Confession Box

[Gaynz39]

Still in the wrong. What does it to take to say Na you are married.
It doesn’t have to come down to him pleasing her or not. It comes down to her character and integrity. To partake in this is just shallow and shows lack of self control.

It is wrong. But what if the Wifey isn’t cutting it in the Sack anymore? And this HO is DIRTY. I know what should happen, and that’s nothing. But in the flip side, slamming a G of Test weekly, I wanna FUCK ALOT. This Bitch sounds like the Perfect fit to a Winter Bulk.

 

[nervje]

Still shows your character. Knowing someone is married and still go with it.
There is no difference in taken a random wife and a friends wife. In the end it is someone else’s wife, to partake in this shows your character.

Keep convincing yourself you are in the right.

And i know i do have a good character.
I dont have to proof my character to a dude i will never know.
Thats her part, proofing character to her man.

Id never cheat my girlfriend/wife, id never go for a friends girl and i would be the asshole telling my friend if she was hittin on me/if i found out she was cheating on him.

Thats my character.

What a random guys wife does is none of my business.
I dont care if i might hurt his feelings, no matter what the guy might be like.
Same guy probably would fuck my girl wouldnt care a out mine either.

It is what it is, it doesnt make me a bad person.
It makes me more of a "i didnt force her to cheat, and shes the one with bad character" person.

 

[BigNattyDaddy]

Still in the wrong. What does it to take to say Na you are married.
It doesn’t have to come down to him pleasing her or not. It comes down to her character and integrity. To partake in this is just shallow and shows lack of self control.

I never said it was right but I could definitely find ways to justify it, and it also depends on how attractive she is. You are lying to yourself if you think you would turn down a one nighter with someone like Kate Upton or Margot Robbie if they came onto you. It's a dog eat dog world out there @Roger rabbit.

 

[Roger rabbit]

And i know i do have a good character.
I dont have to proof my character to a dude i will never know.
Thats her part, proofing character to her man.

Id never cheat my girlfriend/wife, id never go for a friends girl and i would be the asshole telling my friend if she was hittin on me/if i found out she was cheating on him.

Thats my character.

What a random guys wife does is none of my business.
I dont care if i might hurt his feelings, no matter what the guy might be like.
Same guy probably would fuck my girl wouldnt care a out mine either.

It is what it is, it doesnt make me a bad person.
It makes me more of a "i didnt force her to cheat, and shes the one with bad character" person.

Of course she has bad character and integrity.

I hope you never get married then have someone do this to you. I have never experienced it but have had friends. It’s sad too because in a moment of the friends wife they had a small spat and while she was at a bar drinking things happened. Not only did she commit suicide because of her actions and felt remorseful he had to live with that, plus the cheating over stupid stuff.

Small ripples can create big waves.

 

[Roger rabbit]

I never said it was right but I could definitely find ways to justify it, and it also depends on how attractive she is. You are lying to yourself if you think you would turn down a one nighter with someone like Kate Upton or Margot Robbie if they came onto you. It's a dog eat dog world out there @Roger rabbit.

I’m not lying to myself. Some just have a higher moral stand point and won’t cross that line.

Could care less if it was Kate upton or whoever. It won’t happen for a one night, immediate self gratification session.

Call me old school, but I don’t cross certain lines based on principle alone.

 

[nervje]

Of course she has bad character and integrity.

I hope you never get married then have someone do this to you. I have never experienced it but have had friends. It’s sad too because in a moment of the friends wife they had a small spat and while she was at a bar drinking things happened. Not only did she commit suicide because of her actions and felt remorseful he had to live with that, plus the cheating over stupid stuff.

Small ripples can create big waves.

Well im 25 and right now, in my mind, i can say i do not want to be married ever in my life.
Just too many stories like yours ive heard, except the suicide part.
Would i fuck a wife if thats the outcome? Fuck no man.
Would i have fucked if only they broke up? Yes.
It would be the cheating taken persons (man or woman) responsibility to not do it.

Of course small ripples can create big waves like you said, but in this case, its always the cheating partner playing poseidon.

I was always dreaming about THE relationship, growing old together.
But harsh truth is, or seems to be, you probably rather win a lottery than finding such a partner, no matter how hard you try.
Its how times are today.
Thats why i try as good as i can to not focus on relationships and such, but concentrate on other beautiful things.
Work, hobbies etc..and almost all people, also older ones i talk to, tell me that women/men come and go.
You just have to accept it..

 

[BigNattyDaddy]

I’m not lying to myself. Some just have a higher moral stand point and won’t cross that line.

