I feel you, I just don't really even date or anything anymore. I just study and go to the gym, pretty boring tbh. Agreed that it helps to have someone with similar goals/mindset though. Someone who doesn't mind coming over to help you meal prep, foam roll, and sip on bcaa cocktails.
Last ex (3 yrs ago just wow am I getting older lol) always loved to go out to eat, and it was hard bc I didn't want to be rude and refuse. I'd always get salads and whatever I could find with a lot of protein. He also didn't lift...was a runner...and didn't like me going to the gym lol.
My gym in the morning is like a circus lol. One of the guys there shrieks reallll loud and screams, another guy always does squats like everyday almost but only goes about 2-3 inches down, not even close to parallel, a skinny 16 year old kid who comes in super early (only see him when I go super early like 2:30/3am) who works out shirtless and spends half his time taking mirror selfies, this kid who loads the bar up with 8 45lb plates only to do calve raises and shrugs, another guy who only works out his triceps spends the rest of the time talking to chicks on treadmills and ellipticals. Only one older guy in the morning I've seen who is maybe on the juice
He has a wife though (or maybe his daughter, honestly can't tell lol), the others usually come workout later in the day or in the evening. I could go on and on haha, maybe I just have no life and spend too much time there idk. I usually am so in the zone too, don't know how I even notice all this.
Thanks for the tips, revised as you recommended
Upper Power: Barbell bench 3-4x3-5, Bent over row 3-4x3-5, Overhead press 2-3x5-8, Lat pull down 3-4x6-10, Barbell curl 2-3x6-10, Skullcrusher 2-3x6-10
Lower Power: Low bar back squat 3-4x3-5, Glute bridges/Hip thrust 4x6-10, Sumo deadlift 3-4x3-5, Leg press 3-5x10-15, Leg curl 3-4x6-10
Rest: Cardio/abs
Upper Hypertrophy: All 3-4 sets x 8-12 reps, Incline bench, One arm dumbbell row, Flat dumbbell flye, Dumbbell lateral raise, Seated incline dumbbell curls, Cable tricep extensions
Lower Hypertropy: 3-4 sets x 8-12 reps for Front squat, Stiff legged deadlift, Barbell lunge, Glute bridge/Hip thrusts. 3-4 sets x 10-15 reps for Leg extensions and Leg Curls
Rest: Cardio/abs
Repeat!