Orgasm ..help!

[pahick]

Bros I got a bad case of anxiety right now and I need advice ASAP. Talking to a woman I knew when I was young, shes single now. Got issues, but I can deal with em. But now I have an old issue that somehow disappear....reappear! I take xanax as needed. For years I just pop one 1/2 mg in the morning and go about my business.

Almost 5 yrs ago I moved one in and I couldnt cum to save my ass. The only way is if she used a lot of hand and blew me. Doc thought prostate and gave me antibiotics. But it didnt work. Tryin to keep this short and sweet. Nothing wrong with prostate, it was the xanax. So I started using it like I was supposed to, as needed. Threw her dumb ass out and the first woman I railed BOOM like a fuckin geyser!

Fast forward...past few women there have been times I couldnt cum. But we worked through it. Past month works been hell, I switched to 3rd(over night) shift, and I been noticing if I rub one out its taking forever. Due to stated stress, I been taking 2-3 1/2mg xanax per day. Now I am supposed to reconnect with this woman this weekend and im a wreck!

I dont know what to do. I cant just up and stop xanax cause if potential withdrawal....its only 1/2mg but I been taking them for 8 yrs now...nothing else would touch the spells of anxiety. How the hell can I fix the orgasm issue?? Anyone else go through it?? I keep thinking ill end up not even getting it up if I keep worrying about potentially not being able to cum!

FUCK ME!

 

[TrenTrenTren]

Been there brotha. The bad thing about performance anxiety is that it is a self defeating spiral. The more you think about it, the more you think about it, and then the worse you perform.

There is one thing that's helped me several times...and this is going to sound REALLY bad...but in my head I treat the girl like she is a worthless slut. Even if I really don't believe it! In my mind I'm thinking that this woman is just a hole to fuck and she is there for MY entertainment.

What this does is take the pressure off you. When you have performance anxiety, you are focused too much on pleasing her. Your thoughts race and think that you may not be good enough.

Turn that around by going in to it with the firm belief that she is there to please you. She must work for your approval. Command her to do things that are going to please you. In reality, she will love that you're taking charge. And your mind will fall in to the thinking that all the pressure is off you.

My 2 cents...

 

[Deezznutzz]

Sometimes I've had this problem on my second for third nut. Just try not to think about it very much and make her do some dirty talk... that seems to work. See if you can make her say things like ....I want your hot cum on my face. Or Make Her Say.... fill my pussy up with your hot cum... or Make Her Say ...treat me like a little whore... I'm your dirty little fucking cum whore. That seems to do it in most cases LOL you might even nut twice within 2 minutes.

 

[pahick]

Your thoughts race and think that you may not be good enough.

Fuck dude! This hit me hard the other day. Shes very open and honest. Shes got a shit ton of guy friends on social media. She never answers or replies to them unless shes related or are true friends. Let me tell ya, she made a social media post and within 5 minutes there were 16 likes and comments...she didnt answer none, but I felt like I had competition. She said no worries, but I did, and she ensured me theres no need. But fuck that can get bad sometimes.

I almost wrote her off just for that situation, but guys are guys...and she showed me she wasnt interested in them.

 

[jJjburton]

Hows es

Bros I got a bad case of anxiety right now and I need advice ASAP. Talking to a woman I knew when I was young, shes single now. Got issues, but I can deal with em. But now I have an old issue that somehow disappear....reappear! I take xanax as needed. For years I just pop one 1/2 mg in the morning and go about my business.

Almost 5 yrs ago I moved one in and I couldnt cum to save my ass. The only way is if she used a lot of hand and blew me. Doc thought prostate and gave me antibiotics. But it didnt work. Tryin to keep this short and sweet. Nothing wrong with prostate, it was the xanax. So I started using it like I was supposed to, as needed. Threw her dumb ass out and the first woman I railed BOOM like a fuckin geyser!

Fast forward...past few women there have been times I couldnt cum. But we worked through it. Past month works been hell, I switched to 3rd(over night) shift, and I been noticing if I rub one out its taking forever. Due to stated stress, I been taking 2-3 1/2mg xanax per day. Now I am supposed to reconnect with this woman this weekend and im a wreck!

