Confession Box

[Roger rabbit]

I hear ya Brother. It’s fucked up, but I’ve let myself get sucked in badly. It’s consumed my time. Shit, consumed everything. I hear and understand everything your saying thou

Hey man. That’s what we are all here for.
I wish you the best in the situation you are in.

A older guy once told me when I was younger on my wedding day.

“ don’t put yourself in that position and nothing will happen.”

When he said this to me, I didn’t understand but he said “you will understand one day.”

Over the years those words strike often in many different situations.

I remember this time when I was on a big business trip. In another country. The most beautiful women was with us, and of course over the course of dinner she started to flirt with me. Now i could have kept going as it was fun and exciting but those words came into my head. I excused myself from the table and when I came back I switched chairs with a colleague on the other side of the table.

Was this rude? Maybe one could take it as that. But, I had to remove myself from the situation that could have happened as the drinks were flowing.

 

[BigNattyDaddy]

You keep avoiding the main thing. If you knowingly do it , however you spin it, it is wrong.

Taking things and saying this could be wrong to one person or that is an easy way out to justify it. Marriage is marriage in every country and banging a wife anywhere you go is wrong. So you might be able to use your wording in areas as drugs, robbery or whatever but not in this instance. Porn has destroyed what is right and wrong. If you really need to bang a wife then find a cuckold or swinger couple.

Now, if the wife doesn’t say anything about being married or takes ring off, then yes, it’s on her not the individual.

There are millions of free women on the earth so to not be able to just say no to one married woman I simply can’t understand. Shit as soon as you say no im good to the married woman, you can log on to tinder and find a girl to get your rocks off with.

We'll have to agree to disagree. Cheating is not a black and white topic, few subjects are. We can both give hypotheticals all day long to backup what we believe is wrong according to our own set of morals and ethics but none of us are going to change the other's mind.

 

[The Terminator]

If this boss lady is really crazy, maybe she’s just trying to make it look like there’s an affair so she could call your wife and just rub one out to your wife crying and marriage falling apart. I knew of a girl who did something like this, except she did actually sleep with the guy but called his wife and was playing with her pussy as she was talking to the wife. Apparently when the wife was so sad she brought up killing herself this made the crazy chicks pussy even wetter. Now I’m sure this is unlikely to happen just thought I’d share tho

 

[The Terminator]

I hear ya Brother. It’s fucked up, but I’ve let myself get sucked in badly. It’s consumed my time. Shit, consumed everything. I hear and understand everything your saying thou

Just rub one out and then ask yourself if you wanna follow thru.

 

[Gaynz39]

If this boss lady is really crazy, maybe she’s just trying to make it look like there’s an affair so she could call your wife and just rub one out to your wife crying and marriage falling apart. I knew of a girl who did something like this, except she did actually sleep with the guy but called his wife and was playing with her pussy as she was talking to the wife. Apparently when the wife was so sad she brought up killing herself this made the crazy chicks pussy even wetter. Now I’m sure this is unlikely to happen just thought I’d share tho

I highly doubt it Bro. This woman just went thru a divorce. I would have much rather already fucked her than go thru all this shit. It’s been none stop conversations for several days, allday, and all evening. Not what I do usually by any means. It’s getting to be a bit much, but I don’t want to over analyze the shit. Time will reveal what her intentions are. She wouldn’t be very smart to do anything dumb. The companies we work for I have known many of them for some time. She would be ruined if she pulled some dumb shit

 

[nervje]

I highly doubt it Bro. This woman just went thru a divorce. I would have much rather already fucked her than go thru all this shit. It’s been none stop conversations for several days, allday, and all evening. Not what I do usually by any means. It’s getting to be a bit much, but I don’t want to over analyze the shit. Time will reveal what her intentions are. She wouldn’t be very smart to do anything dumb. The companies we work for I have known many of them for some time. She would be ruined if she pulled some dumb shit

With you having text conversations all day with her, doesnt the wife recognize?
You surely act different lately, too.

 

[Gaynz39]

With you having text conversations all day with her, doesnt the wife recognize?
You surely act different lately, too.

