I have respect for people who are transparent with this topic but honestly it's not anyone's business what I do unless I want to tell them. There's definitely a preservation factor involved, you might call it fear, you might want to call it- I like my lifestyle and don't want to get involved with the legal system. I think you'll find that there's a lot you don't know about people and they let you know only what they want you to know, and that covers many areas of people's lives including relationships, desires, lifestyle choices etc. People are judgemental and some are jealous, so why would you want to give anyone ammunition to vent that. It doesn't seem wise to me.