Could care less if it was Kate upton or whoever. It won’t happen for a one night, immediate self gratification session.

Call me old school, but I don’t cross certain lines based on principle alone.

I don't think there are many morals to begin with, with those of us here in the underground. And it's different IMO for a single man to cheat with a married woman than it is for two married people to cheat. Are both wrong? Is using illegal drugs wrong? Is selling illegal drugs wrong?

 

[MisterSuperGod]

I don't think there are many morals to begin with, with those of us here in the underground. And it's different IMO for a single man to cheat with a married woman than it is for two married people to cheat. Are both wrong? Is using illegal drugs wrong? Is selling illegal drugs wrong?

i see absolutely nothing wrong with anything i've ever done. So it's all good to me, broham.

 

[BigNattyDaddy]

i see absolutely nothing wrong with anything i've ever done. So it's all good to me, broham.

I rest my case

 

[Roger rabbit]

Well im 25 and right now, in my mind, i can say i do not want to be married ever in my life.
Just too many stories like yours ive heard, except the suicide part.
Would i fuck a wife if thats the outcome? Fuck no man.
Would i have fucked if only they broke up? Yes.
It would be the cheating taken persons (man or woman) responsibility to not do it.

Of course small ripples can create big waves like you said, but in this case, its always the cheating partner playing poseidon.

I was always dreaming about THE relationship, growing old together.
But harsh truth is, or seems to be, you probably rather win a lottery than finding such a partner, no matter how hard you try.
Its how times are today.
Thats why i try as good as i can to not focus on relationships and such, but concentrate on other beautiful things.
Work, hobbies etc..and almost all people, also older ones i talk to, tell me that women/men come and go.
You just have to accept it..

The reason why it’s hard now a days because people look at each other as disposable. They look for instant gratification.

In order to grow old together you have to adapt to each other as the years turn. People always say “ you aren’t the same anymore like you used to be” of course as we age we get new hobbies, new mentalities and new habits. You have to embrace those and adapt to them and not fall for the grass will be greener on the other side. Because it’s normally only greener because of the waste feeding the lawn.

And yes, the person cheating is no better than the person who knowingly goes along with it.

I understand being 25,was there many years ago and understand that mentality. I did shit back then I cringe at now but like most valuable lessons in life they come in two forms 1. Very expensive or 2. Very Emotional.

 

[Roger rabbit]

I don't think there are many morals to begin with, with those of us here in the underground. And it's different IMO for a single man to cheat with a married woman than it is for two married people to cheat. Are both wrong? Is using illegal drugs wrong? Is selling illegal drugs wrong?

I understand now. Single guys should not have a moral boundary.

I see no difference if two married people cheat with each other versus a single man knowingly taking a married woman.

Yes both are wrong, how could this even be debated?

Not sure how illegal drugs were brought into this, but I’ll play.

Yes using drugs in general can be wrong. Let’s look at this from a different view. If I use illegal drugs.. let’s say cocaine and I am responsible, add value to my community and hold my job and don’t hurt anyone along the way, then how is it wrong? Now if I do the opposite and harm people or my destroy my life it is wrong.

But.... now I’m the drug dealer. ... and you are having a bad day, you never did drugs before but need something to calm the edge and you ask for some heroin. It’s ok because you asked for it right? This action leads to destroying your life because a brief lapse in judgement because of the situation your in.

Just because someone comes to you for something doesn’t mean you have to give it to them. Especially knowing that action could lead a fellow human down a path they regret.

I simply cannot do that to the person asking or the person i could indirectly be causing harm to or the kids who could potentially face consequences of those actions. Even though I wouldn’t know more than likely it would still weigh in on me and my conscious.

 

[nervje]

I understand now. Single guys should not have a moral boundary.

I see no difference if two married people cheat with each other versus a single man knowingly taking a married woman.

Yes both are wrong, how could this even be debated?

Not sure how illegal drugs were brought into this, but I’ll play.

Yes using drugs in general can be wrong. Let’s look at this from a different view. If I use illegal drugs.. let’s say cocaine and I am responsible, add value to my community and hold my job and don’t hurt anyone along the way, then how is it wrong? Now if I do the opposite and harm people or my destroy my life it is wrong.

But.... now I’m the drug dealer. ... and you are having a bad day, you never did drugs before but need something to calm the edge and you ask for some heroin. It’s ok because you asked for it right? This action leads to destroying your life because a brief lapse in judgement because of the situation your in.

Just because someone comes to you for something doesn’t mean you have to give it to them. Especially knowing that action could lead a fellow human down a path they regret.