I’m away working Bro.

 

[TRT]

Hey man. That’s what we are all here for.
I wish you the best in the situation you are in.

A older guy once told me when I was younger on my wedding day.

“ don’t put yourself in that position and nothing will happen.”

When he said this to me, I didn’t understand but he said “you will understand one day.”

Over the years those words strike often in many different situations.

I remember this time when I was on a big business trip. In another country. The most beautiful women was with us, and of course over the course of dinner she started to flirt with me. Now i could have kept going as it was fun and exciting but those words came into my head. I excused myself from the table and when I came back I switched chairs with a colleague on the other side of the table.

Was this rude? Maybe one could take it as that. But, I had to remove myself from the situation that could have happened as the drinks were flowing.

I've read to many of your posts not to see that your one of those rare kind of people. "Old fashion"? Wouldn't call you that. Maybe a stand up guy with morals? Absolutely. You and I would get along very well.
I watch my guy friends go to the strip club and cheat on their wife's and gf all the time. The strippers fuck them all the time in VIP rooms since they know the owner. They e been trying to get me to go for a long time now.
I guess it fits in the same thing you said on your wedding day. Don't put yourself in that situation and it won't happen.
At one point in time I wanted other women cause the GF and I weren't doing so well at the time but I'm glad I didn't. She honestly doesn't deserve it. She been very very good to me. Maybe I just liked the idea of fucking the shit out of these two dime's (well who wouldn't really) but that's all it was.

 

[rpbb]

I've read to many of your posts not to see that your one of those rare kind of people. "Old fashion"? Wouldn't call you that. Maybe a stand up guy with morals? Absolutely. You and I would get along very well.
I watch my guy friends go to the strip club and cheat on their wife's and gf all the time. The strippers fuck them all the time in VIP rooms since they know the owner. They e been trying to get me to go for a long time now.
I guess it fits in the same thing you said on your wedding day. Don't put yourself in that situation and it won't happen.
At one point in time I wanted other women cause the GF and I weren't doing so well at the time but I'm glad I didn't. She honestly doesn't deserve it. She been very very good to me. Maybe I just liked the idea of fucking the shit out of these two dime's (well who wouldn't really) but that's all it was.

I'm a good bit older than you guys, and agree with every thing you're saying in principal. The only thing I'll add is that it's alot more complicated, whereby I've found it's the women instigating most of the cheating. Really surprised me in my 40's. (BTW, I won't sleep with chicks even if I don't know their boyfriend, creates bad karma, and to many single ones out there to bother with the attached ones)

 

[nervje]

I'm a good bit older than you guys, and agree with every thing you're saying in principal. The only thing I'll add is that it's alot more complicated, whereby I've found it's the women instigating most of the cheating. Really surprised me in my 40's. (BTW, I won't sleep with chicks even if I don't know their boyfriend, creates bad karma, and to many single ones out there to bother with the attached ones)

This makes me remember a story and well..its the confession thread so..:

There was actually just one time in my life i had sex with a woman knowing she had a bf.
We matched on tinder and started to chat.
Hobbies and all that typical bs.
When we asked each other why we actually use the app, i told my typical "nothing special, whatever happens, happens, but im not using it for smth specific".

Her reply was, openly, shes using it to get fucked.
Well so we did some talking, what is she into, what am i into and in this process she told me shes actually taken, but she also loves sex and doesnt care too much about it being cheating.
So the day after i was at work and we started to talk shortly before i was done working.
I actually wanted to hit the gym, but we got into dirty talking and i ended up spontaneously driving to her home, i took a shower and fucked her.
Literally just that..
Hi, go shower(i asked her on phone if i could and she agreed), got out, got my dick sucked, fucker her, even fucked her asshole, but i didnt cum which sucked. I hardly cum with a condom.
It felt weird, i didnt really believe it at first but seeing pictures of both on the wall, mens clothing in the washing machine and all that.

I also discovered a few bags of whey protein, so she was cool about making me a protein shake so i could go train after this sex session.

