RodgerThat
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Commen problem with women man they never can appreciate a guy just doing something really nice. I hate when you have to go wake them up to ask were some ingredients are, totally wrecks the suprise
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Commen problem with women man they never can appreciate a guy just doing something really nice. I hate when you have to go wake them up to ask were some ingredients are, totally wrecks the suprise
GearGodess
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HAHA love it!!
jaymaximus
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So I have a female friend who just messaged me and told me she's starting the advocare 24 challenge (I had no idea what it was until google). It promises crazy results to people but the problem is she doesnt exercise at all and her diet is alcohol and fast food. I think it's a waste of money and she's a dummy. How do I tell her this without coming off like a jerk (because I might want to see her naked someday).
Ive recommended other stuff, but people tend not to listen to me because im too "hardcore"
Ive recommended other stuff, but people tend not to listen to me because im too "hardcore"
GearGodess
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I'd have to Google to see what it is exactly...but if it's like all the other miracle promises, I would flat out tell her that it's a scam. She'd be better off adjusting her food and don't use the word "diet" as most freak out. They don't realize that what you chose to eat is your "diet"... clean diet, vegetarian diet, McDonald's diet, fast food diet, etc...get the picture?
Second...since you may want to see her naked someday... invest some time... suggest some foods she can eat after you find out what her goals are... that's a good start... and reinforce that there is no miracle magic pill that you can take and 'poof' everything changes.
Pomacanthidae
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Well... My girlfriend and I just broke up tonight. I'm feeling pretty shitty. How can I best go about letting her know I fucked up and want her back without coming off as a clingy bitch? Lol. For real though
RodgerThat
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Why does it matter if you come off as a clingy bitch if it would help get her back? Unless clingy is the reason it ended in which case I require a female to answer this as I'm unqualified
Pomacanthidae
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It was the fact that I'm too"distant and busy" that broke us up. I work 40 hours a week, go to school full time trying to get into medical/pa/pt school and try to have a relationship and a social life. I just want to be respectful and not look desperate. Pride thing I guess. But in all honesty I'm lost without her
Actually that doesn't look a reason to broke up, there must be another reason underlying.
Working, studying hard for your future, going to the gym etc. are all activity you should wear with pride and not be sorry about it. If you don't have enough time is because your are trying to build something! you are not lying on the couch drinking beers and sleeping all day long.
You should ask yourself, what's the real reason she broke up.
This is an excuse at my eyes, not the real deal.
Unless she wants a rich boy that don't need to work and has only to study and party all the day long
Looking desperate is the worse thing, even if you come back with her she will use that clingy attitude to own you it's sad but it's nature.
Why are you lost?
The biggest question should be: why is she worth all this hassle? is she really that special? If she was she wouldn't broke up for such a petty reason, unless you haven lied or not told us the whole story.
I can tell you what I would do: when a woman break up with me, after the emotional roller coaster end, I try to sit down and talk to myself like I'm in a real conversation. I speak and try to make a list of the mistakes I could have made that led to the broke up.
If at the end of the process I believe I made something bad that was clearly a good reason to break up with me, then that's the moment I start thinking if I really want that woman back and why! It's a long process but it helped me a lot in the past
Pomacanthidae
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Sampei I appreciate the advise brother.
She is a great woman, a little older than me and I think she may have been using it as an excuse too. I provide for her, I spoil her, I do everything I can with what time I have. Granted, I am not an easy person to deal with. I have OCD, I'm constantly stressed and busy, but I cared for her deeply and I did everything I could to show that. Personally, I think she was using it as a way to get out of things because she just doesn't want to be committed. Her job is going to require her to travel a lot the next few months and I think she wants to be able to have fun. But at the same time, I could be wrong. And I could have been distant or cold without intending to.
I am lost because this woman was the one for me. We shared goals, interests, she even teaches yoga and barre at my gym (we met through yoga). But I guess I just have to let things play out.
She is a great woman, a little older than me and I think she may have been using it as an excuse too. I provide for her, I spoil her, I do everything I can with what time I have. Granted, I am not an easy person to deal with. I have OCD, I'm constantly stressed and busy, but I cared for her deeply and I did everything I could to show that. Personally, I think she was using it as a way to get out of things because she just doesn't want to be committed. Her job is going to require her to travel a lot the next few months and I think she wants to be able to have fun. But at the same time, I could be wrong. And I could have been distant or cold without intending to.
I am lost because this woman was the one for me. We shared goals, interests, she even teaches yoga and barre at my gym (we met through yoga). But I guess I just have to let things play out.
There's no such thing. Or if there is it would be as rare to find such a person as it would for both of you winning the lottery. Couples don't stay together for many years because they love each other a lot - people that love each other get divorced every day. The ones that stay together do it primarily because they're good at tolerating each other.
That said, if you want more of an explanation from her, then ask. She owes you that much. Maybe it was you and maybe it wasn't, but only she can answer that question.
Personally, I've always viewed love affairs like I would any other relationship one might have in life, such as relationships with friends, ie, they come and go. C'est la vie. And by the time a relationship ended, I was usually more than ready to be done with it - in fact often happy to be done with it. I don't want to be with someone because we're good at tolerating each other. That's not happiness to me, that's a prison sentence.
At the very least, a relationship ending isn't worth ruminating, and they're certainly not worth feeling lost. If things don't work out, look at the bright side: you have freedom, and freedom is always something you should feel good about.
[I understand you were looking for a female's perspective but I do have some experience in this particular area so I thought I would chime in.]
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Take her down to the fancy buffet down by the bus station. She'll be so impressed
jaymaximus
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Just chill for a minute. Give her some space. She'll remember why she was with you.
You know the old saying bro: If you love something, let it go. If it was meant to be, it'll come back to you. If not, abduct her.
Good luck
Maybe you got it right about not want to commit. Maybe she is too old for you, or maybe she just don't want to put up with everything that it's going in your life.
You are clearly overestimating her in the way you talk, you are just in love
that's nice but it does make you not think clear and can easily make you misjudge the whole thing.If she was the one for you, she would still be there with you. don't you think so?
Probably she is the woman for you, but you are not the man for her
It happens, you need to look forward not behind, but first please call her and ask her why, don't beg for it, be gentle but firm and ask her for the truth, whatever it will be, tell her that it doesn't matter if it will hurt you, you WANT and DESERVE to know it so that you can first make peace with yourself about the whole thing and second you can make yourself a better person understanding what went wrong
I never advise to get back together after a serious break up. If it's not serious I would still suggest to run away from that relationship because a person that breakup like it's a game it's a dangerous one and the one that do breakup in a serious way, clearly doesn't want to be with you anymore, there are many way to trick her to feel attraction towards you again... but it's really a run uphill and it's most of the time not worth it.
Learn from it and go on, focus on your life, and next time please... find a younger woman not an older one.
Pomacanthidae
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Thanks guys. I appreciate the advice and support. I'm going to take a few days to reflect on things alone, just not talk to her and focus on my shit. After that I'll reassess how I'm feeling.
WTF!!! CBS the love doctor, who'd a thunk it[emoji15]
There is a "soft" side to CBS..... Well either that or someone hacked your account[emoji4]
I always pictured CBS like perma "who farted face" mean face contender. Like colombo. Remember that guy. The fucking detective lol
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movingiron88
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Very very wise words, listen to this. Not every relationship is worth keeping. Pussycat is a powerful drug.
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