Is it a double standard? I'm not a fan of how sp came in. That said catching someone's handle in initial vetting doesn't have the potential to hurt members because there shouldn't be any orders. Blasting an established sources handle and making detailed connections has potential to harm members. It seems in this situation it would've been better to keep what he found in his pocket and used it to start vetting him, which I'm certain he would've gotten help with. The non vetting seemed to be his biggest gripe and the vetting here is supposed to be an ongoing process.
To me we need to weigh out the potential harm to members when we put stuff on blast.
But apparently the bread crumbs were already scattered about and they were covered behind the scenes. Did @Rapier do the harm or did the coverup of the bread crumbs, setting the ticking time bomb do the harm? Who knows who @Rapier is but if he was able to piece it together, someone else could have too.
Double standard was only half. The disillusionment is what I’m sure a lot of guys here are starting to feel while reading this thread. Maybe I’m being naive but MESO was supposed to be different than other forums. A lot of us liked that. I think we’re seeing it thru a new set of eyes now and that’s pretty disappointing.