WOMEN - ANSWER ALL - Q&A with Meso Ladies

[Intense]

Are you referring to my poll that is at the start of this? I don't understand why women are so crazy when it comes to this... besides the fact that they don't understand. I had to sit down with so many wives/gfs and see what the issue was... most were misinformed and used the typical stereotypes... it ended with some actually trying them out too! Lol and now they are ok with it all.

Yes I'm referring to the poll.

 

[CensoredBoardsSuck]

CBS, been missing seeing you around lately! Hope all is well!

Been pretty busy lately so I haven't been around much. Thanks for asking, though. All is well with you, I trust.

 

[Wunderpus]

Been pretty busy lately so I haven't been around much. Thanks for asking, though. All is well with you, I trust.

You know WP is feeling just fine when I cannot turn down a fight.... lol so yes, all is well. We've had to be on troll patrol without you lately

 

[jaymaximus]

Ok. Since no one will amswer my last question I have a new one.

Ladies, are all youre men active in the "lifestyle"? Meaning do they train and / or utilize PEDs?

Ive noticed men who workout will have women who dont, but you hardly ever see a woman who works out with a man who doesnt.

 

[Happycamper]

Ok. New question. I was trying to wait on this one...

When receiving, umm, oral women have a tendency to scrape my goods with their teeth. I love the act and Im happy theyll do it, but that hurts. One time I brought it up and either the woman was embarrassed or upset, but she stopped. And thats the last time I ever mentioned it.

So how can I tell a woman that I like what she's doing, but not how she's doing it without getting shutdown?

Super sensitive issue that is unique to the level of communication and comfort you have with the woman you are with. If she loves you, she may be more sensitive about impressing you and feelings can be hurt. If it's a casual sex situation, the woman may be more open to receiving pointers as casual sex and relationships are more about the experience and exposing yourself to different kinds of people to explore a spectrum of sex and intimacy.

Oral sex...you either are enthusiastic and love dick in your mouth or not. I love when a guy tells me what he likes and how I can please him and if phrased in a positive and sexy way, he will get it the way he wants.

Being pushy or condescending or mentioning what they have received in the past are no nos.

'I like when you do this' vs 'I don't like that' can help the mood.

Subtle direction like 'your lips feel amazing on my dick' can cue her to focus on that rather than her teeth.

Asking her to use her hands when you get uncomfortable will give you both a break (giving head is awesome but hard work!) and then being vocal about how good her hands feel. A combo of hands and mouth can be better in a situation where you're getting a lot of scraping. The more you egg her on about what feels good, the more you will get what feels good.

If it's just not happening, tell her you want to fuck her and change it up. Sometimes bad head is bad head and getting on to fucking without harping on the bad is better off.

 

[insaiyan93]

Do you guys know when we're not purposefully following you around the gym? It doesnt happen often because im usually hanging out around the power rack but sometimes my workouts will take me near a chick working out and sometimes it will happen twice or more in a row and ya know i just feel completely weird, like i try and just keep my eyes down and just focus on what im doing, but all i can think is "does this lady know im.not following her around on purpose?" Lol cuz im not, i dont want to talk to anyone at the gym, i just want to lift stuff up and set it down again and repeat , but i know there are guys that will purposefully take their workouts into the same area and it makes it weird for us fellas that just want to workout

 

[jaymaximus]

Super sensitive issue that is unique to the level of communication and comfort you have with the woman you are with. If she loves you, she may be more sensitive about impressing you and feelings can be hurt. If it's a casual sex situation, the woman may be more open to receiving pointers as casual sex and relationships are more about the experience and exposing yourself to different kinds of people to explore a spectrum of sex and intimacy.

Oral sex...you either are enthusiastic and love dick in your mouth or not. I love when a guy tells me what he likes and how I can please him and if phrased in a positive and sexy way, he will get it the way he wants.

Being pushy or condescending or mentioning what they have received in the past are no nos.

'I like when you do this' vs 'I don't like that' can help the mood.

Subtle direction like 'your lips feel amazing on my dick' can cue her to focus on that rather than her teeth.

Asking her to use her hands when you get uncomfortable will give you both a break (giving head is awesome but hard work!) and then being vocal about how good her hands feel. A combo of hands and mouth can be better in a situation where you're getting a lot of scraping. The more you egg her on about what feels good, the more you will get what feels good.