I simply cannot do that to the person asking or the person i could indirectly be causing harm to or the kids who could potentially face consequences of those actions. Even though I wouldn’t know more than likely it would still weigh in on me and my conscious.

Lol one day you think about fucking a milf..next day you end up shooting heroin. That escalated quickly

In all seriousness, i really do understand where youre coming from, i also understand bnd standpoint.
If we think about morals now, should i feel bad for doing steroids, because it might make the typical gymrat feel bad , just like fucking a guys wife might make him feel bad if he finds out..this could go on and on and on, fact is were all in this discussion because of (insert dudes name here who posted about his milf boss - im sorry im too lazy to go back to check again) and i think we can all agree, he shouldnt do it.

You say test makes you want to fuck everything in sight?

Go surprise your wife. Tear her a new one and fuck her brains out. Facefuck her. Fuck her asshole and eat her asshole. Make her suck your dick really really deep.
Tie her to bed and fuck her until she tells you to stop and then you fuck even harder.

Do something new if it got "boring" over time.
Save your marriage bro.
What ive always done (or at least the few times it was getting boring), was imagining your wife cheating on you. What would you do to her?
In my case it made me rage in bed and fuck her really really good.
Get that motivation to fuck your wife good again.

 

[Gaynz39]

Hell, I shouldn’t have said shit. I feel like someone shot my dog now. I’ll say, and I don’t tend to bullshit much, this Chic is god damn fucking smoking hot Dude. I ain’t tryin to convince anyone, but you better be 1 strong minded mother fucker to turn it down. I just don’t see me turning it down. I’ve trained ABs at the end of each workout daily for a fucking Solid Week to look my Upmost fucking best here. That’s how fucking Hot this Chic is. Time will tell, but I’ve got a full blown hardon for this deal right now. SHOOT ME NOW

 

[Roger rabbit]

Lol one day you think about fucking a milf..next day you end up shooting heroin. That escalated quickly

In all seriousness, i really do understand where youre coming from, i also understand bnd standpoint.
If we think about morals now, should i feel bad for doing steroids, because it might make the typical gymrat feel bad , just like fucking a guys wife might make him feel bad if he finds out..this could go on and on and on, fact is were all in this discussion because of (insert dudes name here who posted about his milf boss - im sorry im too lazy to go back to check again) and i think we can all agree, he shouldnt do it.

You say test makes you want to fuck everything in sight?

Go surprise your wife. Tear her a new one and fuck her brains out. Facefuck her. Fuck her asshole and eat her asshole. Make her suck your dick really really deep.
Tie her to bed and fuck her until she tells you to stop and then you fuck even harder.

Do something new if it got "boring" over time.
Save your marriage bro.
What ive always done (or at least the few times it was getting boring), was imagining your wife cheating on you. What would you do to her?
In my case it made me rage in bed and fuck her really really good.
Get that motivation to fuck your wife good again.

That’s the key. Even the nicest wife wants to be a slut once in a while.

Shit one time my wife came home, I snatched her up, tossed over shoulder and threw her in the bed.

( earlier that day I went and bought some of those straps you attach to the bed to tie her down) In which I did lol. Needless to say she had zero control of what went on and she loved it.

 

[Roger rabbit]

Hell, I shouldn’t have said shit. I feel like someone shot my dog now. I’ll say, and I don’t tend to bullshit much, this Chic is god damn fucking smoking hot Dude. I ain’t tryin to convince anyone, but you better be 1 strong minded mother fucker to turn it down. I just don’t see me turning it down. I’ve trained ABs at the end of each workout daily for a fucking Solid Week to look my Upmost fucking best here. That’s how fucking Hot this Chic is. Time will tell, but I’ve got a full blown hardon for this deal right now. SHOOT ME NOW

And when it’s all said and done. The feeling of remorse will hit you like a freight train. And if you are married 10,20,30 years down the road you will be living with that ghost thinking about it each time you look at your wife.

Meanwhile the “hot chick” will never think about you again.

Hope you make the right choice and your wife didn’t make the wrong choice.

 

[BigNattyDaddy]

I understand now. Single guys should not have a moral boundary.

I see no difference if two married people cheat with each other versus a single man knowingly taking a married woman.

Yes both are wrong, how could this even be debated?

Not sure how illegal drugs were brought into this, but I’ll play.

Yes using drugs in general can be wrong. Let’s look at this from a different view. If I use illegal drugs.. let’s say cocaine and I am responsible, add value to my community and hold my job and don’t hurt anyone along the way, then how is it wrong? Now if I do the opposite and harm people or my destroy my life it is wrong.

