I'm happy you found someone willing to help you, but it's not a question of love. It's about risk management, which is paramount to love in this arena. You could be the most standup reliable safe bet in the world, but with only one post I have little to no information to assess your credibility. Post count and content is certainly not fool proof, but it does provide some insight into your online persona and your willingness to participate and share information with others. This, along with some specific dialogue
and my spider senses, provides me with enough to decide whether or not I want to risk rolling the dice on you. So far this system has been working well and has prevented most undesirables from slipping through the cracks. Of course, above all, I attribute it all to my spider senses...