I’m raising a little boy right now. Hopefully two not too long from now. Self esteem and being told youre a winner when you lose are not mutually inclusive. It’s ok to lose, never OK to be complacent and happy with losing. The lack of breeding a competitive nature in a generation is why half the population is worthless now.
The day I finally realised my son was actually mine was not to long ago. My woman asked him why he was eating so much. He said "eat big get big mom" and started doing pushups. He is 6