Telling Wife/GF About Your AAS Use

[freestanding]

My wife has always accused me of being on steroids jokingly throughout our marriage . Using the same stero-type jokes everyone uses. When in fact I have never done them before. I'm going to break her ass in with trt first.
She's been cool an positive about me seeking trt an knows what it consists of. She works in the medical field. So hopefully she will be pinning my ass for me. Good quality time with her in my opinion... Plus she's wanting some new tities to make it even
MK58.. I actually thought about not telling her also,cause I know how crazy she can get sometimes! But you know I hate the fact of having to lye to her, cause knowing me I'll leave a vial out or a needle or something to get my ass caught. So screw it why not tell her cause she's going find out sometime. Break it down to 2 her in little stages of info like some other people did also.

 

[Nutpuncher]

I am in similar situation as you are @mkulltra58. I recently started TRT and my wife only knows about my TRT. I have not blasted yet, but saving my pharma test for future blast while using UGL to maintain TRT. As of now, I plan on leaving it as is. She thinks that I will get much bigger because my T levels were so low to start with so she thinks what I've gained and will gain attributes to me having normal test level.

I don't plan on telling her anything else because I used to abuse opiates and I don't want her to think that I am replacing opiates with AAS.

Good luck my friend and think about "what is to gain by telling her? and What is there to gain by not telling her?"

 

[kiwigear]

My wife knows.. I got her into the gym life and its been one of the best things for our marriage. She's also done a few cycles of eq, DECA and var etc. Comes down to trust and judgement calls... And she knows I always make well educated choices

 

[kiwigear]

She also does my glute pins for me.. Technique ain't great tho lol

 

[Whoremoans]

I am in similar situation as you are @mkulltra58. I recently started TRT and my wife only knows about my TRT. I have not blasted yet, but saving my pharma test for future blast while using UGL to maintain TRT. As of now, I plan on leaving it as is. She thinks that I will get much bigger because my T levels were so low to start with so she thinks what I've gained and will gain attributes to me having normal test level.

I don't plan on telling her anything else because I used to abuse opiates and I don't want her to think that I am replacing opiates with AAS.

Good luck my friend and think about "what is to gain by telling her? and What is there to gain by not telling her?"

This is my issue. I abused opiates and amphetamines for a long time and my girl seems to think AAS were just a replacement for those. For me telling her was a mistake. She has never flipped out on me about it or threatened to leave me because of it. She doesn't like it but she knows and we're still okay. The part that's a problem is the fact she told people. Her mother, her father, her grandmother, her friends. By telling anyone you run the risk of becoming "that guy on steroids".

 

[turcao]

My wife knows.. I got her into the gym life and its been one of the best things for our marriage. She's also done a few cycles of eq, DECA and var etc. Comes down to trust and judgement calls... And she knows I always make well educated choices

How did she like EQ? My girl wants to give it a go

 

[kiwigear]

Yea she loved it man.. Strength went up.. Good gains.. 100mg a week

 

[Nutpuncher]

This is my issue. I abused opiates and amphetamines for a long time and my girl seems to think AAS were just a replacement for those. For me telling her was a mistake. She has never flipped out on me about it or threatened to leave me because of it. She doesn't like it but she knows and we're still okay. The part that's a problem is the fact she told people. Her mother, her father, her grandmother, her friends. By telling anyone you run the risk of becoming "that guy on steroids".

Ouch. The more people that know, the tougher it is to denial if ever SHTF. I personally can relate to you because part of me once to be honest because it feels so good to be honest and part of recovery is to be honest with others and yourself. I some level of short term memory loss from all the drugs I've done and believe me its difficult to remember your lies.

 

[Whoremoans]

Ouch. The more people that know, the tougher it is to denial if ever SHTF. I personally can relate to you because part of me once to be honest because it feels so good to be honest and part of recovery is to be honest with others and yourself. I some level of short term memory loss from all the drugs I've done and believe me its difficult to remember your lies.

Yep I'm honest about everything to the point where it fucks me pretty frequently.

 

[Nutpuncher]

Yep I'm honest about everything to the point where it fucks me pretty frequently.

I agree. I am 90% honest with 98% good intentions. Some info must be kept to ourselves ONLY.

 

[D-Ballin]

There's no hiding shit from my wife.

Best be sure I had everything received and stashed away for the first one before I told her though, haha.

I snuck it for a month with long esters. She knew I was looking at TRT anyway. Then I went for it. "So, you know all the extra energy and awesome sex. . .".

Worked out fine for me. She held it against me for a month. She likes it now, but she'll still take jabs every now and then if she thinks I spent too much any given month, lol. She tells me last month "with all that money you spend, you'd think you'd be bigger by now". Funny. Bitch, why don't I just call you fat while we're at it?

But really, all good. I don't see how anyone could hide their use from a wife. She's got to be used to you being one secretive fucker if that's going to work out.

Now some girlfriend, think again. Bitch doesn't need to know shit until you're trying to really settle her down. If her name and reputation isn't directly tied into yours, I wouldn't say anything. Anyone who knows should have just as much face to lose as you should it leak.

 

[CAswole]

I've hidden it from the wife and now i always tell her. Shes not thrilled about it but it beats lying and sneaking around about it hands down.

 

[Sparky_332]

My wife know all about my use. She doesn't mind although she was worried about "mood swings" from all the horseshit info the media spews. She loved the results and is going to do a Var run this spring. I cant get her to pin me though. She and two other people know about my steroid use and the other two were running the same cycle with me. As far as strangers or anyone not in the inner circle... 3 people can keep a secret if 2 of em are dead.

 

[Nutpuncher]

1 of the main reason why I don't tell my wife is because it's not legal. She wouldn't and allow me to risk going to jail because I wanted more muscles. There is no way that I can convince her that we have "nothing to worry about"

 

[jason genova]

Not to derail, but since it ties in, do any of your friends know of your AAS use?

 

[Nutpuncher]

Not to derail, but since it ties in, do any of your friends know of your AAS use?

This is gonna sound pathetic but I only hang out with my immediate family and couple friends and NOBODY knows. 1 friend knows about TRT.

 

[CdnGuy]

Not to derail, but since it ties in, do any of your friends know of your AAS use?

Some do, but thats cuz their on the program too.
Edit- would tell my wife if I was married. GF no chance, they come & go....

 

[ironwill1951]

with the divorce rate being 50 percent , and most divorces get pretty nasty, you will be giving her a lot of information she can use against you. don't live in a fantasy world just because your in love now doesn't mean you will be in 5 yrs , I just had a friend that got caught cheating she called the cops and told them about his steroid use he got off with probation but had a hell of a time getting partial custody of his 2 little boys .

 

[Drewcifer]

My wife knows, told her before I ever started that I was thinking about it. She was against it at first but at the same time told me it wasn't her place to make decisions for my own body. Just like I would never tell her she NEEDS to do anything to hers. She pins my glute and delt for me and is now thinking about trying a low dose of var. My advice is to be honest with her, but definitely ease into the situation like many here suggested.

 

[FeartheBeard]

My wife knows and pins me. First, I told her about prohormones I had been using, she was cool about that. Then I got on trt- well she loved that. I showed her, "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" and we spoke about it. It made sense to her. She's alright with it and doesn't tell anyone jack. We discuss everything together and she's pretty level-headed for a lady.

Honestly, if you have your wife pin you and crap happened and she says to the judge, "He took steroids!" Just say, "Yeah, and she injected them into me! Having kids involved is another thing. My toddler knows and if my child sees me giving an injection says, Daddy's shot! Daddy has shot! But I'm on trt so if my kid said it in public I do have a reasonable alibi.