WOMEN - ANSWER ALL - Q&A with Meso Ladies

[CdnGuy]

Thanks Devika. Good to know I'm not weird or something on the kissing thing

 

[gator22]

Ok I have a question. How do I get my wife started in the gym. She is always complaining about her weight and never feels good about her appearance. Even though I tell her she looks great. She always says she is fat since she got pregnant 6 yrs ago. I keep telling her to come with me. She never does and uses the excuse that she doesn't want people staring at her and make fun of her. I said everyone starts somewhere and will look awkward at first plus I will show her the proper way to lift. And if some one does pole fun then this beast will react. That is what I tell er. She still doesn't go and complains. Should I just say ok babe you're a fat weildabeast and flabby??? I don't want to hurt her feelings just want to get her motivated.

 

[gr8whitetrukker]

Ok I have a question. How do I get my wife started in the gym. She is always complaining about her weight and never feels good about her appearance. Even though I tell her she looks great. She always says she is fat since she got pregnant 6 yrs ago. I keep telling her to come with me. She never does and uses the excuse that she doesn't want people staring at her and make fun of her. I said everyone starts somewhere and will look awkward at first plus I will show her the proper way to lift. And if some one does pole fun then this beast will react. That is what I tell er. She still doesn't go and complains. Should I just say ok babe you're a fat weildabeast and flabby??? I don't want to hurt her feelings just want to get her motivated.

Get her a membership and trick her in to going. Worked for me

 

[Devika]

Should I just say ok babe you're a fat weildabeast and flabby???

Lol NOOOOOO!!! Don't do this unless you wanna be making your food and sleeping in the couch for a month lol.
If she's self conscious about herself it's understandable how she may not feel confident going to the gym.
So I think you should say something like "babe, I think you're perfect the way you are, but if losing some weight is something that will make you happy, I'll be glad to help you out and teach you a couple of things at the gym" then you can reassure her we all were noobs when we started lifting and you will be there for her every step of the way.
You can also tell her no one will make fun of her bc us lifters are usually too busy staring at our reflection in the mirror lol

 

[jaymaximus]

Ok I have a question. How do I get my wife started in the gym. She is always complaining about her weight and never feels good about her appearance. Even though I tell her she looks great. She always says she is fat since she got pregnant 6 yrs ago. I keep telling her to come with me. She never does and uses the excuse that she doesn't want people staring at her and make fun of her. I said everyone starts somewhere and will look awkward at first plus I will show her the proper way to lift. And if some one does pole fun then this beast will react. That is what I tell er. She still doesn't go and complains. Should I just say ok babe you're a fat weildabeast and flabby??? I don't want to hurt her feelings just want to get her motivated.

Im not a lady, but Ive had some experience with this. No women Ive dated will ever go with me because A) they think im too advanced and claim to be intimidated, and B) theyre afraid of the gym because they think the fit people will judge them.
I dont know if youre wife has any female friends, but what Ive seen that works is getting them to go together. Either some sort of zumba or spin class, or just working out together. That way she has someone she feels is on the same level as her.

But Im a man, and as women have told me my whole life, im always wrong

 

[Sampei]

I can tell there will be big improvements in many relationship with this thread

 

[Devika]

zumba or spin class

Lol

 

[Devika]

Im not a lady, but Ive had some experience with this. No women Ive dated will ever go with me because A) they think im too advanced and claim to be intimidated, and B) theyre afraid of the gym because they think the fit people will judge them.
I dont know if youre wife has any female friends, but what Ive seen that works is getting them to go together. Either some sort of zumba or spin class, or just working out together. That way she has someone she feels is on the same level as her.

But Im a man, and as women have told me my whole life, im always wrong

The problem with having a girlfriend as a gym partner is that if they are newbies too 1. Both of you have no idea how to do an exercise with proper form, set up a training or nutrition program
2. Most likely one or the other will make up excuses no not go to the gym leaving the other one hanging
3. They will most likely just go to Zumba classes and wonder why they aren't getting any results

 

[jaymaximus]

Lol

But Im a man, and as women have told me my whole life, im always wrong

 

[Pomacanthidae]

My question :

My girlfriend and I have been together about 7 months and things are going great. She got one of her friends a job at the gym and introduced us etc. The few times I've been there without my girl, her friend is very flirty and friendly. I laughed it off and ignored it, until last night when she asked me for my number. I didn't really know how to react and figured I might just be reading into things. How do I bring it up to my girl? Or should I even do so? I don't want to seem like 1.) an egocentric prick who assumes her friends want me to sling dick. 2.) the insensitive boyfriend who ruins their friendship
Honesty has always been the best policy for me but I know things get tricky when friends are involved.

 

[Sampei]

My question :

My girlfriend and I have been together about 7 months and things are going great. She got one of her friends a job at the gym and introduced us etc. The few times I've been there without my girl, her friend is very flirty and friendly. I laughed it off and ignored it, until last night when she asked me for my number. I didn't really know how to react and figured I might just be reading into things. How do I bring it up to my girl? Or should I even do so? I don't want to seem like 1.) an egocentric prick who assumes her friends want me to sling dick. 2.) the insensitive boyfriend who ruins their friendship
Honesty has always been the best policy for me but I know things get tricky when friends are involved.

Do You want to fuck The friend or not?

If no just give her your number and tell your gf You gave her The number because she asked. Put that information in a random conversation, like: yeah I was working out hard your friend came by we chatted a bit and then she asked me the number... Probably wanna get some
Advice about training and nutrition. Play it dumb. So you don't imply that the friend want to fuck you but you have told her the truth about the number


If you want to have sex with the friend.... Just don't do it. Probably it's a trap or if it's not it will no end well.