I dont know what to do. I cant just up and stop xanax cause if potential withdrawal....its only 1/2mg but I been taking them for 8 yrs now...nothing else would touch the spells of anxiety. How the hell can I fix the orgasm issue?? Anyone else go through it?? I keep thinking ill end up not even getting it up if I keep worrying about potentially not being able to cum!

FUCK ME!

Hows estrogen?

Stop watching porn and masterbating for a month, this will help.

 

[jJjburton]

Fuck dude! This hit me hard the other day. Shes very open and honest. Shes got a shit ton of guy friends on social media. She never answers or replies to them unless shes related or are true friends. Let me tell ya, she made a social media post and within 5 minutes there were 16 likes and comments...she didnt answer none, but I felt like I had competition. She said no worries, but I did, and she ensured me theres no need. But fuck that can get bad sometimes.

I almost wrote her off just for that situation, but guys are guys...and she showed me she wasnt interested in them.

Get rid of social media

 

[TrenTrenTren]

Fuck dude! This hit me hard the other day. Shes very open and honest. Shes got a shit ton of guy friends on social media. She never answers or replies to them unless shes related or are true friends. Let me tell ya, she made a social media post and within 5 minutes there were 16 likes and comments...she didnt answer none, but I felt like I had competition. She said no worries, but I did, and she ensured me theres no need. But fuck that can get bad sometimes.

I almost wrote her off just for that situation, but guys are guys...and she showed me she wasnt interested in them.

Yeah bro. You are building her up way too much in your head. This is the self defeating spiral.

She is just like every other girl. She shits rancid shits. She bleeds out of her pussy. She has BO. She's probably a bitch like all the rest of them are. She's weak and controlled by her emotions. Can't think straight. A follower, not a leader. Has a ton of insecurities.

You're a man. You're a conquerer. You're the leader. Go in to it like you are the cats pajamas. Every girl wants to fuck you. You are a rational, logical, even keeled leader who is just simply above any woman, especially this one. Men don't get mind controlled by women, no matter how hard they try (and they do all the time).

 

[TrenTrenTren]

Hey PAhick, go ahead and assume that she's fucking all the guys on her Facebook posts. Then she's just another slut to you, and there's no pressure.

 

[pahick]

Hows es

Hows estrogen?

Stop watching porn and masterbating for a month, this will help.

Estrogens at 58, ill admit rubbing one off almost daily for the last month...works been hell and I need the money. I dont have a month to lay off tho

 

[pahick]

Hey PAhick, go ahead and assume that she's fucking all the guys on her Facebook posts. Then she's just another slut to you, and there's no pressure.

I cant do that. Theres no feeling with sluts. Dont get me wrong, theres physical pleasure, its not nearly as satisfying.

 

[Norse13]

Bros I got a bad case of anxiety right now and I need advice ASAP. Talking to a woman I knew when I was young, shes single now. Got issues, but I can deal with em. But now I have an old issue that somehow disappear....reappear! I take xanax as needed. For years I just pop one 1/2 mg in the morning and go about my business.

Almost 5 yrs ago I moved one in and I couldnt cum to save my ass. The only way is if she used a lot of hand and blew me. Doc thought prostate and gave me antibiotics. But it didnt work. Tryin to keep this short and sweet. Nothing wrong with prostate, it was the xanax. So I started using it like I was supposed to, as needed. Threw her dumb ass out and the first woman I railed BOOM like a fuckin geyser!

Fast forward...past few women there have been times I couldnt cum. But we worked through it. Past month works been hell, I switched to 3rd(over night) shift, and I been noticing if I rub one out its taking forever. Due to stated stress, I been taking 2-3 1/2mg xanax per day. Now I am supposed to reconnect with this woman this weekend and im a wreck!

I dont know what to do. I cant just up and stop xanax cause if potential withdrawal....its only 1/2mg but I been taking them for 8 yrs now...nothing else would touch the spells of anxiety. How the hell can I fix the orgasm issue?? Anyone else go through it?? I keep thinking ill end up not even getting it up if I keep worrying about potentially not being able to cum!

FUCK ME!

