Carboni
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Damn Man...you trying to get everybody to hate me on here?!?!?!?
No....thank god not the DEA or any law enforcement agency of any kind.
MESO-Rx
Anabolic Steroids
Does your spouse know you use gear?
- Thread starter Carboni
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No....thank god not the DEA or any law enforcement agency of any kind.
WannaBeBIG
Well-known Member
I've been mulling over telling my partner about my steroid use but it has only been recently that it's become apparent but I don't see it leading to any issues.
I've been with her for 3.5 years and have been on TRT for 11. The first time she visited my home I told her all about TRT so she wouldn't feel weird if she saw a sharps container in my bathroom under the sink. Since we've been together I haven't been on cycle and haven't even been very diligent with my TRT so its only been recently that I wanted to tell her about my use. I started a cycle 3 weeks ago and have been ED pinning and there's been syringes in the garbage daily so she obviously knows I'm on something other than TRT. I told her a few days ago that I was "taking a little extra Test to improve my mood" and she didn't bat an eye so I think I will eventually have that conversation where I try to educate her and provide my rationale behind my use.
I've been with her for 3.5 years and have been on TRT for 11. The first time she visited my home I told her all about TRT so she wouldn't feel weird if she saw a sharps container in my bathroom under the sink. Since we've been together I haven't been on cycle and haven't even been very diligent with my TRT so its only been recently that I wanted to tell her about my use. I started a cycle 3 weeks ago and have been ED pinning and there's been syringes in the garbage daily so she obviously knows I'm on something other than TRT. I told her a few days ago that I was "taking a little extra Test to improve my mood" and she didn't bat an eye so I think I will eventually have that conversation where I try to educate her and provide my rationale behind my use.
WeightLossBurn
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I hide that shit, but my wife sniffs through everything, so I'm sure she's found it. Probably hasn't said anything because she likes the tren dick.
Mine knew from the beginning. We were walking through a mall one day and a few kids walked past us and we overheard one of them say to another one, “That’s all steroids rt there.”
She then asked me, “Well, do you use them?” I responded, “Yep, sure do, and if you wanna leave I understand, but I’m not stopping.” She honestly didn’t give a shit, in a way I think she’s always liked it. She jokes around and says stuff like if we ever divorced she would have to find another geared up asshole like me
She then asked me, “Well, do you use them?” I responded, “Yep, sure do, and if you wanna leave I understand, but I’m not stopping.” She honestly didn’t give a shit, in a way I think she’s always liked it. She jokes around and says stuff like if we ever divorced she would have to find another geared up asshole like me
99powerstroke
Member
I swear my wife knows nothing about steroids but she always can tell when I’m on tren by how I’m dicking her down every 3 hours
Shadow Project
Member
From the start of our relationship I pointed out I was on steroids and wouldn't go off for anyone. When I told her I use steroids she just basically said she already noticed.
She wants me to be on. She likes me like this and is affraid I'll be a different person if I would ever come off. Didn't want me to come off when trying for a kid and now wants me to stay on forever since she's pregnant now.
But I do need to keep my health in check because she doesn't want me dying on her early because of AAS abuse, fair enough IMO.
She wants me to be on. She likes me like this and is affraid I'll be a different person if I would ever come off. Didn't want me to come off when trying for a kid and now wants me to stay on forever since she's pregnant now.
But I do need to keep my health in check because she doesn't want me dying on her early because of AAS abuse, fair enough IMO.
None of my GF's in the past have ever cared as it gives me 'Beast Mode' in the bedroom. My current GF didn't care to begin with, but we had a big argument (when I was 'off' gear and had been for about 3 months) but she blamed gear and said if I go back on it she would leave me. She is the only GF I have had who is a bit psycho though. I am currently hiding it from her and don't care because she takes Melanotan. I am only taking test though. I am avoiding Tren because everyone knows I am on cycle when I start Tren. If anything I am more chilled out when on cycle, unless I take Tren. I am not aggressive though, I just get really aggy and grumpy.
If what I am doing does not change my personality, then I don't feel like I need to tell her, hence avoiding Tren.
