Ben’s random thoughts

OP, u in Australia to watch the Open?

What was this, yesterday:

“And I realized that in that hotel in Melbourne I was fed with some food that poisoned me,” he said.
“I never told this to anybody publicly, but … I had a really high level of heavy metal,” he added. “I had the lead, very high level of lead and mercury.”

Did he send a pee sample to Jano for enhanced testing, lol?
 
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Someone will have to explain to me this fixation men have with anal stuff.

Where does it come from?
Gay porn, mainly?

I always think no hetero man would consider that stuff.
Like, why?

Maybe large swathes of the male population are bisexual, if not straight closet homosexual.

There is so much of this stuff talked about and referenced on this site, only, one could conclude this.

I mean, it is what it is, just noticing.
 
Someone will have to explain to me this fixation men have with anal stuff.

Where does it come from?
Gay porn, mainly?

I always think no hetero man would consider that stuff.
Like, why?

Maybe large swathes of the male population are bisexual, if not straight closet homosexual.

There is so much of this stuff talked about and referenced on this site, only, one could conclude this.

I mean, it is what it is, just noticing.
It's Tren :)
 
Someone will have to explain to me this fixation men have with anal stuff.

Where does it come from?
Gay porn, mainly?

I always think no hetero man would consider that stuff.
Like, why?

Maybe large swathes of the male population are bisexual, if not straight closet homosexual.

There is so much of this stuff talked about and referenced on this site, only, one could conclude this.

I mean, it is what it is, just noticing.
If u are a cyclist u dont have any kind of sexual problems lol , the single rates in cyclist is huge here being a footballer is the best to get girls
And idk why most cyclists i know are pretty right wing and girls dont like it looooool
 
If u are a cyclist u dont have any kind of sexual problems lol , the single rates in cyclist is huge here being a footballer is the best to get girls

It's not about getting girls or sexual problems, unless you think homosexuality is one. You are allowed an opinion and that is fine.
My post was about men here being very interested in anal stuff.

Footballers are trash.

most cyclists i know are pretty right wing and girls dont like it looooool

Not a problem for this one here, lol.
Wout Van Aert per me.
Grazie.
 
It's not about getting girls or sexual problems, unless you think homosexuality is one. You are allowed an opinion and that is fine.
My post was about men here being very interested in anal stuff.

Footballers are trash.



Not a problem for this one here, lol.
Wout Van Aert per me.
Grazie.
Sry i didnt wanted to say that is a problem(english is not my main lenguage and even in my lenguage im not that good to express myself)
but i wanted to say that most cyclists dont get sexual interaction lol, my opinion is that until they dont force it everyone can do what he want
I didnt understood the last part btw
Btw i am a mdvp fan and vingegaard i dont like pogi because he seem to be unserious
I like football but some footballers thinks that is the ultimate sport then get smoked in running by a cyclist that run 10 km max every year , also in sprints lol
 
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OP, u in Australia to watch the Open?

What was this, yesterday:

“And I realized that in that hotel in Melbourne I was fed with some food that poisoned me,” he said.
“I never told this to anybody publicly, but … I had a really high level of heavy metal,” he added. “I had the lead, very high level of lead and mercury.”

Did he send a pee sample to Jano for enhanced testing, lol?
Yeah I’m not sure why he’s bringing this up after 3 years. Maybe for motivation but idk. Probably flew Jano into Serbia for 24/7 testing and paid a little extra for “proper” results lol
 
Sry i didnt wanted to say that is a problem(english is not my main lenguage and even in my lenguage im not that good to express myself)
but i wanted to say that most cyclists dont get sexual interaction lol, my opinion is that until they dont force it everyone can do what he want
Btw i am a mdvp fan and vingegaard i dont like pogi because he seem to be unserious
I like football but some footballers thinks that is the ultimate sport then get smoked in running by a cyclist that run 10 km max every year , also in sprints lol

Oh, don't worry.
You are OK.
And also, your opinions do not have to conform to the politically correct narrative.
Mine deffo don't lol, but I ain't changing them to get in line.

Mine was a kind of a serious question, though, because a lot of men seem obsessed with anal stuff.
I find it abhorrent.
I understand a lot of it comes from porn. Bad situation.
But also it comes from many having a non hetero orientation (if not straight gay) that they often hide or do not acknowledge.