If it's just not happening, tell her you want to fuck her and change it up. Sometimes bad head is bad head and getting on to fucking without harping on the bad is better off.

Ive found I can be a little blunt. Someone should offer a class on how to talk to women.

 

[GearGodess]

Super sensitive issue that is unique to the level of communication and comfort you have with the woman you are with. If she loves you, she may be more sensitive about impressing you and feelings can be hurt. If it's a casual sex situation, the woman may be more open to receiving pointers as casual sex and relationships are more about the experience and exposing yourself to different kinds of people to explore a spectrum of sex and intimacy.

Oral sex...you either are enthusiastic and love dick in your mouth or not. I love when a guy tells me what he likes and how I can please him and if phrased in a positive and sexy way, he will get it the way he wants.

Being pushy or condescending or mentioning what they have received in the past are no nos.

'I like when you do this' vs 'I don't like that' can help the mood.

Subtle direction like 'your lips feel amazing on my dick' can cue her to focus on that rather than her teeth.

Asking her to use her hands when you get uncomfortable will give you both a break (giving head is awesome but hard work!) and then being vocal about how good her hands feel. A combo of hands and mouth can be better in a situation where you're getting a lot of scraping. The more you egg her on about what feels good, the more you will get what feels good.

If it's just not happening, tell her you want to fuck her and change it up. Sometimes bad head is bad head and getting on to fucking without harping on the bad is better off.

Happycamper pretty much nailed this...

 

[GearGodess]

Personally speaking, I'm a fan of fake tits. *Nice* natural breasts are fine, but they have such a short shelflife it's a rare occurrence to encounter them in the wild still in pristine condition.

I'm not asking for pics of anyone's breast implants - I've seen 'em up close and personal plenty times, and even paid for a few sets - but just wanted to say feel free to discuss them any time you want. It'd be a huge improvement over most of what gets discussed here.





Yes!!! I thought that was universally understood.



WTF?!!! Why do I miss all the good threads?

OH CBS! My friend, I have missed you Glad to see you here!

 

[GearGodess]

Ok. Since no one will amswer my last question I have a new one.

Ladies, are all youre men active in the "lifestyle"? Meaning do they train and / or utilize PEDs?

Ive noticed men who workout will have women who dont, but you hardly ever see a woman who works out with a man who doesnt.

That almost goes without saying, at least the industry I'm in, kinda vain, I know but you are surrounded by those leading the same lifestyle and ensuring they look good 24/7 and you need to be ready at all times... although I must admit that I have dated a few 'newbies' or non-users but it quickly turned into 'I need to get huge and ripped' and it was a fun project, always. lol

There was one, he worked out a bit, he was born with good genetics and sure had potential, but he wasn't interested. I actually found him annoying as he didn't understand why I ate the way I do, or why I train the way I do, etc... it was frustrating trying to explain it all and we eventually parted. He was ready to marry, have kids and all the white picket fence stuff but he wanted me to give up a huge part of me. AND THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! lol

 

[GearGodess]

Do you guys know when we're not purposefully following you around the gym? It doesnt happen often because im usually hanging out around the power rack but sometimes my workouts will take me near a chick working out and sometimes it will happen twice or more in a row and ya know i just feel completely weird, like i try and just keep my eyes down and just focus on what im doing, but all i can think is "does this lady know im.not following her around on purpose?" Lol cuz im not, i dont want to talk to anyone at the gym, i just want to lift stuff up and set it down again and repeat , but i know there are guys that will purposefully take their workouts into the same area and it makes it weird for us fellas that just want to workout

YES WE KNOW, at least I can tell... usually happens if the guys are regulars like me, plus we happen to be working out the same body part that day... so it happens and we sometimes may seem like we are doing the same. As long as you aren't staring at us or giving us creepy looks.

 

[RodgerThat]

YES WE KNOW, at least I can tell... usually happens if the guys are regulars like me, plus we happen to be working out the same body part that day... so it happens and we sometimes may seem like we are doing the same. As long as you aren't staring at us or giving us creepy looks.