But.... now I’m the drug dealer. ... and you are having a bad day, you never did drugs before but need something to calm the edge and you ask for some heroin. It’s ok because you asked for it right? This action leads to destroying your life because a brief lapse in judgement because of the situation your in.

Just because someone comes to you for something doesn’t mean you have to give it to them. Especially knowing that action could lead a fellow human down a path they regret.

I simply cannot do that to the person asking or the person i could indirectly be causing harm to or the kids who could potentially face consequences of those actions. Even though I wouldn’t know more than likely it would still weigh in on me and my conscious.

I never said single guys should not have a moral boundary, but your morals are your morals, not mine.

The difference is what @nervje has been saying. If someone's wife cheats on him with a single man, that is HER decision. She is 100% responsible for her decision.

No one can claim to have more character or integrity than someone else just because they use drugs or have another vice instead of cheating. Not everything is black and white. What's right to you might be wrong to me or vice versa. Look at how different people are who live in different states. Now compare that to people who live in other countries. Again, morals and ethics are ambiguous.

And in your hypothetical scenario, the person buying the drugs is 100% responsible for buying the drugs, no matter what their reasons are.

 

[Gaynz39]

And when it’s all said and done. The feeling of remorse will hit you like a freight train. And if you are married 10,20,30 years down the road you will be living with that ghost thinking about it each time you look at your wife.

Meanwhile the “hot chick” will never think about you again.

Hope you make the right choice and your wife didn’t make the wrong choice.

I hear ya Brother. It’s fucked up, but I’ve let myself get sucked in badly. It’s consumed my time. Shit, consumed everything. I hear and understand everything your saying thou

 

[nervje]

Hell, I shouldn’t have said shit. I feel like someone shot my dog now. I’ll say, and I don’t tend to bullshit much, this Chic is god damn fucking smoking hot Dude. I ain’t tryin to convince anyone, but you better be 1 strong minded mother fucker to turn it down. I just don’t see me turning it down. I’ve trained ABs at the end of each workout daily for a fucking Solid Week to look my Upmost fucking best here. That’s how fucking Hot this Chic is. Time will tell, but I’ve got a full blown hardon for this deal right now. SHOOT ME NOW

Lmao try to get your wife involved.
Go for a threesome then, if your wifes down for that, you can get some boss pussy.

Otherwise stop it.
She may be hot, but close your eyes when you fuck your boss.
Will feel like a wet vagina, just like your wifes.
What if the pussy is loose, what if it smells even?? Damn thats one big regret youre gonna feel then.

You didnt just cheat your wife, you cheated your wife with a skank.

 

[Gaynz39]

Lmao try to get your wife involved.
Go for a threesome then, if your wifes down for that, you can get some boss pussy.

Otherwise stop it.
She may be hot, but close your eyes when you fuck your boss.
Will feel like a wet vagina, just like your wifes.
What if the pussy is loose, what if it smells even?? Damn thats one big regret youre gonna feel then.

You didnt just cheat your wife, you cheated your wife with a skank.

She would never do the threesome. Tried several times.
You are correct, if any of that were true it would be a miserable mistake.

 

[Roger rabbit]

I never said single guys should not have a moral boundary, but your morals are your morals, not mine.

The difference is what @nervje has been saying. If someone's wife cheats on him with a single man, that is HER decision. She is 100% responsible for her decision.

No one can claim to have more character or integrity than someone else just because they use drugs or have another vice instead of cheating. Not everything is black and white. What's right to you might be wrong to me or vice versa. Look at how different people are who live in different states. Now compare that to people who live in other countries. Again, morals and ethics are ambiguous.

And in your hypothetical scenario, the person buying the drugs is 100% responsible for buying the drugs, no matter what their reasons are.

You keep avoiding the main thing. If you knowingly do it , however you spin it, it is wrong.

Taking things and saying this could be wrong to one person or that is an easy way out to justify it. Marriage is marriage in every country and banging a wife anywhere you go is wrong. So you might be able to use your wording in areas as drugs, robbery or whatever but not in this instance. Porn has destroyed what is right and wrong. If you really need to bang a wife then find a cuckold or swinger couple.

Now, if the wife doesn’t say anything about being married or takes ring off, then yes, it’s on her not the individual.

There are millions of free women on the earth so to not be able to just say no to one married woman I simply can’t understand. Shit as soon as you say no im good to the married woman, you can log on to tinder and find a girl to get your rocks off with.