Whatever, it is what it is.
Still, I do not have to like it, you know?

Yes, footballers are just overpaid, overhyped trash.

Cyclists train incredibly hard, are mega fit, body weight to power ratios are insane, their races (well, the road ones) are long and torturous.

Just superior humans, in my book.

Thanks for the reply.

And no worries, you are cool, we like you.
If you are writing, especially to me, no worries.
It is very difficult I get offended.
I just take everything in my stride (or try to)
:)
 
Someone will have to explain to me this fixation men have with anal stuff.

Where does it come from?
Gay porn, mainly?

I always think no hetero man would consider that stuff.
Like, why?

Maybe large swathes of the male population are bisexual, if not straight closet homosexual.

There is so much of this stuff talked about and referenced on this site, only, one could conclude this.

I mean, it is what it is, just noticing.
Errrm...not to be inappropriate but there are PLENTY of women into the anal stuff as well.

I understand it is more "taboo" than the more traditional vaginal activities but I don't see a correlation between "gay porn" and "butt stuff."

If this comment was an indirect way of requesting to "can the butt stuff" talk, that's one thing (and your prerogative). However, if a serious question, then no, I don't believe it has anything to do directly with being bisexual or gay...man or woman, straight, queer, trans, whatever...it is definitely something any and all can be in to.

I won't search to see if there is some Freudian ANALysis to back up the deep seated roots of such interest but I'm confident it does not just equate to "homo"...as for why a hetero man would be into such things, this really would take MESO to new heights (or depths....) if this generated a serious discussion. Cheers!
 
Errrm...not to be inappropriate but there are PLENTY of women into the anal stuff as well.

I understand it is more "taboo" than the more traditional vaginal activities but I don't see a correlation between "gay porn" and "butt stuff."

Fair enough.
I understand that a lot of sexual stuff women are introduced to/feel they should engage with irl is often derived from pornographic material.
But, sure, many are interested in those less "conventional" activities or want to explore them, sometimes just to meet someone else's expectations, but often because that's what they enjoy.

I assumed (and so the correlation) that this kind of sexual interactions traditionally belong to (and maybe have been popularised) through gay pornography, as that is standard procedure there, I would imagine.
So, from my pov, I do tend to coalesce the two things but you are right in saying it is not necessarily attached to that sexuality.
For some it is a necessity.
For others, just a different thing.
But I have heard other women saying that they felt compelled to engage in anal sex because they were expected to, or felt judged if they refused, not because they liked it.

It's just that I have come across talk of this kind of stuff on Meso (and so by men), so often.
Forgive me if it kind of made me wonder where this preoccupation/fascination may come from.
And yes, you are right, it is mainly because it is not something that I would entertain.
 
Fair enough.
I understand that a lot of sexual stuff women are introduced to/feel they should engage with irl is often derived from pornographic material.
But, sure, many are interested in those less "conventional" activities or want to explore them, sometimes just to meet someone else's expectations, but often because that's what they enjoy.

I assumed (and so the correlation) that this kind of sexual interactions traditionally belong to (and maybe have been popularised) through gay pornography, as that is standard procedure there, I would imagine.
So, from my pov, I do tend to coalesce the two things but you are right in saying it is not necessarily attached to that sexuality.
For some it is a necessity.
For others, just a different thing.
But I have heard other women saying that they felt compelled to engage in anal sex because they were expected to, or felt judged if they refused, not because they liked it.

It's just that I have come across talk of this kind of stuff on Meso (and so by men), so often.
Forgive me if it kind of made me wonder where this preoccupation/fascination may come from.
And yes, you are right, it is mainly because it is not something that I would entertain.
Totally understand it is objectionable to many (Male and female alike)....and no one (male or female) should EVER have to feel compelled to engage in anal sex if they do not like it.

Porn has no real basis in actual human sexuality...or at least no (healthy) basis in actual real life human relationships.

Your question is a fair one. It's not one that I think can be fairly addressed AND avoid discussing it in an objectionable manner at the same time.

In my estimation, the BEST way to explore/inquire about sexual preferences/likes/dislikes is in the confines of a loving relationship (and also of course hopefully having trusted friends to discuss things with on the side...since there are plenty of relationships that devolve into manipulative and harmful situations. Now thinking ANYONE would ever feel pressured/forced to engage in any sexual behavior just to please the other party... THAT is abhorrent to me).
 
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