So you're saying I'm not suppose to do my bicep curls while staring at her and grunting (hopefully wearing baggy sweats) but instead I'm suppose to pay attention to my own workout jeez good thing this thread was made that's gonna clear up a lot of awkward moments for me I thing

 

[CeymoreButtz]

Great Advice, notes taken

Super sensitive issue that is unique to the level of communication and comfort you have with the woman you are with. If she loves you, she may be more sensitive about impressing you and feelings can be hurt. If it's a casual sex situation, the woman may be more open to receiving pointers as casual sex and relationships are more about the experience and exposing yourself to different kinds of people to explore a spectrum of sex and intimacy.

Oral sex...you either are enthusiastic and love dick in your mouth or not. I love when a guy tells me what he likes and how I can please him and if phrased in a positive and sexy way, he will get it the way he wants.

Being pushy or condescending or mentioning what they have received in the past are no nos.

'I like when you do this' vs 'I don't like that' can help the mood.

Subtle direction like 'your lips feel amazing on my dick' can cue her to focus on that rather than her teeth.

Asking her to use her hands when you get uncomfortable will give you both a break (giving head is awesome but hard work!) and then being vocal about how good her hands feel. A combo of hands and mouth can be better in a situation where you're getting a lot of scraping. The more you egg her on about what feels good, the more you will get what feels good.

If it's just not happening, tell her you want to fuck her and change it up. Sometimes bad head is bad head and getting on to fucking without harping on the bad is better off.

 

[GearGodess]

So you're saying I'm not suppose to do my bicep curls while staring at her and grunting (hopefully wearing baggy sweats) but instead I'm suppose to pay attention to my own workout jeez good thing this thread was made that's gonna clear up a lot of awkward moments for me I thing

I have seen crazy... some guys are just ridiculous...they start posing in front of the mirror or directly in front so you notice and breathe heavy or make a grunting sound...just so you look over.... it looks sooo silly! Plus some of them really should focus on their workouts as they don't even look like they workout but think they are GODS

 

[RodgerThat]

I have seen crazy... some guys are just ridiculous...they start posing in front of the mirror or directly in front so you notice and breathe heavy or make a grunting sound...just so you look over.... it looks sooo silly! Plus some of them really should focus on their workouts as they don't even look like they workout but think they are GODS

Well I'm no Zeus but I'm sure girls dig gods like Hermes too right...
On a serious note I actually say this as I walk on a treadmil and there's a guy doing curls obviously trying to get the attention of some woman just trying to get her morning workout in. It's silly to me.

 

[jaymaximus]

I have seen crazy... some guys are just ridiculous...they start posing in front of the mirror or directly in front so you notice and breathe heavy or make a grunting sound...just so you look over.... it looks sooo silly! Plus some of them really should focus on their workouts as they don't even look like they workout but think they are GODS

I dont flex, but I do load up some extra weight on my big 3 when theres a cute girl around.

 

[GearGodess]

Well I'm no Zeus but I'm sure girls dig gods like Hermes too right...View attachment 37483
On a serious note I actually say this as I walk on a treadmil and there's a guy doing curls obviously trying to get the attention of some woman just trying to get her morning workout in. It's silly to me.

YES I see this ALL the time!

 

[GearGodess]

I dont flex, but I do load up some extra weight on my big 3 when theres a cute girl around.

haha... you boys and your weight... have you ever thought it's all about the form and not how much you can 'swing' ...I always want to go up to some of those guys and tell them to stop swinging with momentum and actually use the muscle properly... it is WAY more attractive seeing proper form than how heavy you have it... some of my closest friends and they are monsters, they do light weight and look phenomenal.

 

[jaymaximus]

haha... you boys and your weight... have you ever thought it's all about the form and not how much you can 'swing' ...I always want to go up to some of those guys and tell them to stop swinging with momentum and actually use the muscle properly... it is WAY more attractive seeing proper form than how heavy you have it... some of my closest friends and they are monsters, they do light weight and look phenomenal.

Lol. True. I see it all the time...the "swinging". But I am pretty good with my form. When im off I can feel it right away, and I usually end up with mild injuries. I wont lie though, my DL form suffers when I add too much weight.

 

[Thenewera]

haha... you boys and your weight... have you ever thought it's all about the form and not how much you can 'swing' ...I always want to go up to some of those guys and tell them to stop swinging with momentum and actually use the muscle properly... it is WAY more attractive seeing proper form than how heavy you have it... some of my closest friends and they are monsters, they do light weight and look phenomenal.

A lady is preaching my knowledge right out of my mouth.. Taha. I love it.