As long as you can get it up, worst case, in the end just pretend like you cum inside her. She can't tell if you came for real or not. Even better if you do it when banging her from behind so she don't see your face.
Obviously not a long term solution, but it'll take the pressure off. Once you've fucked her a few times, you'll feel much more relaxed about her.
Take a mix of viagra and cialis and it'll stand up fine.

 

[jJjburton]

Estrogens at 58, ill admit rubbing one off almost daily for the last month...works been hell and I need the money. I dont have a month to lay off tho

Is it hard when you masterbate alone?

 

[jJjburton]

Yeah bro. You are building her up way too much in your head. This is the self defeating spiral.

She is just like every other girl. She shits rancid shits. She bleeds out of her pussy. She has BO. She's probably a bitch like all the rest of them are. She's weak and controlled by her emotions. Can't think straight. A follower, not a leader. Has a ton of insecurities.

You're a man. You're a conquerer. You're the leader. Go in to it like you are the cats pajamas. Every girl wants to fuck you. You are a rational, logical, even keeled leader who is just simply above any woman, especially this one. Men don't get mind controlled by women, no matter how hard they try (and they do all the time).

This is irrelevant if it happens when hes alone with nobody

 

[TrenTrenTren]

This is irrelevant if it happens when hes alone with nobody

That's true. If that's the case, he may just need to work on his sensitivity. Anyone tried pygeum extract?

 

[phenominal34]

As long as you can get it up, worst case, in the end just pretend like you cum inside her. She can't tell if you came for real or not. Even better if you do it when banging her from behind so she don't see your face.
Obviously not a long term solution, but it'll take the pressure off. Once you've fucked her a few times, you'll feel much more relaxed about her.
Take a mix of viagra and cialis and it'll stand up fine.

She will 1000% know if you came or not !!!!

 

[TrenTrenTren]

She will 1000% know if you came or not !!!!

When she farts it out?

 

[phenominal34]

When she farts it out?

Is this a joke question ? Nobody said banging her in the ass ….

 

[TrenTrenTren]

Is this a joke question ? Nobody said banging her in the ass ….

Bad joke....sorry

 

[Norse13]

She will 1000% know if you came or not !!!!

How?

If they haven't fucked for 5 years, she won't remember exactly his sound effects and shaking, and can't see his face and eyes if he do her from behind. Is she going to inspect the condom to see how much liquid is in there?
If no condom, as long as there's a lot if slimy saliva and lubricant all around her pussy, it's not that easy for her to see if he added half a teaspoon of cum to the mess. Not everybody squirt like a porn movie.

What she will notice and remember is whether he ate her pussy good and made her cum, ate her butt, pounded her the way she likes it.

Of course if you Level Up like our resident TripleTren @TrenTrenTren and try to cum on her face, she'll notice that nothing comes out...

 

[Mechanic]

Bros I got a bad case of anxiety right now and I need advice ASAP. Talking to a woman I knew when I was young, shes single now. Got issues, but I can deal with em. But now I have an old issue that somehow disappear....reappear! I take xanax as needed. For years I just pop one 1/2 mg in the morning and go about my business.

Almost 5 yrs ago I moved one in and I couldnt cum to save my ass. The only way is if she used a lot of hand and blew me. Doc thought prostate and gave me antibiotics. But it didnt work. Tryin to keep this short and sweet. Nothing wrong with prostate, it was the xanax. So I started using it like I was supposed to, as needed. Threw her dumb ass out and the first woman I railed BOOM like a fuckin geyser!

Fast forward...past few women there have been times I couldnt cum. But we worked through it. Past month works been hell, I switched to 3rd(over night) shift, and I been noticing if I rub one out its taking forever. Due to stated stress, I been taking 2-3 1/2mg xanax per day. Now I am supposed to reconnect with this woman this weekend and im a wreck!

I dont know what to do. I cant just up and stop xanax cause if potential withdrawal....its only 1/2mg but I been taking them for 8 yrs now...nothing else would touch the spells of anxiety. How the hell can I fix the orgasm issue?? Anyone else go through it?? I keep thinking ill end up not even getting it up if I keep worrying about potentially not being able to cum!

FUCK ME!

Get bloodwork done, could be estrogen.