LeoTC
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Okay well how do you define abuse? If I think I am better than you, that you are menial compared to me. Do you think we will have a healthy relationship when I think of you that way?
These assumptions are wild to you? To me it is obvious.
B Ware(and anybody in this thread) has a narcissistic personality, he thinks of women as below him. Therefore, he abuses women.
I don't mean to say that as physical abuse, but B Ware has hit women before I would say 30-40% of you have gotten physical with women.
Good, now you know how it feels to be with somebody with a strong narcissistic personality.
That's what B Ware is doing to his wife. B Ware's wife comes from a home where the Dad was abusive to the Mother. That's why she takes his crap, because she thinks that's how the world works. I have said it before, our partners are almost mirror images of us.
Keep in mind all your women have it too. Or else they wouldn't be your women. Some men, like yourself have narcissistic traits and that will sometimes lead to them being the one that always gives. I would peg you for being that type. You find pleasure in giving other's pleasure, their happiness is your happiness. It is extreme and it is deviant, you Sir. Have trauma and stress to deal with!
Bear in mind, when I say B Ware I am referring to him specifically in this case but everything applies to most you guys reading this as well.
You're assertions are still off base. I cook because I've been cooking since childhood. It's just part of my day. I also do a fair bit more laundry anyway as I'm pretty active and fancy not smelling like ass.
I've never been physically abusive.
Period.
While I won't argue that she is definitely a dyed in the wool narcissist, it had nothing to do with my activities.
If anything, if what you're saying had merit the situation would have been quite different. You couldn't even fathom her childhood.