WOMEN - ANSWER ALL - Q&A with Meso Ladies

How many of your ladies use gear and are they OK with you using it?

  • my lady and I both use

    Votes: 14 23.3%
  • my lady doesn't use but is OK with my usage (who are we kidding, I look like a god!)

    Votes: 29 48.3%
  • my lady 'accepts' it but we don't talk about it

    Votes: 6 10.0%
  • I hide it all and she will never know as she doesn't understand it

    Votes: 8 13.3%
  • it would be nice if she understood it and we could discuss it

    Votes: 7 11.7%
  • she is AWESOME and we do eachother's shots

    Votes: 5 8.3%

  • Total voters
    60
Woahh , whatcha tryin to say .
It's most likely the approach you use... plus having a random person pin you...and they don't even know how/where... wow... that's a disaster waiting to happen!

Maybe the next girl you're with...talk to her first, maybe ask her questions and let her ask you questions. Let her learn a bit and understand it...This way it's not just " I'm supposed to do WHAT / WHERE with that needle?"
 
Thanks @GearGodess your right , I showed them how to pin lol , the last girl was scared and when i said ouchhhh! Lol and i was just playing .Now she wont even look at my needles . :( Good advice
 
Well @Trapmonster your right , Just gotta try it , lol Well i thought i knew them alittle more than i thought of . Dont get me wrong ive very aware of who i see and or talk to about my private matter , ive been well enough trained.
 
Mine usually involve all of the above except it ends with me pinning her right in the twat. But whatever floats your boat, Jay.:oops:
Laughed almost to tears on this one[emoji1]
Well this has been a very interesting read for sure, i think its great to have a woman's perspective around here and GG knowledge of this lifestyle that I've enjoyed for most of my life is very impressive.
I wish my gym had more serious lady's like yourself and the others in this thread. I have big respect for you all,for putting yourself out there and answering these questions. [emoji4]
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For the ladies- I am interested in a female who does not partake in the iron but does have a body beyond most girls in the gym due to her rock climbing, skiing, hiking and swimming (she has a squat booty and legs and doesn't squat) issue I'm having is that last year she told me I'm attractive but too muscular for her (we were just good friends at that point so didn't think anything of it) well now I have a lot of interest in her and we talk more then ever but I'm 15lb heavier of LBM and look much larger then ever. Will the fact that she finds me attractive enough even though I'm too muscular or when you have a certain type in guys you tend to stick to that type even if you find other types attractive? (Backround- all of her previous boyfriends have been 6 foot tall and the rock climber body type around 160-170lb and I'm 5'8 on a good day and as it stands 190 with a body frame like a fridge :p) so basically do you stick to your "type" of guy or would you be willing to dabble outside of your "type". This wouldn't be a for a fling or the short haul either if that matters.
 
How do you tell a female friend (one that youve known a long time) that youre not interested in her in a vaginal way? But you still want to be friends and it shouldnt be awkward after...
Did she ask for more? How do you know she wants more?

This one can be awkward either way you look at it.... one way of detering her from looking at you as a yummy piece of meat would be treat her as one of the boys OR your sister... ask her advice and tell her about your dates with others or ask how you could approach 'that' girl you like.... that is usually a solid way to make sure you're only in the friend zone. Or if she is "googly eyeing" someone, suggest a way for her to go talk to them... kinda try to steer her in the opposite direction from the focus on you.
 
For the ladies- I am interested in a female who does not partake in the iron but does have a body beyond most girls in the gym due to her rock climbing, skiing, hiking and swimming (she has a squat booty and legs and doesn't squat) issue I'm having is that last year she told me I'm attractive but too muscular for her (we were just good friends at that point so didn't think anything of it) well now I have a lot of interest in her and we talk more then ever but I'm 15lb heavier of LBM and look much larger then ever. Will the fact that she finds me attractive enough even though I'm too muscular or when you have a certain type in guys you tend to stick to that type even if you find other types attractive? (Backround- all of her previous boyfriends have been 6 foot tall and the rock climber body type around 160-170lb and I'm 5'8 on a good day and as it stands 190 with a body frame like a fridge :p) so basically do you stick to your "type" of guy or would you be willing to dabble outside of your "type". This wouldn't be a for a fling or the short haul either if that matters.
This one is easy... if she wants you to change, she trully doesn't want you for who you really are... if you try to be "that type" she likes, you'll be unhappy and resentful. If you give it a go and she doesn't want you to change then she accepts you for who you are...even build solid like a rock hard "fridge".

If she is a snob, she will tell you she only dates "her kind" as it's her comfort level. If she does try then it means she is open to it and respects what you do. But be upfront with her about the demands of your lifestyle... throwing it out there in the very beginning creates trust and better than being accused of lying later. But I definitely wouldn't change just for her. That's not who you are. So be yourself 100%.

She is athletic from the sounds of it so just because she doesn't lift weights, doesn't mean she doesn't train. She should appreciate and understand the determination and dedication required of this lifestyle as it is hers when she trains her way. We are all passionate to stay fit except in different ways.

Plus you never know... we may be reading her log of her performance enhancement cycle because she wants to be a better version of herself...
 
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