Yeah I definitely lucked out , my sons mother and me are pretty cool . But ive got more than one friend that is going through the exact same situation as you , and its hard to watch some of the shit they go through ! The worst thing is as Fathers we dont have hardly any rights at all .. The Courts basically tell you to shut your fucking mouth , make your Payments and if the mothers a cunt oh well your shit out of luck , smh ! Its a god damn shame that there are good Dad's that get robbed of having relationships with their kids over an evil bitches ego !