Funnily enough she seems to associate DNP as the drug that she hates the most... as apparently I am very grumpy on that.
barbell001
Well-known Member
I have often wondered about all the implications of this if I had a partner living with me, atm I live by myself and have always enjoyed my own company and am at ease with it, so I never have any issues with keeping things secret and hiding things away. BUT I have often thought of how I would keep up with keeping all the vials hidden in the spare room, boxes of barrels and various needle boxes. I would find it a real pain in the ass having to get it all out each time then dispose of wrappers and needles and hide the rest back away. Plus I love being able to display all my vials on the bathroom shelf Lol I enjoy looking at them when I go for a piss and when brushing my teeth!! LMAO But what others are saying is Very true - if they know you do gear and you get snappy with them the first thing thrown back at you will always be this is because you are doing steroids. I've known guys trying to get custody of their kids during divorces that their cheating wives have caused - the wife takes them to court and tells the judge the father is using and is addicted to steroids!! Judge orders a drugs test then its game over for the father - women are ruthless buggers when they want to be and will stop at nothing to get what they want including destroying you in the process.
You can hide it from a spouse but in my case after ordering 500 5mg dbol tabs from China like 20 years ago the cops come knocking on your door and the spouse finds out anyway.
And, charges went away I wasn't a dealer or anything and govt lied in their warrant but when you get divorced she'll use that against you in family court. Her lawyer will insist she does.
There are women out there who are very "420 friendly" or other drug friendly or takes PEDs themselves though and it won't be an issue. An educated guess on my part is this would probably be 5-10% of the women out there though, most of them single and probably always will be due to addiction issues. Add kids to the equation and suddenly they'll want you to be more cleaned up and responsible though.
And, charges went away I wasn't a dealer or anything and govt lied in their warrant but when you get divorced she'll use that against you in family court. Her lawyer will insist she does.
There are women out there who are very "420 friendly" or other drug friendly or takes PEDs themselves though and it won't be an issue. An educated guess on my part is this would probably be 5-10% of the women out there though, most of them single and probably always will be due to addiction issues. Add kids to the equation and suddenly they'll want you to be more cleaned up and responsible though.
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From a medical perspective if there's a problem it'll either be a stroke or a heart attack and it'll be irrelevant to the ER or ICU if you were taking steroids. With kidney failure or liver failure or prostate issues you can explain it to the doc yourself but they will only care that you stopped. Some kind of abscess causing sepsis or thrombosis will also be irrelevant, and your docs and caretakers will just judge you more if you were on drugs lol
Here’s the thing abt women and gear usage, it’s what they’ll say abt steroids in a custody battle if you ever split up. Every single guy I personally know who has trouble with Johnny law and steroids got in hot water over some bitch who cried steroids
TrenTrenTren
Member
Exactly my experience. Women are dumb, and they will use any reason they find to start being "not happy" about something in the relationship, and they will blame it gear. When you are legitimately questioning something she has done, she will pull the "He's mean to me, and I will blame steroids" bullshit.
Tell them you take TRT from a doctor and that's it.
Isn't it bizarre that men will endure years and years of not being truly happy in a relationship, but the first time a woman is "not happy", she's got the green light to leave? You can never trust a woman, and a woman can never love you in the way you expect to be loved. Just accept it. It's their nature.
Interestingly, there's actually about 3% more women out there than men. But due to the natural order of things guys being more aggressive and what we've decided as a society, it's our job to pursue them and their job to say yes or no.
As a result, the more desirable guys have 2+ children and the least have zero. The ability to support and help nurture children with a good income and love for family is the largest factor they look for. And it works out really bad for the fat chicks with no suitors. We look for someone young and healthy who can bring a baby to term.
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VenomYo
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lets hope she doesnt decide to leave you. its gonna be fun in divorce court when she decides to tell the judge about ur tren
malfeasance
Well-known Member
Have you stopped to consider whether she might be correct about the health risk at your age? Or are you dismissive?
It may have more to do with a dismissive attitude about a very real risk than about the truth of whether you do them or not.
Anyway, there won't really be a way to hide it.
Would she leave you if you gained 20 pounds of fat? That's a health risk, too.
Do you do cardio every day for 30 minutes? I am asking because if the answer is no, then that is a health risk, and she ought to leave your ass.
Maybe taking this health risk seriously and discussing her concerns and doing what you can to allay those concerns by taking your own health seriously, cardio, proper diet, blood tests, blood pressure checks, and so on, would go a long way to repairing whatever this dysfunctional communication/power dynamic is in your marriage.
OmL
Well-known Member
My wife does my pins. She gets to hurt me and I get easy injections done. It’s a win win.
millesteg
Member
You dint have to write a whole paragraph about who anyone chooses lol.
And yes ofcourse she knows and close friends. Im open.
And yes ofcourse she knows and close friends. Im open.
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