So just stick to the first plan

 

[GearGodess]

Sampei ---Did you ask Geargodess if you could trash talk like this in her thread ? This is the reason women dont stick around here. They keep getting harassed and their threads jacked by horndogs . Excuse yourself....

Thank you boys for 'policing' this weekend. I was insanely busy and didn't get a chance to log in much and review what's happening.

@Sampei I am surprised you're talking shit here. We have chatted through pms many times as you asked for advice and I helped you. Plus you are trying to come across as such Mr.Casablanca and think you know us so well.... if that's the case, then stay back, this is a thread for us to shine some light from our female point of view...

and zyzz.... really? no comment for you...I'm not feeding that fire. not worth it.

 

[Devika]

My question :

My girlfriend and I have been together about 7 months and things are going great. She got one of her friends a job at the gym and introduced us etc. The few times I've been there without my girl, her friend is very flirty and friendly. I laughed it off and ignored it, until last night when she asked me for my number. I didn't really know how to react and figured I might just be reading into things. How do I bring it up to my girl? Or should I even do so? I don't want to seem like 1.) an egocentric prick who assumes her friends want me to sling dick. 2.) the insensitive boyfriend who ruins their friendship
Honesty has always been the best policy for me but I know things get tricky when friends are involved.

If you are interested in keeping the relationship with your girlfriend tell her the truth.
She will totally appreciate it.
That girl is not a friend is she's trying to get with you.
Or you've been set up to see if you'd give your number out
The latter is unlikely but hey, better safe than sorry.

 

[Pomacanthidae]

Do You want to fuck The friend or not?

If no just give her your number and tell your gf You gave her The number because she asked. Put that information in a random conversation, like: yeah I was working out hard your friend came by we chatted a bit and then she asked me the number... Probably wanna get some
Advice about training and nutrition. Play it dumb. So you don't imply that the friend want to fuck you but you have told her the truth about the number


If you want to have sex with the friend.... Just don't do it. Probably it's a trap or if it's not it will no end well.

So just stick to the first plan

Definitely happy and feel lucky to have the woman I have by my side, not interested in anyone else. Option 1 it is.

If you are interested in keeping the relationship with your girlfriend tell her the truth.
She will totally appreciate it.
That girl is not a friend is she's trying to get with you.
Or you've been set up to see if you'd give your number out
The latter is unlikely but hey, better safe than sorry.

I didn't want to assume the friend was trying to get with me and make "something out of nothing" so to speak, but you're right. I respect my girl too much to let her have a friend like that, and to not mention it even if it is nothing. thank you

 

[Oregongearhead]

Thank you boys for 'policing' this weekend. I was insanely busy and didn't get a chance to log in much and review what's happening.

@Sampei I am surprised you're talking shit here. We have chatted through pms many times as you asked for advice and I helped you. Plus you are trying to come across as such Mr.Casablanca and think you know us so well.... if that's the case, then stay back, this is a thread for us to shine some light from our female point of view...

and zyzz.... really? no comment for you...I'm not feeding that fire. not worth it.

Thats alright GearGodess , I got your back . If those two trolls comeback (Sampei & Zyzz) me and the boys will thrash on them publicly . A women should be able to post here without being sexually harassed . Just rude punks...

 

[Burrr]

They will most likely just go to Zumba classes and wonder why they aren't getting any results

If the goal is to get in better shape and burn some kcals while having a good time, Zumba will work just fine. People need to have fun getting fit, and if your lady dreads going to the gym it won't become much of a routine for her.

 

[Sampei]

Thats alright GearGodess , I got your back . If those two trolls comeback (Sampei & Zyzz) me and the boys will thrash on them publicly . A women should be able to post here without being sexually harassed . Just rude punks...

wow OGH you really shine wearing that big armor
good boy

Thank you boys for 'policing' this weekend. I was insanely busy and didn't get a chance to log in much and review what's happening.

@Sampei I am surprised you're talking shit here. We have chatted through pms many times as you asked for advice and I helped you. Plus you are trying to come across as such Mr.Casablanca and think you know us so well.... if that's the case, then stay back, this is a thread for us to shine some light from our female point of view...

and zyzz.... really? no comment for you...I'm not feeding that fire. not worth it.

I was not replying to you when I did wrote in this thread, I like you, we have chatted and I have talked to you around the forum without any problem. You are a probably the kind of woman I like and respect. Anyway because of the internet police in shiny armor that is patrolling this thread, I have promised to not express my opinions about certain things anymore here, I don't want some old guy getting a heart attack getting all pumped in trying to bash me

 

[GearGodess]

wow OGH you really shine wearing that big armor
good boy



I was not replying to you when I did wrote in this thread, I like you, we have chatted and I have talked to you around the forum without any problem. You are a probably the kind of woman I like and respect. Anyway because of the internet police in shiny armor that is patrolling this thread, I have promised to not express my opinions about certain things anymore here, I don't want some old guy getting a heart attack getting all pumped in trying to bash me

OK. good. Well maybe back off the sarcastic comments towards others... some things come across quite rude in text... we all want to be happy and have good conversations here.

 

[Burrr]

What compounds are absolutely off limits for women?

 

[GearGodess]

What compounds are absolutely off limits for women?

That's a tricky question as it all depends on the female... age, goals, diet, training, time in her life, competing or non competing, what stage she is at in her training, beginner/intermediate/advanced, her previous cycles, etc... I've used many different compounds and I believe each has its place...at the right time.