battle of Okinawa plenty of times. Sometimes that shit really stings too. But if you can persevere, you get better at it & eventually you get what you want. Here's an example of a night that went my way.
I had a 20 YOA, petite little, GF when I was 48. She liked jacked AF older men & I fit the bill perfectly. I met her outside a club I went to see local bands at. We both went outside during an intermission & I just struck up a conversation with her. A few hours later, she was in my bed. I had some great times with her & nothing would have come of it if I hadn't initiated that first conversation.
So as hard as it can be to overcome that horrible fear of rejection, it's well worth overcoming.

 

[laclark89]

What it really comes down to: most men are bitches and don't approach, so fucking approach girls you like, get some damn game and live your best life.
Its actually good to have all these losers discussing "being seen as a creep" or "being too old", they leave more room for the bold men to step up.

Your definitely not a man if your still referring to woman as girls? Are you in middle school or what?

Guys that think 20yo women want a 40-odd year old guy hitting on them are delusional. Sure, some women are into that, just like some guys in their 20s are into women in their 40s. But it's going to be very, very, rare. I guarantee you that in 99.99999% of all cases, the 40+yo guy hitting on someone in their 20s IS a sex pest, and refuses to accept it, because they have this misguided idea that young women like it when old greybeards are hitting on them.

Do you workout, and quite bothering people. The gym is a place to get fit, not your own personal meat market.

Holy shit did u hit the nail on the head or what?
I tryed giving u a like it wont let me.

Only person to think of me as a sex pest is my wife when I'm on tren lol.

 

[laclark89]

All good. Sorry for being a dick.

U know what they say you are what u eat.

Lol joking bro. likewise.

 

[JustVincent]

Your definitely not a man if your still referring to woman as girls? Are you in middle school or what?

Holy shit did u hit the nail on the head or what?
I tryed giving u a like it wont let me.

Only person to think of me as a sex pest is my wife when I'm on tren lol.

Semantics will make you a sore and tired human. Girls, women, females are all referring to the same group of people

 

[Aamega]

I know how hard it can be to approach women. I've gone down in flames like a Kamikaze at the battle of Okinawa plenty of times. Sometimes that shit really stings too. But if you can persevere, you get better at it & eventually you get what you want. Here's an example of a night that went my way.
I had a 20 YOA, petite little, GF when I was 48. She liked jacked AF older men & I fit the bill perfectly. I met her outside a club I went to see local bands at. We both went outside during an intermission & I just struck up a conversation with her. A few hours later, she was in my bed. I had some great times with her & nothing would have come of it if I hadn't initiated that first conversation.
So as hard as it can be to overcome that horrible fear of rejection, it's well worth overcoming.

Hell yeah Mikey. And yeah approaching always sucks but it's definitely easier the older you get. For starters I think we just care less but the biggest advantage is just having life experience and things to talk about. I don't have to run any lame "pickup" game. I can just carry a better conversation than when I was an idiot 20 year old myself lol.

And some of these guys calling other dudes creeps seem like they want to pretend that women in their twenties are just completely mindless with no agency of their own and that most of us dudes must be some sort of evil master manipulators if we're getting laid by them lol. These women know exactly what they are doing.

The reality is their are plenty of twenty-somethings down to wrestle with us 40 year old dudes and if you think that's delusional all you're doing is revealing that you've simply never gotten that type of action for whatever reason (I don't necessarily mean that in a negative way btw, maybe you're married or whatever and have never experienced the dating life in your 40's).

 

[Schibetta]

Guys that think 20yo women want a 40-odd year old guy hitting on them are delusional. Sure, some women are into that, just like some guys in their 20s are into women in their 40s. But it's going to be very, very, rare. I guarantee you that in 99.99999% of all cases, the 40+yo guy hitting on someone in their 20s IS a sex pest, and refuses to accept it, because they have this misguided idea that young women like it when old greybeards are hitting on them.

Do you workout, and quite bothering people. The gym is a place to get fit, not your own personal meat market.

At the end of the day men do the approaching and we chose who we approach. And there's no way a man's gonna know if he can get a girl unless he goes after her first.

You're seriously trying to discourage older guys up here with "uh you think she wants you hitting on her" but that's not going to work because most guys have been rejected way more than they've been given the green light, so the only one you're going to get with that statement is some self conscious incel who doesn't have much experience approaching women in the first place.

To guys of any age, if you see a girl you like approach her, doesn't matter if she's 18 or 90, if you like her, make conversation and see where it goes.

 

[Schibetta]

Hell yeah Mikey. And yeah approaching always sucks but it's definitely easier the older you get. For starters I think we just care less but the biggest advantage is just having life experience and things to talk about. I don't have to run any lame "pickup" game. I can just carry a better conversation than when I was an idiot 20 year old myself lol.

And some of these guys calling other dudes creeps seem like they want to pretend that women in their twenties are just completely mindless with no agency of their own and that most of us dudes must be some sort of evil master manipulators if we're getting laid by them lol. These women know exactly what they are doing.

The reality is their are plenty of twenty-somethings down to wrestle with us 40 year old dudes and if you think that's delusional all you're doing is revealing that you've simply never gotten that type of action for whatever reason (I don't necessarily mean that in a negative way btw, maybe you're married or whatever and have never experienced the dating life in your 40's).

Bingo brother.

 

[JustVincent]

Hell yeah Mikey. And yeah approaching always sucks but it's definitely easier the older you get. For starters I think we just care less but the biggest advantage is just having life experience and things to talk about. I don't have to run any lame "pickup" game. I can just carry a better conversation than when I was an idiot 20 year old myself lol.

And some of these guys calling other dudes creeps seem like they want to pretend that women in their twenties are just completely mindless with no agency of their own and that most of us dudes must be some sort of evil master manipulators if we're getting laid by them lol. These women know exactly what they are doing.

The reality is their are plenty of twenty-somethings down to wrestle with us 40 year old dudes and if you think that's delusional all you're doing is revealing that you've simply never gotten that type of action for whatever reason (I don't necessarily mean that in a negative way btw, maybe you're married or whatever and have never experienced the dating life in your 40's).

This is too based and fair and is not allowed in online forums. Come back when you're more lonely and neurotic and don't understand women

 

[skinnyfatboy]

(Your age)/2 + 7, rounded up. That's your floor. If you're 45, you shouldn't be hitting on anyone younger than 30. If you do, you're a creep.

This is single older woman math lol.

 

[Schibetta]

This is single older woman math lol.

Religious people say something similar not as a restriction per say but they claim that's the perfect age partner for a man. She is just using it as a barrier.