Am i the evil guy now?

 

[rpbb]

This makes me remember a story and well..its the confession thread so..:

There was actually just one time in my life i had sex with a woman knowing she had a bf.
We matched on tinder and started to chat.
Hobbies and all that typical bs.
When we asked each other why we actually use the app, i told my typical "nothing special, whatever happens, happens, but im not using it for smth specific".

Her reply was, openly, shes using it to get fucked.
Well so we did some talking, what is she into, what am i into and in this process she told me shes actually taken, but she also loves sex and doesnt care too much about it being cheating.
So the day after i was at work and we started to talk shortly before i was done working.
I actually wanted to hit the gym, but we got into dirty talking and i ended up spontaneously driving to her home, i took a shower and fucked her.
Literally just that..
Hi, go shower(i asked her on phone if i could and she agreed), got out, got my dick sucked, fucker her, even fucked her asshole, but i didnt cum which sucked. I hardly cum with a condom.
It felt weird, i didnt really believe it at first but seeing pictures of both on the wall, mens clothing in the washing machine and all that.

I also discovered a few bags of whey protein, so she was cool about making me a protein shake so i could go train after this sex session.

Am i the evil guy now?

nope, there are no absolutes in life, everyone is going to do what they want, and that's just the way it is

 

[nervje]

nope, there are no absolutes in life, everyone is going to do what they want, and that's just the way it is

To be honest, i actually thought about leaving him a letter under the toilet seat, ive seen that on the internet once, and tell him the whole thing..because she actually told me shes cheated a few times already through tinder, but i never really had the opportunity to take the few seconds and do it.

In this case, i dont really feel remores at all, especially since she told me theres already been multiple times so im just one of a few.
The dude would have deserved to know better.
I would have liked him to break up and shit.
Not because im hateful but because shes a slut, period.

 

[Xragexx]

I’m away working Bro.

Do you have children @Gaynz39?

 

[TRT]

Do you have children @Gaynz39?

I'm gonna guess for shits and giggles that he doesn't and if he does they're all grown up.

 

[Rockclimber]

100% chance your wife finds out about this and 100% chance it's because this bitch is crazy and won't be careful with texts and or calls. It's likely that she wants your wife to find out because it gives her power. I've been in this situation before, avoid crazy bitches!

Also gentlemen, I think we can all agree that it's important to get all this shit out of our system in our teens and early 20s before we get married. After you've been with a hundred women you'll understand the advice here of pussy is just pussy there's different types but it all feels the same.

 

[Oliveironni]

If you want to go with other girls make sure they're also married with kids and just looking to have fun. Like the post above., avoid crazy bitches.

 

[Gaynz39]

Do you have children @Gaynz39?

I’ve got kids Bro. I don’t like to give up to much info on this fucking Board.

 

[Roger rabbit]

To be honest, i actually thought about leaving him a letter under the toilet seat, ive seen that on the internet once, and tell him the whole thing..because she actually told me shes cheated a few times already through tinder, but i never really had the opportunity to take the few seconds and do it.

In this case, i dont really feel remores at all, especially since she told me theres already been multiple times so im just one of a few.
The dude would have deserved to know better.
I would have liked him to break up and shit.
Not because im hateful but because shes a slut, period.

Yeah for sure should have left that note so he could move on. Or stay and make that decision.

Or at least.. mow his lawn and feed the dog.... ( that is a military joke)

My battle buddies would say shit like “ I don’t care as long as when I get home the dog is watered and the lawn is mowed.” Lmfao good stuff

 

[Roger rabbit]

I’ve got kids Bro. I don’t like to give up to much info on this fucking Board.

This woman isn’t worth potentially ripping your family apart.

 

[Xragexx]

I’ve got kids Bro. I don’t like to give up to much info on this fucking Board.

@Roger rabbit just basically said what I was going to.

I understand your not wanting to give up too much, sorry shouldn’t have asked in the open. Just keep them in mind, I believe as fathers we teach our children their moral boundaries by what they know us to do. The whole do as I say, not as I do never works lol